u/OkMind6268

Hey everyone,

Sharing a small story that happened to me yesterday. I was enjoying my Sunday when suddenly a notification popped on my phone: “WhatsApp call from T\*\*\*\*\*a".

A small backstory:

I matched with this girl a year back. She was pretty and caring and all, whatever. But we vibed a lot. We went on long drives; I went to her house to eat mangoes as she and I both love mangoes. We went for cafes and all that date shit. I was in love with her since the 4th day of our conversation.
When I asked for something serious, she said, "Abhi toh main ek bahut toxic relationship se nikli hoon, so I need some time". Her ex used to treat her badly apparently and used to hit her.
Days went by.
We used to talk once a week or so.
After some time, she got into a faltu sa dental college, and I helped her in her counselling as well, I mean from selecting colleges to post-counselling rounds.
I myself am a medico, so I know things here, in case you all are wondering.
I helped her out in her sems and internal exams, used to teach her even in between my professional exams.
We used to talk like once a month, woh bhi hi hello how are you and all. Once we talked about our future… I said I will wait for you; she said ki mat ruko mere liye, but she disagreed when I asked if she is in a relationship.

Cut to yesterday:

I picked up the call and she immediately dropped it. I messaged her "??" She replied with "fuck off. Mere se baat mat karo.” I asked what happened in a very polite way. She said, “Mere boyfriend ko nahi pasand ki hum baat karte hain.” I said ki what? We hardly talk, aur main saamne se tumhein text bhi nahi karta. She said "lol".
I thought fuck it. And I blocked her from my Insta and wp.

Now I wonder:
What was my fault?
Why did I hear the cuss?
What is with simply saying that I am in a relationship or I like someone else?
What the hell is this game?

Pata hai aaj kya hua

Hey everyone,

Sharing a small story that happened to me yesterday. I was enjoying my Sunday when suddenly a notification popped on my phone: “WhatsApp call from T\*\*\*\*\*a".

A small backstory:

I matched with this girl a year back. She was pretty and caring and all, whatever. But we vibed a lot. We went on long drives; I went to her house to eat mangoes as she and I both love mangoes. We went for cafes and all that date shit. I was in love with her since the 4th day of our conversation.
When I asked for something serious, she said, "Abhi toh main ek bahut toxic relationship se nikli hoon, so I need some time". Her ex used to treat her badly apparently and used to hit her.
Days went by.
We used to talk once a week or so.
After some time, she got into a faltu sa dental college, and I helped her in her counselling as well, I mean from selecting colleges to post-counselling rounds.
I myself am a medico, so I know things here, in case you all are wondering.
I helped her out in her sems and internal exams, used to teach her even in between my professional exams.
We used to talk like once a month, woh bhi hi hello how are you and all. Once we talked about our future… I said I will wait for you; she said ki mat ruko mere liye, but she disagreed when I asked if she is in a relationship.

Cut to yesterday:

I picked up the call and she immediately dropped it. I messaged her "??" She replied with "fuck off. Mere se baat mat karo.” I asked what happened in a very polite way. She said, “Mere boyfriend ko nahi pasand ki hum baat karte hain.” I said ki what? We hardly talk, aur main saamne se tumhein text bhi nahi karta. She said "lol".
I thought fuck it. And I blocked her from my Insta and wp.

Now I wonder:
What was my fault?
Why did I hear the cuss?
What is with simply saying that I am in a relationship or I like someone else?
What the hell is this game?

24M Doctor to be in Kolkata looking for something real ❤️

Hi everyone,

This might be an unusual post, but life is short, so why not try, also fed up with the dating apps and all.

I’m a 24 yo 4th year MBBS student currently in Kolkata. I’m hoping to find someone with whom I can build something meaningful—not a situationship, not a hookup, just a genuine relationship that could eventually become a lifelong partnership.

\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\-----------------------------------------------------------
A little about me:
24M

4th year MBBS student

5’8”

Love solo travelling (Tawang has been one of my favorite trips so far)

Enjoy long conversations, spontaneous plans, and dark humor in the right company

Not into clubbing every weekend, but I do enjoy trying new cafés and exploring the city

Family oriented and believe loyalty is the bare minimum

Looking for someone I can laugh with, support through life’s ups and downs, and eventually call my best friend

I an not perfect at all. Medical school can be exhausting, and sometimes I overthink things more than I should. But if I care about someone, I give my full effort and stay committed.

\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\-----------------------------------------------------------
Who I’m looking for:
Around 21–24 years old

Kind, emotionally mature, and honest

Lives in or around Kolkata (or doesn’t mind the distance if things click)

Someone who wants a serious relationship rather than casual dating

Good communication matters more to me than looks

\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\-----------------------------------------------------------
If this resonates with you, feel free to send me a DM introducing yourself. Even if nothing romantic comes of it, I’d be happy to make a new friend.

Who knows? Maybe Reddit works in mysterious ways.

24M Doctor to be in Kolkata looking for something real ❤️

Hi everyone,

This might be an unusual post, but life is short, so why not try, also fed up with the dating apps and all.

I’m a 24 yo 4th year MBBS student currently in Kolkata. I’m hoping to find someone with whom I can build something meaningful—not a situationship, not a hookup, just a genuine relationship that could eventually become a lifelong partnership.

