r/BodyPositive

idk man 😭 i just so bothered looking at my self in my tall mirror

i get mistook for a kid a lot even tho im adult height , but i have baby face & skinny body so i get mistook for younger. cuz i look youngerthen most guys my age. im 19 btw

idk i have awkwerd long limbs & i take up so much space it sucks 🤷‍♂️

and i have a bunch of weird scars thankfully u can't tell in this picture though

& i wish my hips were not so bigger then the rest of my body it realy realy bugs me i wish my fat could go anywhere else & not my hips but its all on my hips

i know im just being like , "sigh sigh complain complain" , 😭 but yea idk why im post realy just feel bad idk what to do 🫤

Skinny with a relatively blocky torso and narrow hips. I wish I had actual curves. And I'm not talking about super full-figured but slim and actually curvy. Think Camila Morrone or Tyla. I'll never have as small of a waist and look as curvy as they do because they have tiny ribcages and a wide pelvis. I don't know how to cope or be happy looking like this. If I get told I look "proportional" or "athletic" one more time I will lose my mind.

Edit: I forgot a lot of you think body positivity is not for skinny women. I'm already tired and feeling awful, please pick fights with someone else. Everyone else though, thank you for the advice and encouragement.

I got my wedding dress about a year ago and I absolutely LOVE my dress but I don’t love my body and fitting perfectly into a size 18 when the dress lady didn’t even bother to have me try on the size 10 definitely didn’t help. I’ve heard that that means you picked the wrong dress but I’m wondering if I just need to love my body more. I did make an appointment with a seamstress to see if I can get sleeves or something added to it but I wanted to get some positivity from here too. I love how it fits my bust and everything, I just HATE my shoulders and arms. The dress also has pockets too so that’s a win.

Edit: the more I look at this and the more I think about the last time I put on my dress, it’s less about the overall fit(although I’m not thrilled that I’m a size 18) and more that I’m insecure about my shoulders and arms being so exposed so I’m not sure what to do about that