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21 [M4F] - Bangalore, ABF is more than just sucking nipples, it is a vulnerable connection

I'd wake you up with your tits in my mouth, you'd wake up to the sound of me sucking your tits. With your nipples so wet. And covered in my saliva.

I always wanted to try ABF, I think I have it in me but I didn't find the right people for me to explore and I'd like to change that with someone open minded , to look at your eyes while I suck your nipples while your hand brushes my hair and we both connect emotionally, to have that warmth of laying in your lap and wrapped in your arms.

I also wanna cuddle with you so bad, Our skin rubbing against each other while our warm breath brushes each other while we are in the bed looking at each other with anticipation, And I grab you by your waist and pull you close to me and caress your back while my other hand tucks your hair behind your ear and then cups your face,

We breathe into each other's mouths with relief.

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u/Expensive-Skirt-5594 — 7 hours ago

Anyone SUGARDADDY here for something intentional, not ordinary???

19F. I tend to gravitate toward men who are a little older, a little more experienced, and very sure of themselves.

I’m naturally soft, a bit playful, and I enjoy being around a man who knows how to take the lead and keep things interesting. Effort, consistency, and knowing how to treat a woman properly never go unnoticed with me.

I appreciate effort when it’s real.

If you think we’d match that energy, don’t be shy.

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u/New_Signal414 — 10 hours ago
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If Everyone's seeking someone, why are dating apps, reddit filled with lonely people??

I am 23M. Been in Bangalore for about an year for work. I ve had many conversations with my office peers, friends and all of them seem to have one common problem. They don't find or to put it in a better way, are struggling to get friends of opposite gender with or without the intention of dating. I myself too have had this problems and at times it irritates me. It's difficult to meet people or the idea of having a random conversation with a stranger is still seen as a superior effort in current scenario. I myself go to gym regularly for about 2 months and I haven't had any acquaintances or friends till date. Talked to few people but after a few days they act as if we've never spoken. I go to gym alone, workout and comeback. At times it gets frustrating, what special do I need to do to get this basic things. My office environment is good but severely lacks people of my age. I know it makes me seen as desperate but isn't having friends of the opposite gender a basic need in these times? I think we should have enough friends of opposite gender so that we just don't talk to them with the intention of dating. This scarcity of opposite gender friends have put a thought on my head that I won't get enough female friends, it's better I end up dating the one I ever find. I know it's wrong. I am at times severely bothered by the lack of female friends. I feel we should introduce people we know to our social circle not everytime, but often, for the benefit of acquaintances, networking... What's your thoughts people? How do u overcome this?

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u/Gloomy-Inevitable-74 — 11 hours ago

Seeking for a genuine relationship with a sugar daddy

Myself Arti seeking for a genuine relationship with a sugar daddy who can invest on me in every possible way I am 23 year oldie girl kind of lil petite and chubby it's a mix up

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u/Lower_Designer_4684 — 14 hours ago

People who never move on from their ex and start dating

21F, straight, never been in a relationship before college because I genuinely had other priorities. Then I started dating and somehow kept attracting the same type of men: the “still in love with his ex” species.

First guy? 3 months in, I find out he’s still hung up on his ex. Left immediately because why am I competing with someone from your past while giving you my all?

Second guy was avoidant as hell (totally my type🤩). We started as friends, caught feelings, and he claimed he was over his ex. Then one random snap implied they still talked. I instantly started detaching emotionally and eventually ghosted him. Hardest thing ever because I was getting withdrawal symptoms when I wasn't talking to him.

Then came the final boss. Love bombed me perfectly because I was emotionally starving. One month in, I’m at his place, he’s showing me something on his work phone, and my gut says something’s off. I check it, nothing suspicious. Then an Insta notification pops up on his personal phone. I ask him to open it and suddenly this man turns ICE COLD. Refuses to show me but says he can “give the password later.” Weird as fuck.

I hand him my own phone immediately because I had nothing to hide. He still refuses, tells me to pack my stuff, and offers to drop me home while acting completely normal on the ride back like he didn’t just psychologically uppercut me.

Next morning he sends a paragraph explaining everything. Turns out he had a private spam account where he only followed his ex just to keep up with her life. I said it's okay babe aap mujhse bs gandi batein kr skte ho kyuki pyaar toh apko bs apni ex se hai aur shadi toh ap mummy psnd se kroge 🤩 Emotional cheating is also cheating

IDK Man DON'T TALK TO ME UNLESS YOUR EX IS LIKE DEAD OR SOMETHING I DON'T HAVE TIME FOR THIS SHIT...

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u/Quick_Refuse_4364 — 1 day ago
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“Monogamy” used to mean one partner. Now it means one partner at a time 😭

u/trial-dog — 1 day ago

Girl/boy should be virgin or not ?

