r/40something

(being so romantic, what a pity 😄 )

Anyway, enjoy your day !

Sometime I feel like it’s the same s*** different day. Anyone have any good tricks they use to get out of it ?

After 25 years together, I recently found out I was cheated on. I’m still trying to make sense of what that means for my relationship and for me personally.

One of the stranger parts has been realizing how little thought I’ve given in decades to how I’m perceived outside of a long-term relationship. Confidence takes a pretty good hit in a situation like this, so I’m trying to get out of my own head a little, remind myself that life continues and figure out who I am at this stage of it.

Posting a picture of myself on Reddit definitely wasn’t on my 2026 bingo card, but here we are.

10 years Army 4 tours (2xIraq and 2xAfghanistn). We getting old y'all.

Having adult money means I get to travel to beautiful places like Porto, Portugal!

Somedays I hate adulting, but….

I need to be rich, to fly, to breathe under water and to know how to cook perfectly.

Date night

It was time for a cut, the curls are curling

Just trying to make it to the weekend!

45M I’m not as confident as I make out and being a stay at home dad friends vanished quick. But here I am trying avoid bots and make new friend with as dark/dirty sense of humor as me. It’s take more then you know a pic of me too, please be nice, I know I looked like Ricky Gervase’s younger brother already

Sunday morning

And I didn’t even have anxiety the next day about it! 🙌