u/zadra1

Iskreno mi se upoznaju novi ljudi. Žensko sam i imam 21 godinu, a neki od mojih hobija su igranje igrica i šetnja. Dms open i želim da i drugi nadju potencijalna prijateljstva ovde!

Everything started out good. We met a bit more than 6 months ago, and if you asked me to tell you one problem in the relationship I wouldn't know how to answer it.

As relationship progressed, one thing became really apparent. My gf is incredibly selfish. I'm talking about things like, when I ask her during an argument to change her toxic behaviours, she'll blow me off with words like "I don't think that's how it works" and completely refuse to change(more context: I would ask her to be more empathetic at least towards me, but she just says she can't without even trying). Every time we argue it's about some stupid things like me not having razors in the bathroom(we are long distance so she comes every two weeks for a week) and even tho i can get razors in 5 minutes(i live in the same building as my parents and they always have things like that) she will get insanely mad at me for not having it at the moment.

One of our problems are that we view doing things for each other differently. She expects me to make her coffee every morning because she doesn't know how to use the kitchen(she says it's really inconvenient for her to use it). And I am making coffee every morning. But when I ask her to do something for me, like passing me some item that's closer to her, that's for some reason incredibly hard for her. There was time where we lived together and I was going to work while her only job was to go to school(she didn't go) and when I would come back super tired, she would expect me to make dinner because we had an argument that day and she spent her whole day being sad.

Financial situation isn't great. I come from a country that's not as developed as hers, thus my pay is just not enough for lifestyle she wants. She wants to eat out every day, never cook if I work because "we have money for eating out now". She's used to doing that since her parents are well off. She's pushing me to earn more at time where I have to focus on getting in uni and the only way for me to do that is to work more. When I offer to cook something for her it's the same all over again, she would rather die than choose cheaper ingredients in the store. It's important to note that she basically paid for everything for few months and I'm really grateful for that, but at this point I think she became really resentful towards me because of that.

Sex became non existent over night. There's not much initiation from her side, I almost forgot how it is to be touched by the person I love. Last time we did it I was crying. She isn't interested in kissing me much as well. She says she loves me and I believe that because I can see that she wouldn't do shit for me if she wasn't in love(she wouldn't force herself to stay at my place if she despises it and she wouldn't be there for me when i have massive breakdowns).

I just don't know what to do. She told me what I have to fix and it's always something to do with me changing my personality to fit her needs. We have to stop arguing but that responsibility falls entirely on me, I don't even get to be upset when she hurts me. I know what you guys will say about this but I love her too much. Is there any way to stop the constant arguing and actually improve for the better? I just can't lose her.

Skoro sam se vratila za Srbiju posle oko 2 meseca provedena u inostranstvu. Pušač sam i motam(lepota studentskog života) i obično uzimam Mcbarren od višnje. Svidja mi se da pušim nešto sa ukusom ali ne volim cigare na klik pa mi ovo dodje savršeno.

Jel još neko imao problem da nadje taj duvan na trafici? Blizu mene ima trafika koja je uvek imala ne samo višnju, nego ponekad vanilu, čokoladu, kafu ili jabuku, ali eto pitala sam već 5 puta da li imaju ista i nemaju. Sad sam išla do Zla Shtek-a i tamo imaju samo exotic i guaranu. Jel sam nešto propustila dok sam bila u inostranstvu, malo se nerviram jer ne mogu da nadjem svoj omiljeni duvan nigde :(

Takodje se izvinjavam svima sto postavljam ovakva pitanja danas, znam da je seksi sreda