Honestly at this crux where I feel like giving up on fetish content all together because it feels like these fake "Subs" expect everything for free or for pennies. I think a lot of this can be blamed on clip sites and people not raising their prices in like 20 years. Thoughts?
one of my (former) top subscribers who i’ve been messaging&sexting with for a few months bought me several gifts, in return for content using/wearing them. he bought me some gym clothes, a sex toy mount cushion, and a bra and some panties that he wanted me to wear and send to him: as well as a buttplug, a nipple ring and two pairs of my panties (worn for 24hr each).
i sent him videos using the mount, explaining it’s actually not that effective for me, but unfortunately i got rid of the packaging so i couldn’t return it. but nonetheless he got several videos of me riding, nude and in lingerie.
he also got at least six pictures for each piece of lingerie he wanted me to send, and pics of me wearing the nipples ring&buttplug. he also has a three free month trial of my onlyfans as a thankyou for the gifts.
after i sent all of this content, i said to him, since he was so kind to get me the gifts, i’d only charge him $50 + $15 shipping which i thought it was a good price considering the panties and bra are worn for a day each, and he literally gets a worn buttplug and nipple ring?!
he leaves me on read for a week.
when he finally replies, he was so taken aback that i asked for a shipping fee, even tho it does genuinely cost me $15 to send packages.
he then asked for me to send back the toy mount and give him the voucher code, i explained that i can’t send it back without it’s original packaging, and he’s left me on read again.
am i in the wrong here? its a little jarring to go from talking to this guy everyday to radio silence…
Sooooo I need advice . I have quite a few people wants to buy my panties tbh i don’t even know where to start.is it a good idea do yall recommend or don’t recommend?
*what’s a going rate?
*how to charge / what to charge ?
* charge for specific requests ?
*po box ?
I’m not going to share my income here but I do this full time and qualify for several apartments in the area.
However, I keep getting denied b/c I’m having a hard time actually showing proof of income… I send bank statements, but because I do fansly and OF (and they frequently use different payroll names like fenix, mass pay, and several others) they just don’t seem to like that and have declined me.
I don’t know if this would be considered fraudulent, but should I just create pay stubs for my own “business” as a freelancer? I always just tell them I do gigs like selling art and plants. It seems like they don’t take me seriously because I’m not on a full time payroll from one employer, as if being a disabled sex worker wasn’t hard enough 🙄
Has anyone else been in this situation before? How can I prove that I qualify for an apartment?
Do I show my face if a potential customer asks to? I show my face before (nothing sexual just a selfie) bc I get wanting to make sure there no catfish or bot scammer but then they disappear afterwards. Should I post a picture or stay firm in asking for money and verification first.
Hello! How are you all? I’m new to selling content and I’d like to know how things work on this platform. I’ve heard of content creators who sell directly from Reddit, driving traffic here and then redirecting people to Telegram to charge them via other apps.
My question is: can you recommend any specific subreddits where I can promote myself in this way, or is it better to post the content directly on my profile? Thanks in advance!
I’m needing your advice please. I don’t know how to end communication after a sale is completed. Buyers reach me to say hi and chat so I do! They’re nice guys but I don’t want to chat like friends. I don’t have time. I don’t know how to set boundaries. I feel bad if I don’t chat w the client after sale ends. I’ve chats going on years…. Some I wouldn’t want to and others yes.
I’m very new to this kind of work but had some bites but they just stop responding. Thought I had one bc we talk price and moved conversation. I ask 10$ for good faith they said ok ask my link and disappear just delete everything. I know it’s online but it makes me wonder am I too unattractive or old for this? Maybe they saw my face and went ew no. Maybe this isn’t for me.
Helloo
I have an all things worn shop but I'm an amateur to content creation. I'm a 4'9 bbw & milf. is there even a niche for this? How do I even promote myself on insta, x or TikTok when I feel like everywhere I look there's another beautiful women promoting herself?
It makes me feel like I can't compete with that. I know thats something i gotta eventually deal with, but did any other fellow bbw content creators feel the same when you first starting out? How did you get over those feelings ? And How do I promote without a following?
