r/GayYoungOldDating

25 looking for older. Older the better

hmu, looking to talk to some fun older men

I have pics on my profile if you're curious about what I look like :)

i’m 5’3ft and 103lbs. idk why i’m attracted to older men, i think i just am. i’m not out btw still discreet. i’m not girly nor masculine hope that’s ok

18 m looking to chat with older guys and see where it goes. I like movies, books, swimming!

I am hoping to get to know a younger boy for good company, genuine conversation, plenty of laughs, and seeing where a real connection might lead.

I don’t always reply immediately, but I always make time for people who make me smile.

I’m easygoing, affectionate, and enjoy the simple things late night conversations that drift into everything, sharing music, cooking together, trying new restaurants, or spending a quiet evening enjoying each other’s company.

I’m drawn to younger guys who are kind, grounded, a little mischievous, and comfortable being themselves. Someone who appreciates feeling looked after as much as looking after someone else. I have a soft spot for a good boy with a playful side and enjoy making the people I’m close to feel cared for, appreciated, and genuinely valued.

For me, the best connections are built on chemistry, trust, laughter, and the comfort fun.

If that sounds like something you’d enjoy, send me a message and tell me a little about yourself. I’d love to see where a conversation might lead.

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very hung, white, fit 19m looking for older daddy's. my TG is matth1000

Hey everyone! I’m 32, from Utah, and I’m bisexual. I’m hoping to meet an older man who’s interested in building a real connection that could grow into a long-term relationship.
I’m a pretty laid-back guy with a big heart. Loyalty, honesty, communication, and kindness mean a lot to me, and I believe the best relationships are built on trust and being there for each other. I’m looking for someone who wants to laugh together, support one another, and enjoy both the exciting moments and the quiet ones.
Age isn’t everything, but I’ve always been drawn to older men because I appreciate maturity, confidence, and someone who knows what they want in life. Distance isn’t necessarily a dealbreaker if the connection is right.
If you’re looking for something meaningful instead of just another casual chat, I’d love to hear from you. Tell me a little about yourself—I genuinely enjoy getting to know new people, and you never know where a great conversation might lead.

21 year old looking for an older man to have naughty chats with live being controlled and doing what’s told kinky asf skinny twink with hairy tight hole lookin for older older the better tbh over 40 would be nice

Looking for the love of my life. A man that will give me the confidence to be who I am supposed to be and not afraid to embrace it. A man to lead me and guide me and love me deeply. I want a partner to love and follow and cherish. A man to laugh with, travel with, cry with, and experience life with. I am in So Cal, HMU. 30, 5'7", 170, white, and handsome.

Hi im an 18 y.o boy, more of a sporty type looking for a kinky master.

My kinks - feet worship, cam play, jerk off instructions, uniformed daddies and big cocks

I’ve been bicurious for a while now and whenever I get really horny I end up fantasising about a gentle dom turning me into his boy. Being told I’m a good boy makes me melt and I get so hard! There’s something about not being the dom for a change that is so hot and just surrendering to him that makes me weak. Definitely love the gentle side a of a dom and I end up calling him Daddy.
I’m 6ft1, slim muscular build, I’m well endowed and been told I have a nice ass too.
Ideally like to find an older man who can be patient with me since this sub side is new to me.

Hey, I just turned 18. I’m white, athletic body with brown hair. I’ve always been into older guys for some reason and I find them really attractive. I’m looking to find a real connection and a life partner irl and obviously a lot of fun ( wink). I’m also willing to move if that ever comes into the picture. if you’re interested please reach out to me and we can talk.

looking for long term consistent chats with older larger dads.

about me: 5’3, 62kg. in uni. i love ongoing convos, bellies, we match each other energy and etc.

you: can keep a convo going aka talkactive, has a belly, top, soft dom

dms are open ! :)

I’m cool with anyone older than me as well as sexting with em, a chubby dude would be nice, cause I’m a little chubby too. Whoever messages me, hope you might be cool with online chatting, maybe even dating? An older bottom or switch would be really hot tbh

Hii I’m 19 5’5, I am looking for a older hairy dad bod type of man but I am open to all as long as you are nice, sweet, and interesting. I am open to anything long term or not and also sending/ sharing spicy pictures. If you are interested send a DM! I won’t bite unless you want me to ;)

hi!!! I'm new to being gay haha and I want to have my first relationship and learn the ins and outs of gay sex, gay romance and all that. I watch alot of porn and turned gay, theres something about gay sex that gets me turned on. Ultimately I want to be a sub and hopefully feminized. Being stripped away identity wise and made something my daddy my love wants is what I want. I want lovebombing and make me fall in love fast. send a fantasy you have that youd like doing with me (no limits!) or a taco emoji if you read all this hehehehe

I'm 36 M, gay, looking for a boyfriend who is younger, kind, somewhere in the USA. Long distance to start, open to closing the distance when it's right. I'm 6'2", single, heavy (around 295), belly, moderately hairy, bearded.

I'm not fully out in my world, and I need to keep this discreet, certainly at first. I have a real life, with family, history, obligations I can't and won't just walk away from. I assume you do too. I'm not offering a whirlwind. I'm offering to take two already-full lives and still build a real, direct commitment to each other at the center of them—and to keep choosing that on the hard days, not just the easy ones. People I love say I make them feel calm, like they have something solid to rely on.

I want someone to face the world together back-to-back, but also someone who understands that the world doesn't matter much at all, and that the relationship is the real thing. I want both. I want a deep friendship and real romantic and physical desire in the same person. I don't think you have to choose between them. And to be clear, the physical side matters to me. I have plenty of desire and energy; not looking for some abstract meeting of minds.

My hobbies are reading, writing, photography, travel, and a little cooking. Massive music-listening nerd. Internet denizen since ten years old (many years ago). I believe in God—not always well, not always on good terms, but I do. I don't need you to be devout or even especially spiritual. But someone completely closed off to that side of life won't be a fit.

About you: kind above all, easy to talk to, funny, able to be both light and genuinely joyful and also serious. I’m not particular about build, but tend to find the energy of younger men attractive. You are likely an “old soul” or mature beyond your years. Complicated is welcome; my life is complicated too. You'll be corny, cringe, a little ridiculous, and you'll apologize for it, and I'll tell you not to, because I'm exactly the same. We can be ridiculous together.

I want to take care of someone. I want to make you as happy as you make me. I want to be needed and wanted, and to need and want you back. Most of all, I want to be chosen the way I intend to choose you. I want to be picked on purpose, even when someone knows my many flaws, and picked anyway.

18 yo looking to lose my virginity to someone older
nyc
110 lbs
5’6

18M looking for older men to chat with, can be local or online, I’d prefer to have an actual conversation to begin with instead of just sexting. My interests are electronic music, gaming, cars, and I’m also pursing a degree in engineering technology.