r/DuggarsSnark

Whenever I see pictures (obviously from the past) or hear voice recordings of him he seems really high. Like I’ve been really high and that’s what I get from him. I’m watching Stephanie Soo’s videos so that’s where this is coming from. Maybe he’s just a bumbling baboon and barely knows where he is. Delete if this lacks nuance but I just wanted to know if I’m the only one

I hear it would save 2k per kid, would any of them try it or are they penny wise and pound foolish with money?

Does anyone else agree with me that prisons should have laundries for a diaper service and enlist cons with convictions Josh and Joe for the job?

for a group of people that think a girls wedding day is the most important, the Duggar boys seems to be so lazy about asking the women they claim to be in love with to marry them. I know the Duggar boys are lazy but come on.

Josh - we all know this proposal, but Gatorland? like who greenlit that and thought it would be good.

john - I think John had a nice proposal, but it felt very John centered. I don’t think Abbie cared about planes until she met John.

Joe - Kendra couldn’t even get her own day, he had to do it at joys wedding. regardless of joy being ok with it or not, Kendra‘s courtship proposal was also awful, it was infront of a dirt patch where Joe grew up.

Josiah - I actually liked Josiah‘a proposal. it’s was private, simple and meant something to Lauren. not only was it on her grandparents farm but it was in the exact spot her parents got engaged at.

Jed - I like the aesthetic of Jed’s proposal but from the video these two were so awkward. did not seem like a couple in love to get married.

Jere - this one seemed kind of lazy. go to a pretty spot and drop on one knee. also this was on some church grounds where it specified to bot to do photography on, but like the always have done rules for thee not for me. I guess it being a catholic church its doesn’t count for them.

jason - this was fine but trendy. nothing original or personal to Maddie and just got it from instagrams. this was the beach proposal with the big letters.

justin - he dropped on one knee in a random park.

In laws:

Derick - it was definetly the show that got the songwriter, but other than the personal song, he did the same thing Justin did, but the song made it better.

Ben - Ben is definetly more thoughtful and did the church that jessa wanted but the scavenger hunt was just for tv and jessa didn’t seem to enjoy it.

Jeremy - this was also for tv, but it was nice and personal to Jinger. She loved NY. They loved NY. And a rooftop proposal with music. Not original But a classic a lot of girls would be happy with.

Austin - this was a pretty scenery with a dinner afterwards. Make sense this is more plain jane since he is the most Duggar like in law. not the worst proposal but not much effort or connection to joy.

Stephen - we still don’t know how he proposed so I can judge it. It’s was probably simple but more effort than any Duggar boy.

why are the Duggar boys so lazy for something that is supposed to be so important to them. plus they had the tv show for a lot of these so these could have been done much better.

It's probably because viewers feel some of his "story" is the same as his brothers, and the shocking details of his family is old news now to those of us that have followed from the beginning of their channel. There just doesn't seem to be the coverage and the outrage over Joseph as there was with Josh. It's just more of a same old same old, even though it's awful. Anyway, the one person I'd like to review everything about Josh and his trial etc. is the SoJo Files that was on YouTube. Anyone remember her? I loved the coverage she did, but I can't find her anywhere. Is it still around and why hasn't she done anything on Joseph/Kendra?

At one time all the duggar children learned to play the violin & piano as a daily family activity. I wonder if they kept that going with the younger children. Also is there an age when the older children were able to decide to no longer play instruments, or is it a daily thing until they marry & move out?

Weird question I hope I can word it clearly. We all know the Duggars grew up with a kajillion siblings around at all times, but now most of them that are parents have more manageable numbers of kids. Isn't Jessa the only one with five or more?

My question is this: do they even know how to parent the amount of kids they do have? It seems like giving a child one on one attention from mom and dad would be foreign to them. They are used to sistermoms, and kids constantly having other siblings to play with, which likely wouldn't necessarily be the case for having 1-2 siblings. Aside from Jessa who's trying to have as many kids as possible, and Pest who obviously didn't care about/for his kids at all (or well enough), do you think they're halfway decent parents given their childhoods were so chaotic and exploitative? And given their actual parents barely parented them, if at all?

The boys were not brotherdads. Boob and Meech specifically "didn't let" them take care of any kids because they were afraid they'd violate their siblings like Pest did. Yes theoretically they were around others caring for kids but that doesn't mean they're capable of doing any of it or that they picked any of it up.