I appreciate any and all advice thanks ☺️
Soy nueva en esto y cada día aparece algo nuevo o una situación nueva.
Ingreso a mi of un tipo pidiéndome una video llamada, situación estaba disponible para ello, pero el tipo ofrecía pagarme propinas, durante la video llamada, le dije que debía cobrar un precio inicial, (él dijo que la video llamada podría terminar cuando yo quisiera que quería verme solo en ropa interior con mi trasero tratarlo mal humillarlo sin desnudarme)
Le dije que lo sentía pero si un precio inicial no podía acceder a la video llamada, es lo que mi instinto me dijo, tal vez iba a dejar propina pero como soy nueva no quiero que me estafen o que me hagan prepararme por una propina mucho más baja de lo que cobraría inicialmente.
Así que finalmente no accedí y él me dijo que estaba bien y adiós.
Estuve en lo correcto? Alguien tuvo una experiencia similar fallida? O exitosa ?
Creo que me quedó grabado lo que dicen por aquí que todo se paga por adelantado y me aferro a eso.
Un tipo el otro día dijo que quería una video llamada acordamos día horario y nunca sucedió porque según él la tarjeta no le dejaba pagar, me envió muestras de ello, pero digamos que yo me preparé para el momento por nada.
Establecí conexión con un fan compró mi ppv luego me envió una propina por conversar con el, habíamos quedado que me conectaría más tarde para sexting pero tuve una reunión familiar para ver el partido lo cual se extendió hasta tarde y no pude conectarme finalmente, por la mañana entro a of y la conversación había desaparecido y en notificaciones me aparece usuario delete me sentí bastante mal, sé que no debe ser así porque no hice nada malo, pero hablamos un montón y bueno me había quedado con la idea de que había engancho un buen fan y finalmente desapareció.
No sé si me bloqueó o eliminó su cuenta.
Alguien sabe cómo aparece un usuario si te bloquea ?
Hi! My FYP stats are terrible.
I was in the top 1% of creators by earnings for June. I have 18k followers and around 150–160 active subscribers across different tiers. However, almost all of those earnings and followers have been coming from my webcam streams and my live streams on Fansly lately.
I’ve been posting 1–2 good short videos to the FYP every day for the past month, but I’ve gotten zero paid subscribers from the FYP over the last three days. My follower count also only grows while I’m live or when I actively drive traffic from my other platforms, where I have hundreds of thousands of followers.
So it feels like Fansly itself is barely bringing me any followers at all—only about 1–4 per day, which seems ridiculously low. I’m not even talking about paid subscribers.
Is everything okay with my account? Has anyone else experienced something like this?
I’d also like to add that this account was neglected for quite a while—probably a couple of years. During that time, I posted very little content and only very rarely.
Could you share your own FYP stats and experience? I’d really appreciate hearing how it’s been working for you. Maybe it's ok stats...
Hey guys, I am finally starting my content creation journey but my budget is strictly locked at ₹20,000. I really want to make good quality short-form videos.
Right now, I am stuck choosing between:
My main priority is good video output so I can grow, and I plan to upgrade later. What do you guys think is the smarter move?
Also, please drop suggestions if there are any other specific Android phones or cameras under 20k that have great video stabilization/quality. Should I look at real-world options like the Motorola Edge or anything else? Or is a secondhand iPhone honestly my best bet? Let a beginner know!
hopefully this isn’t a repetitive question, but does anyone have specific guides/resources/posts they swear by? advice that really made a difference at the beginning? i want to make a masterlist if there isn’t already one.
*sigh* A lot of buyers are surprised or get put off that I won't just send them let's say....a five minute custom video straight after payment. They truly think effort doesn't get put into this, filming, prep, editing, uploading (especially if you have snail slow network omggg), like some of us truly take pride in our craft mhm! For me my turn around time depends on how long the video is it could take from just a few hours to two weeks but never longer than that. On average it's just a few hours though, but HELLO!!! buyers not understanding this is such a pet peeve...
Hi! It's been about a month since I started on my sites and I wanted to share tips and insights that I've learned during my time.
