Am I stupid for choosing Software Engineering even though everyone around me is against it?
I’m 21 and planning to enroll in Software Engineering at SLIIT next month. I’ve always wanted to do CS, but I was pushed into a different path for ALs, and honestly one of my biggest regrets is not having the balls to say no back then.
Now I finally have the chance to choose what I actually want, but basically my whole family and friends are against it. I also depend on my family for the course fees, so it’s not like I can just ignore them.
I understand their concerns layoffs, AI, unemployment, competition etc. They’re not completely wrong. But I genuinely like this field and I’m willing to put in the work beyond the degree.
I guess I’m just looking for opinions. How would you convince your family that SE/CS is still a reasonable path in 2026? And am I being stupid by choosing something I actually want despite the risks?