r/FortyAndFlirtyLounge

40+ music taste change?

I've always had an eclectic music taste . Very wide range . But lately its been new funk . Slow . R&B. I don't know if its age , the fact that most new music is dogshit ,wrapped in catshit with daddy issues , face tattoos and a fentanyl habit. Or is it just me? Recommendations if this is your music vibe.

u/Various_Horror7649 — 2 days ago

I want to thank you all for just being you. This is an amazing group!! Just bummed big time

I am super bummed currently…. I had 3 amazing ducks at my farm in a pen that was well protected…. Except something somehow got in and killed all 3. I am 44 and seriously cried over a duck. Well ducks.

u/WheatlandCaffeine — 3 days ago

So... discovered a new music artist🤔

Her name is Sofia Isella...

Gurl... the facts that she spits. I wnt post her videos or lyrics here. But look up the lyrics to Above The Neck... and then just keep looking up moreof her song lyrics.

She is stepping... no stomping on some tails. I hope nothing happens to her... coz people need to wake up out of this bs illusion that is perpetuated all around them.

If yall went a bit down the lyrical rabbit hole... leme know what you guys think. I think we need more people like her. System Of A Down also told us the truth... we just forgot about it.

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u/Belthezare — 3 days ago

Grace & Grit — Conversation No. 5: Boundaries

Boundaries are not just about saying no. They are about knowing what we are willing to accept, what we need from others, and what we need to stop explaining or apologizing for.

Sometimes the hardest boundaries are the ones we have to set with people we care about most. And sometimes the real challenge is not setting the boundary at all—it is holding it when guilt, history, or emotion makes us want to bend it.

What boundary took you the longest to learn how to set?

Do you find it harder to set boundaries with people you love than with everyone else?

There are no right or wrong answers—just thoughtful questions and honest conversations.

Be real. I’ll meet you there.

u/Bella5369 — 4 days ago