To start out with, I am on Fansly, Onlyfans, Loyalfans, Phrendly, and Niteflirt. I know, that's a lot of sites, but for the moment I am navigating them very week. I've made around $1300 in 4 weeks. I don't post nudes but i have sold some PPV nudes. Mostly I post sexy pics and videos.
My favorite site is Loyalfans. I love the site's UX and the subs have been very generous. I have 32 followers and 6 subs, yet this is my highest performing platform at about $750 this month. I love that subs pay to talk to you and you get to set your own prices.
It took me almost a month to get approved on Onlyfans, so that is my least performing platform.
Fansly, I've made over $200 there. Mostly people just follow and don't interact. But the ones that do have been sweet and generous.
My next highest paying platform is Phrendly. I use it to sext mostly. I don't have a following yet, so Sextpanther is not an option. I really like Phrendly. I made over $300 in the 4 weeks I've used it. I could make more if I was more active on it.
Niteflirt is really for phone sex. I have made about $300 there chatting and on some calls. I don't like calling. I'm shy. It's my least favorite platform. You also have to pay to be featured or else no one can find you. I continue to use it because you can set your message prices and I have mine set high.
What I've learned:
I can't wait to keep this up and see where it takes me! If you have ANY advice for me, pleaseeee share it! <3
Edit: forgot to add. SNAPCHAT IS NOT WORTH IT. Can’t confirm age and men on their are babies and report u when they don’t get what they want
When my income started blowing up last year, I just cruised along as a sole prop thinking an LLC would be way too much extra paperwork. Huge mistake. Now my accountant just dropped the bomb that I owe a painful $25k in self-employment taxes for the year.
If you are crossing into that 70k-80k+ territory, look into filing as an S-Corp or changing your LLC election. Seriously. When my income started blowing up last year, I just cruised along as a sole prop thinking an LLC would be way too much extra paperwork. Huge mistake. Now my accountant just dropped the bomb that I owe a painful $25k in self-employment taxes for the year.
If you are crossing into that 70k-80k+ territory, look into filing as an S-Corp or changing your LLC election. Seriously. Standard LLC tax treatment still hits you with that massive 15.3% self-employment tax on everything. S-Corp structure lets you split your income into salary and distributions, saving you thousands.
I’m having issues with Reddit taking down my posts as soon as I make them. Even in groups I’ve posted to or verified in before. I’ve tried to make an appeal but it says my account isn’t restricted. Is anyone else having these issues? I’m thinking that making a whole new account is the only way to get around it😭😭
Recently I’ve been keeping up with SWCEO and Melrose Michales is claiming that mass messaging is dead in 2026.
She claims that subscribers often times finds them spammy; they go unopened and not purchased.
We do exist in a space infested with digital vermin (agencies), and so I wonder if these mass messages can be perceived as management delivered. Because of this, I also find that messaging online fans can come across as swindling and deceptive as well. Of course, these bedbugs copied most of the business models from successful independent women and lurk in these subreddits, so it’s not completely avoidable, but it is frustrating.
Another truth to this could be that the fans want more 1 on 1 connections; of course that holds a massive amount of verity here.
It’s a topic that hold quite a bit of nuance that I have yet to see anyone else touch on or barely speak about. If I’m wrong, I’ll take this post down but I went to the search bar here and it’s mostly just technical difficulties.
Me personally, I send out mass messages, but I can’t help but wonder if my income would increase if I approached a different strategy. I have over 1000 fans and so I invest in a CRM tool to keep better track of my business, but even that is a learning curve that I’m still familiarizing myself with.
I wonder if a good way to replace mass messaging would be to post an update on the feed and inquire about who would want the PPV in their DMS. Example,
Feed post:
(gif preview)
☆ new JOI ☆
sooo you've been humping your hand raw to the thought of me, haven't you gooner?
want the full video? like this post and I’ll slide it straight to your DMs. don’t keep me waiting, pretty boy.
This is just my own personal example so everyone will differ in their vernacular.
To conclude this post, I want to ask you all… do you still use mass messaging? Why or why not? If you don’t, what alternative routes have you taken that you find beneficial? How do you feel about this in general?
Just an open discussion post because I find this to be an interesting topic.