What's your take on being a virgin ?

I want to ask girls why they see a virgin boy as a loser

I want to know why guys see virgin girl pure

Would request both men/ women answer honestly!

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u/CompleteReach8722 — 23 hours ago

21F want a genuine sugar arrangement

so basically, I’m trying to find this thing out, a mutually beneficial sugar relationship.

for a bit of context, i haven’t done this before but I have been around older men therefore, i’m not unsure about getting into this in anyway.

I want someone with whom i can develop a good bond with, someone who can take care of me, spoil me and more and in return i stay by their side, devoted to just them.

so hit me up if you’re up for something like this or you can also give me suggestions on where to seek a similar arrangement!.

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u/ladyseastarr — 1 day ago

Which of the following photos can be used on dating apps?

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Any 2 i can upload on hinge

So pls any 2 suggestions out of these

u/Small_Station5941 — 1 day ago

Anyone who wants a bf?🥀🥀

Yes I'm single and dating apps are shit so ab reddit pe I'll try 🫪🫪 anyone interested? just need someone to talk🥲🫠🫠

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u/ForGot10God19 — 1 day ago

Successful in Life, But Still Alone

Hey guys,
Writing this post with a heavy heart. I’m 25M. I have been single all my life. It’s not like I have never tried getting in a relationship but somehow I was busy in my life with other priorities for the first 23 years and now when I’m willing to come in a relationship for last 2 years it’s I honestly feel stuck when it comes to relationships. Nothing seems to work for me not dating apps, not social situations, nothing. The frustrating part is that in almost every other area of life, I’ve done well. I have a good job, education, a home, a vehicle and I’m still working hard to achieve more. But being single is the one thing that keeps bothering me deeply.

And honestly, I don’t think I’m some terrible guy who “deserves” to be alone. That’s what confuses me the most. I’ve worked on myself for years, I’m social, I’ve joined activities and I do have female friends. The only issue is that there simply aren’t many women around me regularly not at work or in my day-to-day environment.

What makes it worse is hearing women say things like, “If a guy is 25+ and has never had a girlfriend, that’s a red flag.” That gets in my head sometimes and makes me feel like maybe I’m already too late for all this.

At this point, I genuinely don’t know how to connect with women romantically. I’ve tried a lot of things, but nothing has led anywhere. Meanwhile, I see guys who cheat, disrespect their partners, or don’t value relationships at all and somehow they still get into relationships easily. It feels unfair because I know many of my friends as well who are genuinely good men and are also single despite having their lives together.

People often say “work on yourself,” but I don’t even know what else I’m supposed to improve anymore. Compared to most men my age, I’ve already built a solid life. Yet I still feel like I’m missing the one thing that matters most: someone to share life, emotions, happiness, and love with.

That’s what hurts the most having everything else in place, but still feeling alone.

TL;DR:
I’ve worked hard and built a stable life, but I still struggle badly with dating and relationships. Dating apps and social efforts haven’t worked, and I don’t understand why since I don’t think I’m a bad partner candidate. Seeing unhealthy people easily get relationships while good men stay single feels frustrating and unfair. I’m starting to worry I’m “too late” and honestly don’t know how to connect with women romantically anymore.

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u/OddConcentrate4884 — 2 days ago

My friend got all in with a girl

My friend was talking to a girl lately who has a high bod count. He at first just wanted to impress her to satisfy his ego. Now when after a lot of shit, she agreed and showed feelings for him. They had s*x last week. Now my friend who hasnt had any relationship, wants to marry her. What I should say is he wanted everything from her but was against marrying her before because he considered her a sl*t. But now when he got all in, he is ready to marry. What should I call him a simp, blind man, or something else. Because he deserves a better one.

(No offence for women)

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u/Such-Airport6350 — 2 days ago

Request to all men

I sincerely request men to stop slide in the women dm section and make them feel good and make yourself feel like a loser don't focus on women or love just focus on career and after marriage also never be a stupid man.

Don't disrespect women but stop being an option for women.

Don't focus on sex either .

When you don't chase.

You attract them.

Be a worthy man .

I saw a lot of men in the women's comment section.

Izazat ki maa bhen mt krwao

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u/CompleteReach8722 — 3 days ago

[24F, Delhi/NCR] need a respectful, mutually beneficial arrangement with a mature man

Need a respectful, mutually beneficial arrangement with a mature, generous older man who enjoys good company, dinners, movies, music, and meaningful conversations. I like being treated with kindness and consistency, and I value discretion, emotional maturity, and clear communication.

I prefer taking things slow and I’m not comfortable with anything physical unless I genuinely feel safe and comfortable with.

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u/Clarence30 — 3 days ago