\\\\\\\\-----------------------------------------------------------
A little about me:
24M

4th year MBBS student

5’8”

Love solo travelling (Tawang has been one of my favorite trips so far)

Enjoy long conversations, spontaneous plans, and dark humor in the right company

Not into clubbing every weekend, but I do enjoy trying new cafés and exploring the city

Family oriented and believe loyalty is the bare minimum

Looking for someone I can laugh with, support through life’s ups and downs, and eventually call my best friend

I an not perfect at all. Medical school can be exhausting, and sometimes I overthink things more than I should. But if I care about someone, I give my full effort and stay committed.

\\\\\\\\-----------------------------------------------------------
Who I’m looking for:
Around 21–24 years old

Kind, emotionally mature, and honest

Lives in or around Kolkata (or doesn’t mind the distance if things click)

Someone who wants a serious relationship rather than casual dating

Good communication matters more to me than looks

\\\\\\\\-----------------------------------------------------------
If this resonates with you, feel free to send me a DM introducing yourself. Even if nothing romantic comes of it, I’d be happy to make a new friend.

Who knows? Maybe Reddit works in mysterious ways.

24M Doctor to be in Kolkata looking for something real ❤️

Hi everyone,

This might be an unusual post, but life is short, so why not try, also fed up with the dating apps and all.

I’m a 24 yo 4th year MBBS student currently in Kolkata. I’m hoping to find someone with whom I can build something meaningful—not a situationship, not a hookup, just a genuine relationship that could eventually become a lifelong partnership.

\\-----------------------------------------------------------
A little about me:
24M

4th year MBBS student

5’8”

Love solo travelling (Tawang has been one of my favorite trips so far)

Enjoy long conversations, spontaneous plans, and dark humor in the right company

Not into clubbing every weekend, but I do enjoy trying new cafés and exploring the city

Family oriented and believe loyalty is the bare minimum

Looking for someone I can laugh with, support through life’s ups and downs, and eventually call my best friend

I an not perfect at all. Medical school can be exhausting, and sometimes I overthink things more than I should. But if I care about someone, I give my full effort and stay committed.

\\-----------------------------------------------------------
Who I’m looking for:
Around 21–24 years old

Kind, emotionally mature, and honest

Lives in or around Kolkata (or doesn’t mind the distance if things click)

Someone who wants a serious relationship rather than casual dating

Good communication matters more to me than looks

\\-----------------------------------------------------------
If this resonates with you, feel free to send me a DM introducing yourself. Even if nothing romantic comes of it, I’d be happy to make a new friend.

Who knows? Maybe Reddit works in mysterious ways.

24M Doctor to be in Kolkata looking for something real ❤️

Hi everyone,

This might be an unusual post, but life is short, so why not try, also fed up with the dating apps and all.

I’m a 24 yo 4th year MBBS student currently in Kolkata. I’m hoping to find someone with whom I can build something meaningful—not a situationship, not a hookup, just a genuine relationship that could eventually become a lifelong partnership.

\-----------------------------------------------------------
A little about me:
24M

4th year MBBS student

5’8”

Love solo travelling (Tawang has been one of my favorite trips so far)

Enjoy long conversations, spontaneous plans, and dark humor in the right company

Not into clubbing every weekend, but I do enjoy trying new cafés and exploring the city

Family oriented and believe loyalty is the bare minimum

Looking for someone I can laugh with, support through life’s ups and downs, and eventually call my best friend

I an not perfect at all. Medical school can be exhausting, and sometimes I overthink things more than I should. But if I care about someone, I give my full effort and stay committed.

\-----------------------------------------------------------
Who I’m looking for:
Around 21–24 years old

Kind, emotionally mature, and honest

Lives in or around Kolkata (or doesn’t mind the distance if things click)

Someone who wants a serious relationship rather than casual dating

Good communication matters more to me than looks

\-----------------------------------------------------------
If this resonates with you, feel free to send me a DM introducing yourself. Even if nothing romantic comes of it, I’d be happy to make a new friend.

Who knows? Maybe Reddit works in mysterious ways.

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24M Doctor to be in Kolkata looking for something real ❤️

Hi everyone,

This might be an unusual post, but life is short, so why not try, also fed up with the dating apps and all.

I’m a 24 yo 4th year MBBS student currently in Kolkata. I’m hoping to find someone with whom I can build something meaningful—not a situationship, not a hookup, just a genuine relationship that could eventually become a lifelong partnership.

\\-----------------------------------------------------------
A little about me:
24M

4th year MBBS student

5’8”

Love solo travelling (Tawang has been one of my favorite trips so far)

Enjoy long conversations, spontaneous plans, and dark humor in the right company

Not into clubbing every weekend, but I do enjoy trying new cafés and exploring the city

Family oriented and believe loyalty is the bare minimum

Looking for someone I can laugh with, support through life’s ups and downs, and eventually call my best friend

I an not perfect at all. Medical school can be exhausting, and sometimes I overthink things more than I should. But if I care about someone, I give my full effort and stay committed.

\\-----------------------------------------------------------
Who I’m looking for:
Around 21–24 years old

Kind, emotionally mature, and honest

Lives in or around Kolkata (or doesn’t mind the distance if things click)

Someone who wants a serious relationship rather than casual dating

Good communication matters more to me than looks

\\-----------------------------------------------------------
If this resonates with you, feel free to send me a DM introducing yourself. Even if nothing romantic comes of it, I’d be happy to make a new friend.

Who knows? Maybe Reddit works in mysterious ways.