u/Bella5369

This past week, I opened a private Reddit group chat called The Velvet Lounge for active, participating members of the Forty & Flirty Lounge subreddit, and I’d now like to extend the invitation to some of our Real Friends Over 40 members as well.

The idea is pretty simple — a place to come together for good conversation, laughs, banter and, of course, a little flirting and innuendo.

Cheeky, playful and SFW…ish pretty much sums us up. But just to be clear, we’re not an NSFW chat.

Invitations will still be a little selective as we grow because we want to keep a good mix of people and try to protect the atmosphere we’re creating. I’d especially love to see a few more women join us.

If you enjoy good conversation, have a good sense of humour and think you’d enjoy the Lounge, please send a modmail to the Forty & Flirty Lounge mods:

https://www.reddit.com/message/compose?to=/r/FortyAndFlirtyLounge

Thanks,

B 🍷

What’s everyone up to tonight?

Taco Tuesday? Netflix? Hiding from people? Or just trying to survive Tuesday?

Come say hi. 👋

We’re heading back into the After Dark Lounge tonight. 😉

Tonight’s conversation is one I think could bring out some very different opinions. We’re talking attraction, relationships, and some of the things that can quietly change the way we feel about someone.

See you at 7 PM ET. 🖤

Keep it classy • Keep it cheeky • Tasteful, not explicit.

We’ve been listening to your feedback and have made a few adjustments to the rules. Our aim is to make it easier for everyone to feel welcome and comfortable contributing to the community.

We remain a Safe for Work sub, so please keep things respectful, stay within the rules, and use good judgment.

If you see or receive a comment that is vulgar, objectifying, inappropriate, or may otherwise violate the rules, please use the reporting tool so the mod team can review it. Reports should be made in good faith and should not be used to target members or abuse the system. The mod team will also take action when we see something that doesn’t align with the rules or tone of the community.

Please have a quick read through the updated Community Rules and Theme Day Guidelines when you get a chance. ❤️

Thank you, everyone.

— The Mod Team

🎵 Music & Motivational Monday

Share your song of the day, a favourite piece of music, and/or a motivational quote.

🛠️ Tinker & Talk Tuesday

Tinker: Share your hobbies, projects, interests, or something you’ve been working on.

Talk: A day for conversation, support, and friends helping friends. Please remember that members are offering friendship and general support, not professional advice.

✈️ Wanderlust Wednesday

Share your travels, adventures, vacation memories, destinations, and travel photos. All images must remain SFW and follow the community image guidelines.

🦵 Thigh Thursday

The focus must be on the thighs. Keep the crotch/groin area appropriately covered, with no visible outlines or emphasis on intimate areas. One post per user. All images must remain SFW and follow the community image guidelines.

💪 Forearm & Foodie Friday

Forearm: Show us those forearms. The focus should remain on the forearms. One post per user. All images must remain SFW and follow the community image guidelines.

Foodie: Share your favourite meals, recipes, food creations, snacks, or drinks.

😂 Silly Saturday & Silly and Sweet Pets

Share memes, jokes, funny posts, and general silliness. Or show us your pets with pictures and videos. If sharing pet videos, people should not be visible.

🌿 Scenic Sunday

Share nature, landscapes, water, skies, scenery, or other beautiful views.

Theme days are optional prompts meant to add a little fun and variety. Regular posts, conversations, and contributions are welcome every day

Moderator discretion applies. Posts or comments may be removed, and appropriate action taken, when content or behaviour does not align with the rules, tone, or spirit of the community

If you came with a warning label, what would yours say?

Mine might be:
⚠️ Warning: May flirt unintentionally… or very intentionally. Depends on the company. 😂

Your turn — what does your warning label say? 👀

Have fun with it, get a little cheeky… just don’t make me regret saying that, you heathens. 😏😂

As we posted earlier, we’ve given our theme days a little refresh — and Frisky Friday is all about laughs, cheeky fun, and the frisky humor we enjoy. A little risqué, but not explicit.

And for our first official Frisky Friday, we’re kicking things off with:

🤣 BEST DAD JOKES & MEMES!

A big thank you to FL for the idea! If he’s around and able to start us off, we’d love that — but either way, Frisky Friday will be open for business.

So let’s see those best dad jokes and memes, folks! Bring us your cheesiest, groan-worthy, so-bad-it’s-good material.

👉 Make your own post — no need to add it here.

As always, our themes and prompts are here to inspire, not limit you. Play along if you want, or post something completely your own.

Your Lounge. Your posts. Have fun with it. ❤️

Tonight’s question is bringing a little temptation, history, chemistry, and just enough trouble to make things interesting. 👀🔥

Some connections are familiar. Some are brand new. Both can be dangerous in very different ways.

Come back at 7 PM ET and tell us what you think. ❤️‍🔥

As always…
Keep it classy. Keep it cheeky. Tasteful, not explicit.

I know you’re in here — I can see the numbers.😂

But lately it feels like the gentlemen are doing most of the talking.

So come on, ladies… come out of hiding! Jump into a conversation, answer a prompt, post something, make us laugh, or just say hello. No pressure to be the loudest person in the room — we’d just love to hear from more of you. 💕

And on a more serious note, if there’s ever something happening in the sub — or someone is coming into your DMs and making you uncomfortable — please don’t sit on it. Send us a Modmail or reach out to me privately.

We can’t address something we don’t know about, and I want everyone here to feel comfortable participating.

-B