r/GenderCynical

i have blocked out everyone’s user but mine in the photos as to follow to rules of this subreddit, i just think it’s wild that an “inclusive space” for lesbians is full of terfs. as a community we’ve been getting far to familiar with transphobia. and the second you call out the transphobia in the community, you’re “a man playing as a woman, trying to chase lesbian” or you’re “not letting them tell their story” and i can’t even imagine how hard it is to be trans, because i have a hard time defending the trans community and im a cisgender woman; i can only imagine how difficult it is to actually be a trans woman and i wanted to say that every trans individual is strong, and worth listening to, and even worth loving. i’m astounded and ashamed of my community and we all need to do better. they kicked me out and called me a troll, so much for “safe space” and “being respectful” lmao, also misgendered me entirely and said i “am probably a male”? 😭🙏

How is this considered appropriate rhetoric? After my post about being SAed by my family doctor when I was 14 went viral, she subtweeted about the incident, indirectly implying that it was a lie written for sexual gratification.

The way she described my post in the first few tweets she made, adopting a quasi-academic, condescending tone--it was beyond repulsive. She talked about me being raped at 14, like I was an animal or some peculiar life form being studied by an anthropologist.

It's abundantly clear from her descriptions of the incident, and the fact it was posted in the same day mine went viral, and the fact she made a post of her own, QTing the same post mine was in reference to (I QTed someone else who QTed the original poster; she QTed the original post), that she was talking about me being raped. At 14. And describing it as fetish content.

I'm bringing attention to this, because I think this should be condemned by anyone who cares about CSA survivors. Literally, maybe the reason I write so descriptively is because I'm an author of multiple books?

My post: https://x.com/AdenPolydoros/status/2072719693388165358

Her subtweet: https://x.com/burnyourbinder/status/2072787606274757059

Here is the short video I made in response to her:

https://x.com/AdenPolydoros/status/2073829958749946360

On a post I made about how intersex discrimination is not taken seriously and does not have legal protections like other queer identities do.

Many people believe bigotry against intersex people is incidental (mistaken for being trans) or that its not sexism because "it's a congenital deformity not a sex" as if it's not wildly disrespectful to say that to someone who specifically considers their sex to be just intersex.

Whenever I vent about being subjected to intersexism in the workplace, many responses I get are something like "why would you tell anyone your private medical history" as if people can't just obviously see the fact I'm intersex by looking at me and listening to me speak. Being intersex is just a fact about myself and I'm not going to try suppressing it, or looking more binary. People like this guy are fucking scum. I know he's taking about gender nonconformity not necessarily being intersex, but people like him are why I've had such a miserable time finding employment.

Beware this TERF user online. I was assigned female at birth and still identify as female legally.

They don’t seem to get what intersex is and falsely accuse intersex ppl of trans and that all intersex ppl are male/female without knowing what intersex really is.

She needs to be locked up somewhere for the safety of her and everyone that comes into contact with her.

For your viewing pleasure, I told my former boss I don’t respect them (detransitioner Grifter) and they posted about me like 7 times.

Also submitted to the Attorney Grievance Commission for their viewing pleasure

Also shoutout to my distant cousin for defending me, kinda fucked it up but the spirit is certainly there

they claim that the trans people are the “oh so violent and insane” ones yet they turn around and say things like this. The amount of TERFs I saw saying things similar to this is in the double digits