r/30s_hyderabadsingles

Hello guys! I'm 28M. Looking to understand why people hate when you share about your sexual experience or just that moment, they treat you like an asshole even though I respect them much. Sharing sexual feelings is it an harm. Can we normalise these type of text in a limited context. Your views.

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u/Dizzy_Art8792 — 1 day ago
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rewatching Call of the Night (Yofukashi no Uta), it a good anime. I wanna share with my people here

I know there is an anime sub, but I wanted to share this with people around my age.

I am rewatching Call of the Night (Yofukashi no Uta). It's available in Japanese and English, and I think Hindi as well, along with a few other languages.

It touches on loneliness, insomnia, depression, feeling lost, and that deep sense of emptiness the story is about younger people, but I think many of us in our 30s can relate to those feelings more than we expect.

If you've been feeling a bit disconnected lately, give it a watch. You might find parts of yourself in it.

And remember, animation isn't always cartoons. Some anime tell stories that hit just as hard, if not harder, than live action shows.

https://preview.redd.it/2jj6fon846bh1.png?width=838&format=png&auto=webp&s=e44c4a9b2f847422ef2cd0974cefb16a6cb14f6a

Pic from Google Image search

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u/31_still_Loading — 4 days ago

31M Childfree + Gamer + Weeb

I'm 31M, originally from Bhopal, MP. Moved to Indore, and has been in Hyderabad for 8+ years.

Childfree by choice. Single because I haven't found the right person yet.

My profile is open, with my semi hidden photo.

I'm an introvert most of the time, occasionally extroverted. Not great at chatting or writing, so apologies if my replies are awkward.

Tried Bumble without much luck.

I love anime, video games, and tech. I have a PS5, a gaming PC, OLED monitors, and a soundbar. Basically my childhood dream setup.

I work at PepsiCo GC in Kokapet. Outside work, I enjoy exploring Hyderabad on my scooter. Sometimes breweries on weekends, sometimes just random rides. I do have occasional back pain, but it doesn't stop me much.

Like many people in their 30s, my social circle has become much smaller. Mine disappeared even faster because I'm unmarried and childfree mindset, so I'm hoping to meet like minded people and make genuine connections.

Just wanted to say hello. If any of this sounds relatable, feel free to message me.

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u/31_still_Loading — 4 days ago

Looking for friends

I’m 35 M, I stay in 1BHK near Kondapur, alone

I started some technical IT services,
Sales and support in Gachibowli very recently

Looking for good friends to discuss and build things

Discussion and somehow build circle.

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u/TomatilloLiving5738 — 5 days ago

35 M from Hyd trying here for alliance

Hi, I’m a 35-year-old (born in 1991), born and raised in Hyderabad, trying to find an alliance here, as matrimonial seems to be unproductive. Education: I have studied my Master's in Software Engineering in US and moved back to Hyderabad in 2021 due to my father's health setback due to COVID, and as the only son had to help them, currently working as a Test Automation Engineer (WFH). I come from a simple, hard-working family, and belong to the BC community and lead a clean lifestyle, don't smoke or drink, and I've never been married.

Preferences: Looking for a partner (27-35), instead of caste-specific, looking for someone who holds moral values and is from a good family, educated and has a mature mindset, communicates and can be interdependent and patient with each other and not end up fighting against each other. If she is from Hyd, that's great; if not, open to other cities, regarding career, open to discuss what works best, and will be thankful if she doesn't smoke or drink.

If the above aligns with your interests, feel free to ping . Thank you for taking the time to read

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u/Same-Kaleidoscope754 — 5 days ago
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Looking for Someone Who Still Enjoys Real Conversations

In a world of endless scrolling and dry one-word replies, I’m hoping to find someone who still enjoys meaningful conversations.
I’m someone who can happily spend hours talking about:
Mindset & psychology
Philosophy & life’s bigger questions
Love stories and relationships
Books, novels, and movies
Random “what if…” conversations at 2 AM
I’m a great listener, genuinely curious about people, and I enjoy conversations that go beyond “Hi, what’s up?”
If you’re someone who values depth, humor, and good conversation, feel free to say hello.

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u/True_Reflection_1980 — 7 days ago

Any Single F who is working in Amazon

Hi All

Looking for any single F who works in Amazon or nearby nanakramguda.

I will get much free time and don't have anyone to spend my day with.

I am looking for someone with whom I can go for tea breaks or outside lunch and for walk as well.

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u/Effective_Help_7718 — 8 days ago

Looking for a Christian single male

**39F | India | Divorced | No Kids | Looking for a Life Partner**
Hello,
I’m a 39-year-old divorced woman with no children, looking for a man who is genuinely ready for marriage and a lifelong partnership. I’m not here for casual dating, situationships, or temporary companionship. My intention is simple: to find someone with whom I can build a peaceful, meaningful life.
I’m an author by profession and a thoughtful person by nature. I take life seriously—not in the sense that I don’t enjoy it, but because I believe life has purpose. I try to live intentionally, one day at a time, appreciating the small moments while keeping sight of the bigger picture. I believe growth never stops, and the best relationships are those where two people help each other become better without trying to change who they are.
I’m someone who values honesty, loyalty, kindness, emotional maturity, and responsibility. I appreciate meaningful conversations, quiet evenings, a good sense of humor, and people who keep their word. I believe love is more than chemistry—it’s choosing each other every day through respect, trust, patience, and commitment.
I’m looking for a man who is emotionally available, dependable, and ready to invest in a marriage. Someone who values family, communicates openly, and wants a relationship built on friendship as much as romance. Life brings both beautiful and difficult seasons, and I’d like a companion with whom I can share both—the victories and the struggles, the laughter and the silence.
My past has shaped me, but it doesn’t define me. Divorce taught me resilience, self-awareness, and the importance of choosing a partner whose values truly align with mine. I have no children, and I’m entering this chapter with hope rather than bitterness.
If you’re someone who believes marriage is a partnership where two people care for one another, encourage each other, and continue growing together, I’d genuinely love to hear from you.

If you message me, please introduce yourself beyond age and profession. Tell me about the kind of life you hope to build, what you value most, and what marriage means to you.
Wishing everyone here the courage to keep believing that meaningful connections are still possible.

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u/Ill-Sheepherder-2476 — 8 days ago

June 2026 Meet-up

A funfilled lunch with engaging conversations on conspiracy theories and AI followed by peaceful stroll at Vengal Rao park .

u/celena_94 — 9 days ago
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Please normalise and regularise 35+ meetups if possible! We too wanna live again and be happy again😊!

Most of the meet ups I see are not for 35 or many of them don't connect with us! I'm still hoping for people here🤘

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u/neekendukupo — 9 days ago

A Mango Meetup?

I've been wanting to try Mango Sticky rice for a while now and so glad the guys decided to try the mango menu along with me at Nommé Kitchen. We had the Thailand Mango Sticky rice, Malaysian Mango Laksa & Mango Chili Chicken (not pictured), which did not disappoint. A fun lunch that ended with window shopping at the Broadway Store.

u/Lazy_PandaGirl — 11 days ago
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Looking for a late-night ride & chill buddy in Gachibowli (F preferred)

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Hey everyone! M27 white fair. The IT grind has been getting to me lately, and I’m looking to connect with a female friend to unwind with.

Looking for someone open-minded who enjoys office chit-chats, casual/playful banter, and especially late-night bike rides around Gachibowli to de-stress. Down for a late-night smoke/tea break and just chilling out to good music.

If you’re around the area and this sounds like your vibe, hit me up in the DMs and let's chat

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u/wild_prince0001 — 9 days ago