r/11tardsCBSE

. My mother was literally having a conversation with her friend. Like, this friend is like, not really close to her, but they're like, talking a while. So, like, she came to our house, and she and my mother were talking. And all that time I was beside my mother.

So, that woman was telling like, she is, like, tired of managing her house, and it is a lot of housework and all. She wants to get away from her house and, like, wants a day or two when her husband and her children don't demand anything from her. Like, she has a child who is, like, who has got into the college for context, and her husband is in, like, uh, a lawyer,

So, like, my mother was like, " Oh yeah, same, it is the same for me also, we can't get rest It was a normal chit-chat.

Then she asks about me. I told her that I have taken science, and she asked, " Are you going to give NEET? Like, no, I, I'm not sure what to do. I'm just focused on 11th, 12th because, like, I don't know what good I expect for my future, otherwise the NEET paper is getting leaked. She was like, yeah, it is the issue and all.

Then, uh, my mother asks the same for her son. And here is something, like, the conversation from here, like, I felt that something was wrong.

Like she tells us, her son is, son has qualified for the CAT exam, and he has got into a college called Symbiosis in Pune and another college in Shimla. Like, where we live, these places are far away. So, then my mother is like, okay, so where is he going?

So she tells us, like, she won't allow her son, allow her son to go to Pune because the college is great, but the environment there is not great. And my mother's like, okay.

Then she tells, like, about Shimla, like it is very far away from home. I can't let my son be away from me because he does not know, like, how to cook

. He wants, like, the food at, uh, like, his, her son is like very picky.

So, he doesn't know, like, basic skills like cooking, cleaning, and she has to take care of him, like laundry and everything. So she can't leave him, like, she has an attachment, like she is showing in this way.

And that guy, like, where we live, it is not a well-known place, and here, the place in which we live, I'm not going to disclose the location, but here there are no, like, good colleges currently.

So, but that friend, my mother's friend's, uh, my mother's friend was saying, like, she would get her son into college here only.

She wants him to be close to family and all. And I was like, okay, okay. Then, yeah, like I found it weird, like, the guy is literally going to be a college, like he is a grown person, yet still dependent on his mother

this is affecting his future seriously

In 10 th boards i scored maths-98, sci-92 sst-94. My parents wanted me to take pcm but i felt i was jnterested in commerce with core maths so i chose that. I didnt study in the first month and in periodics i scored Acc-17.5/20 in eco 11/20 in maths20/20 and bst 20/20. Whenever my father ask me if i wanna change to pcm i have a wierd feeling i can't explain. I have lots of free time and i just spend it procastinating and i was happy intially that i got free time but all my friends took pcm so i have noone to play with.

I can't really tell if i find commerce subjects interetsing or not cuz we did just 10th class stats in eco and bst we did first histroy chapter. Also in boards science i just got marks by memorizing and didn't actaully paid well attention to it cuz i never went coaching in 9th and teachers were bad af. I heard many people on reddit saying that pcm is managable and its not that hard like people scare you. I can study like 4 hrs a day and i am not interested in doing jee and nda.

The thing that is making me rethink my decision is that i don't like sst like heavy theory where we have to learn longer paras and write answers. I heard class 12th eco and bst is full theory. Also now i feel like i hv interest in pcm idk why. Although maths is my fav i have no problem with it but i dont like science subjects as much i like maths . But i also hate theory. I chose commerce vecause i prefer my mental peace and health but a friend of mine did 11th and scored 97%in pcm without much pressurw.IDK IF ITS GENUINE INTEREST CHANGE OR FOMO. Also it feel different cuz they dont teach with ncert and chem and phy are taught using ncert

Please everyone give ur suggestions and help me out

Anyone who has gone through this, what have u done?