r/DecenteringMen

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NEVER have a man's baby out of wedlock

So my BIL (brother in law), golden boy narcissist, is coupled up with a woman who he has impregnated twice without a RING. She is currently pregnant with their second child. No ring. No engagement. No nothing. Woman is still working full-time, probably does the majority of household chores, and child-rearing. Keep in MIND....She rubs his shoulders and caters to him. The other day she was resting, seven months pregnant, and he put her to WORK. Made her do some manual labour even tho she was exhausted and getting petulant with her. I AM TELLING YOU RIGHT NOW NEVER TRUST A MAN AND CATER TO HIM. THEY WILL RESENT YOU ESPECIALLY IF THEY ARE A NARC. At a mutual gathering, he was blatantly flirting with another woman in front of her. NEVER TRUST THEM AND DON"T HAVE THEIR KID UNLESS THEY HAVE INVESTED HEAVILY OR ARE MORALLY SOUND PEOPLE.

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u/Spirited_Advance_987 — 11 days ago
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No matter the decade, women have always had dreams of their own: Iranian women(2003)

Video credit: Dream of Silk, Kabeh abrisham: Young girls' aspirations and hopes in Iran

• Director: Nahid Rezai
• Release Year: 2003
• Premise: The director returns to her former all-girls high school in Tehran 25 years after graduating to interview a new generation of teenage girls.

u/Maximum_Walt — 12 days ago

Book club?

I started reading a book called, “Deconstructing Desire: A Somatic Guide to Decentering Men.” It is fantastic and has questions at the end of each chapter I feel like would be good for discussion.
I just ended a 3.5 year relationship. I am a 26 F and all of my friends are in long term relationships. I was wondering if anyone would like to do an informal book club or even talk about some of the ideas in the book?

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u/StockIntroduction900 — 13 days ago