Training option?
Hi all!
We’re meeting and picking out our first dog this weekend and so excited! We have an opportunity that I’m torn about and would love folks input.
We’re a busy house - 2 year old and 6 year old (who is delayed and autistic). It’s going to be HARD I know but we’ve got a personal dog trainer who works a lot with autism and therapy dogs who will be helping and I think it’s going to be long-term good for our kids.
That said, my folks (who are great with dogs and have trained lots) offered to take said pup from 8weeks to like 16 or so weeks for us and help through some of the most intensive training times. They’re retired so objectively the dog would get more support. They live 4 hours away though so I won’t be able to see the pup more than like once or twice during that time!
My main debate is this: I recognize our house is loud and chaotic and this dog will need to almost
Be a therapy level dog - I reallllly don’t want this pup to be like, miserable in our house so I thought well a puppy will just get desensitized to it? But maybe coming more trained is better? Is it too late to “get used” to our house if it comes later?
Very very tempted by the offer to help, I just want to do right by the dog and my kids
Thanks all!!