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When people go out of body or have communications from a medium with their loved ones, or have an NDE they often speak about how feelings and emotions are ramped up significantly, there is an overwhelming sense of love and peacefulness during the experience. They feel seen by a divine being transparently, feel sorry for their wrongs, are forgiven etc.

Why does it feel like sometimes these feelings of love, mercy, tolerance, kindness are frowned upon? I dont get it. Im not saying everything is perfect or there is no such thing as negativity or karma. But it just seems like the emphasis is never on the fact that higher beings or God can be loving and merciful. And again dont twist my words, im not saying there's no judgment or people should get away Scott free with their crimes. Definitely not. But it almost feels like "hey there's an afterlife and chance you may see your loved ones but dont forget your all karmically flawed in some way so dont hold out hope". Its so hard sometimes. I dont mean to sound sarcastic or bitter im just confused. Im just sad. Im losing people around me and I want to see them again. I dont mean any offense in this

Can we all agree on letting people know if theres an after life after we die . Some kind of code . Like flickering lights 3 times

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The night before my aunt passed away she made a comment.to which I replied "whoever passes away first , needs to give the other person a heads up . If indeed there's an afterlife . We came.to the conclusion a flickering of any light x3 would be best , the other choice was a knock on the wall . A couple of days after she passed away , I had a flash light laying on the table , battery had died over a week ago while I was using it . I'm watching tv, and the flashlight turns on and off 3 times . This happened about 3.times in a row . A few nights ago my living room light did the same thing . (Light swiths is a glass touch panel ). Ever since then I been trying to spread idea to people I know ..create a group to where we all agree that if indeed there's an after life of any sort we will let it be known ..

** The night she passed away my 10 yr old daughter came looking for me and my wife freaking out . Saying she saw my aunt in the kitchen .I called my mom and my aunt was being put into ambulance at that moment .

This was from Marilynn Hughes, she has a YouTube channel that goes into these things. She talks a lot about OBE's, hell, repentance, redemption, Higher realms etc. I asked her about reincarnation because of my fears and her answer helped me a lot so I thought I would share:

Marilynn:

One of the most important things to understand about reincarnation is that the soul is much greater than the personality we know during one earthly lifetime. We tend to think of ourselves as the person we are here—the personality, memories, circumstances and relationships of this particular life. But the soul extends far beyond that one expression. What we experience as an individual lifetime is only one portion of a much larger spiritual existence.

For that reason, I don't think we should necessarily picture reincarnation as one person leaving the afterlife, becoming someone else, and thereby becoming completely inaccessible to those who remain there. The spiritual reality is much more intricate than that. A soul can participate in an earthly incarnation while still having a spiritual existence that is not confined to the physical personality living that life.

When two souls genuinely love one another, that love creates a spiritual bond. That bond is not simply erased because one person dies, or because one person reincarnates before another.

In fact, I think the idea that we must all be in the same physical state at the same time in order to remain connected is a limitation of our earthly way of thinking. We experience time and separation so strongly here that we naturally assume they must operate in exactly the same way beyond this life. I don't believe we can assume that.

And I especially wouldn't worry about having to wait endlessly for someone you love to "catch up." The spiritual reality doesn't work according to that kind of linear timetable at all. Love is not waiting in a room for someone else to arrive. Love is a connection that already exists and remains eternally.

Some comfort to those like myself who are lost at times.

Dear Cyrus, I was reading a recent thread on reincarnation and the topic of evil came up. You mentioned this: "So anyone should also be able to sense Grandpa is evil and that soul is shall we say recycled. So this is like low low level hillbilly reality on Earth where it's just people in certain places with no redeemable qualities, and it's the families of THOSE people coming to me completely terrified that Grandpa is not waiting for them in Heaven. Well if he WERE that's not Heaven but it's emulating it. And boy are we in trouble"

My question is, why would anyone want to see this Grandpa in heaven? Especially if hes evil? My understanding is that if people want to see others there must be some connection of love or friendship. If they want to see this Evil Grandpa are they fooled by him or brainwashed? Can people have that affect on others, not allowing them to realize they're evil? Any guidance is greatly appreciated. I wouldn't want to see any evil or cruel people i knew in this life in heaven, unless they of course found a path of redemption.