r/FlirtingOrFriendly

I made friends with a guy in work after we had a few online meetings and realised we had things in common (he pointed out how we seem to have a lot in common) and I was helping him with a specific, but personal issue, we both said we find the other easy to talk to.

There has now been some flirting which turned into seriously sexually explicit talk. He's been single for a while. I know he finds me sexually attractive and he has called me sexy several times. However, I know he is enjoying the attention after being single for some time so I assuming this is all that it is for him, as he has mentioned not being fussy.

However, he once said in one of our meetings that I was looking radiant. He also complimented my social media profile picture in a meeting (he said I looked "very lovely.")

I haven't had many male friends as an adult so not really sure (plus I'm autistic so never sure about social stuff).

There is a woman I know from my college who I'm quite good friends and she often approaches me enthusiastically asking to work with me on projects. She has complemented me on some random things, like my confidence and she told me I'm a very strong speaker once. But one time we was working together on a project, and she randomly asked me "if you were a bird, what bird would you be?" I can't remember what I said, but she followed up by saying "I think you'd be an Eagle. You just have that kind of vibe". Was she trying to flirt or is that a pretty normal thing to say?

Ich bin Kundin in einem Unternehmen. Der dortige Mitarbeiter betreut mich (sehr gut). Beim ersten Termin hatte er eine Aufgabe, diese hatte er dann einem Kollegen zugewiesen, so dass er dann bei mir am PC mit stand (war eig völlig unnötig mit mir dazustehen, da er das Ergebnis so und so erfahren hätte). Naja er philosophierte dann mit mir vorm PC.. Beim nächsten Termin war meine Freundin mit anwesend. Der Mitarbeiter kam direkt zu mir "gerannt" als er mich gesehen hat und gab mir die Hand. Weiterhin hat er mir dann ziemlich viel noch erzählt gehabt. Meine Freundin fragte mich im Nachgang, woher ich den bitte so gut kenne. Bei einem weiteren Termin hatte ich mich ebenso mit ihm unterhalten, verabschiedete mich und wollte los. Nach der Verabschiedung kam er dann nochmal um ein weiteres Gespräch anzufangen. Im allg. ist er im Gegensatz zu den anderen Mitarbeitern sehr freundlich und zuvorkommend, hat mich auch mal geneckt. Die anderen Kollegen, die eig genauso zuständig wären für mich, nehmen mich nicht einmal wahr, erkennen mich nicht. Er hat mich nach dem ersten Mal direkt wiedererkannt. Beim letzten Treffen war es so, dass er mich von hinten erkannt haben muss, weil er dann neben mir gefahren ist, um nochmal zu schauen, ob ich es wirklich bin und dann hat er mir den Weg abgeschnitten um mich zu begrüßen (ich war Fußgänger). Wie würdet ihr das Verhalten zuordnen? Mit Necken meine ich, dass er mich in einer Situation aufgezogen hat. Ich bin die ganze Zeit am überlegen, ob ich mir hier etwas einbilde oder so. Ehrlich gesehen hab ich anfangs gar nichts gemerkt, ich habe erst nachdem meine Freundin mich gefragt hat, woher ich ihn so gut kenne, darüber nachgedacht.

My coworker 40f and I 41M have been friends and got really close as we work on a project together... today i walked by her office looked in and we locked eyes for like 10 seconds felt like an hour... no words.. there was something different there and I couldn't take my eyes off her... I feel like there more there...

had this friend for about 4 months and has gotten really close, but i cant tell if shes playfully flirting and very touchy or is actually flurting.

last time we hang out a few things happend and like i feel like she has to be flurting.

-sat at a table playing TTRPGS wrapped her legs round min and pulled them close to her under the table.

-kept taking my glasses and rings to ware

-stoll her vape and joked that shed need to ask me for it.

after texted and joked that i should have made her beg, she replied she would have.

-reason i dont think shes flurting she VERY rarely message me first, but i do also message everyone daily.

-i know she likes to teas people

trying to figure it out before and think about how i feel before confronting her

F (22) just got her first time clubbing, never got a guy approached irl. I was enjoying the night when a guy came by my side. He was casually dancing, no hard pushing, and there were times his hands were placed on my shoulder. I felt like he was somewhat into me, and I was too.

Then he told me "Your outfit looks cute". Too stuttered due to 1st time clubbing + no flirting experience so silly me said "Thank you" /(ㄒoㄒ)/

After that we still danced side by side but he didn't approach anymore. 10m later my friend got me back home. Did I put him off by thank you?

So, girls and guys, how should you flirt back, or at least, respond to guys in the clubs? And normally what the conversation after that would be like?