r/GlamTalk

Living in Canada, we're known for our cold weather, but the city I live in is especially famous for having completely bipolar weather. One minute it's hot, the next it's cold, and then somehow it's warm again. Summer can honestly be so frustrating because you want to wear all your cute summer outfits, but then the weather suddenly decides it's going to be rainy and windy. Now you're standing there wondering if you should wear shorts or pants. Some of us just commit to the shorts anyway and spend the whole day freezing.

You'd think after surviving our long, freezing winters, summer would reward us with consistent warmth. But nope, it keeps us guessing every single day.

When we're cooking, it's a hot day, or we just want our hair out of our face, we obviously tie it up so it doesn't get in the way. Some of us reach for a regular hair tie, while others grab a scrunchie. At the end of the day, they both do the exact same job.

So, what's even the point of this post? Well, it's all about the fashion statement. You can barely notice a regular hair tie, so it's giving, "I'm just throwing my hair up and heading out." A scrunchie, on the other hand, says, "I'm heading out... but I want to look cute while doing it." And then there are the people who reach for a claw clip because it keeps their hair up and looks just as cute as a scrunchie.

So... which one are you grabbing first?

I have a friend who has a necklace with her name on it, and she wears it whenever we hang out or while she's at work. Personally, I have a slight issue with strangers knowing my name. Some people don't care if others take a quick peek at their necklace, while others do. I can see how it's a great idea if you have a complicated name to pronounce or a unique way of spelling it. Wearing your name can remind people to look at it when they need to say or spell your name correctly.

But for people with more common, easy-to-pronounce names, it can seem a little pointless. What's even the point of wearing a necklace with your own name on it? Wouldn't you rather wear something that's simply cute and fashionable, or maybe a necklace that was passed down from a grandparent or another family member and has sentimental value?

Whenever I worked with an employment specialist or attended workplace readiness classes, I was often told to avoid wearing shorts at work.

I can understand why that rule exists if you're working as a cook or a server in a restaurant. Safety is important in a kitchen, and there are obvious reasons for having a dress code. That said, I've occasionally seen servers wear shorts during the summer, especially when they're working on an outdoor patio, and that seems to make sense.

What I've always wondered is why some retail jobs don't allow shorts. You're not dealing with the same kitchen hazards, and I've seen employees at certain retail stores wearing shorts without any issues. It seems like the dress code can vary a lot depending on the company.

I also have a friend who was told that the straps of her bra were slightly visible and was asked to cover them because it wasn't considered appropriate for the customer's religion, I remember being really confused by that.

It made me realize that workplace dress codes can be very different depending on the employer.

So, I'm curious, what do you think? Should employees be allowed to wear shorts in retail during hot weather? And do you think dress codes are becoming more relaxed, or should businesses continue to enforce stricter standards for professional appearance?

This question is for teens, adults, and parents of teens.

At what age do you think it's appropriate for kids to start wearing makeup, perfume, or using skincare products?

Of course, basic skincare like washing your face and using a moisturizer is important at any age if it's needed. But when it comes to makeup and perfume, I'm curious to hear everyone's thoughts. I remember hearing a news story about 11-year-olds shopping for makeup at Sephora, and it made me wonder why kids seem to be thinking about beauty products at such a young age.

When I was 11, I was more focused on playing with my friends, doing well in school, and just being a kid. I didn't even step foot in a Sephora until I was a young adult. I know every generation grows up differently, and social media has definitely changed the way kids are introduced to beauty and skincare.

So, what's your opinion? At what age do you think it's appropriate to start wearing makeup, perfume, or using skincare products? Do you think it's becoming more common for kids to start younger, or is it just a reflection of how times have changed?

I've always been a big fan of ripped jeans, but let's be honest, the older generation doesn't always seem to agree. We've all heard the comments:

"You look homeless."
"Why would you wear jeans with holes in them?"
"That looks so inappropriate."

I totally understand that ripped jeans weren't really a thing when they were younger. Fashion changes over time, and every generation has its own trends.

It's not just ripped jeans, either. Crop tops get the same reactions:
"What happened to the rest of your shirt?"
"Why would you want to show that much skin?"

It makes me wonder, do you think every generation eventually adapts to new fashion trends, or are there just some styles that people will never understand?

What's one fashion trend you love that older generations just don't seem to get?

We all need a wallet to carry our money and cards. A lot of men tend to keep it simple with a classic black leather wallet, while we women seem to have endless options to choose from. Do you go with a traditional wallet in your purse, a mini wallet that attaches to your phone, or just keep everything digitally in your phone so you can tap and pay while shopping?

As convenient as phone wallets and digital payments are, they can also have downsides. If your phone gets lost or stolen, you could lose access to your cards and other important information similar to what would happen if someone took your physical wallet.

So, what do you prefer? A traditional wallet in your purse, a wallet attached to your phone, or keeping everything stored digitally on your phone?

I have a friend who constantly colors her hair, and I'm sure many other people do as well. There's nothing wrong with that. However, if you're someone who colors your hair very often without taking a break to let it recover from the chemical damage, it can eventually take a toll on your hair. I learned about this in cosmetology school and shared what I learned with my friends, but they continued to do what they wantednwhich is completely fine. We don't always listen to everyone else's advice. Your body, your money, your future.

I remember helping a fellow classmate bleach her hair during cosmetology class. As we worked, her hair slowly began breaking off and falling because the bleach had damaged it so severely. It was a reminder of how much damage repeated chemical services can cause if your hair isn't given time to recover.

we had also learned to colour hair with a can of soda fanta which turned out very beautifully.

So, if you're thinking about coloring or bleaching your hair frequently, take a moment to really think about it. Healthy hair is much easier to maintain than trying to repair severely damaged hair later.

Millennials, Gen Z, and many others have embraced tattoos more than previous generations, and for a lot of us, getting a tattoo is an exciting experience. We spend time creating or choosing a design, finding the right artist, and getting a piece of art that will stay with us for the rest of our lives. Yet, many of us have heard the same lecture from our parents or grandparents: "That's ridiculous," "You'll have that forever," or "What if you don't like it later?" To be fair, they do have a point. Tattoos are permanent, and while removal is possible, it can be expensive, painful, and may leave scars.

But it does make me wonder why does the older generation often feel the need to criticize how younger generations choose to use their bodies? For many people, tattoos are a form of self-expression, a way to tell a story, honor a memory, or simply showcase artwork they love. Yes, it comes with the pain of the needle, but for many, the meaning behind the tattoo makes it worth it.

What are your thoughts? Why do you think tattoos are still viewed so differently across generations?

I have a pair of prescription glasses that cost a lot of money due to how they’re made, which makes sense to some degree. The other day, I had a conversation with my friend about glasses and our vision as we get older. Unfortunately, eyesight does tend to get worse with age, as my mother often tells me. I’m someone who usually refuses to wear my glasses because I don’t have the patience to keep track of them or carry multiple pairs. I also don’t want to deal with the classic “Where are my glasses?” problem that many older people seem to experience on a regular basis.

My friend mentioned, “Why don’t you get those glasses that change in the sun?” which does make sense for someone who doesn’t want to carry multiple pairs. That way, they’re always on you and adjust when you go outside. I’ve also considered surgery, but I’ve heard mixed reviews about it. I was also told that even after surgery, some people still need glasses again later in life when they become seniors. So I wonder would it be worth it?