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We all knoe that most of us do a spring cleaning every year and end up with clothes we no longer wear. Sometimes we even accidentally purchase the wrong menstrual products and can't use them. Instead of letting those items go to waste, why not donate them to a women's shelter where they can make a real difference? There's absolutely nothing wrong with donating to thrift stores. They provide affordable clothing and household items for people looking to save money, and thrifting can be a lot of fun.

But it also made me wonder: if you have the option, wouldn't it be even more meaningful to donate directly to people who may not be able to afford clothing at all? Knowing that your clothes or unused essentials are helping someone who is going through a difficult time can be an incredibly rewarding feeling. Thrift stores play an important role in many communities, but shelters often provide immediate support to people who have very little and need those donations the most.

At the end of the day, any donation is a kind gesture. It just made me appreciate how much of an impact a simple bag of clothes or basic necessities can have when they're given directly to someone in need.

Has anyone ever ordered from Etsy, SHEIN, or other online stores and bought a T-shirt or a pair of pants, only for them to be nothing like the size you ordered? Then you're either too lazy to return them, so you donate them, or you end up keeping them as pajamas or oversized loungewear. Don't we all hate when you carefully pick your size, only to realize they completely missed the mark when your order arrives?

I'm all for donating clothing to those who need it, but I also love watching my delivery tracker to see where my clothes are coming from. There's something exciting about waiting for that package to arrive.

I also love finding a T-shirt or a pair of pants that nobody else seems to have. You're just waiting for that random stranger to ask, "Where did you get that?" Honestly, that question always makes me happy.

I need some advice about a work experience, and I'm sorry in advance if this offends anyone.

I had a coworker who has a disability, so some tasks were more complicated for her, and she needed help, which was perfectly fine. I did my share of helping her, although there were times when I felt resentful. Looking back, I realize that wasn't her fault. Management should have done a better job of handling those responsibilities instead of relying so much on other employees.

I no longer work there, but the way I handled some situations with this coworker wasn't always professional, and I take responsibility for that. However, she doesn't seem to recognize or acknowledge all the help I gave her. Instead, she only brings up the mistakes I made and speaks about them negatively.

I was also mistreated by the management team while I worked there, which made the situation even more difficult.

How would you handle something like this?

Living in Canada, we're known for our cold weather, but the city I live in is especially famous for having completely bipolar weather. One minute it's hot, the next it's cold, and then somehow it's warm again. Summer can honestly be so frustrating because you want to wear all your cute summer outfits, but then the weather suddenly decides it's going to be rainy and windy. Now you're standing there wondering if you should wear shorts or pants. Some of us just commit to the shorts anyway and spend the whole day freezing.

You'd think after surviving our long, freezing winters, summer would reward us with consistent warmth. But nope, it keeps us guessing every single day.

When we go grocery shopping, many of us look at the prices of fruits and vegetables and are instantly shocked by how expensive they've become. Unfortunately, with the economy we're living in, it can make healthy food difficult for some people to afford. I truly sympathize with those who are struggling, and I appreciate the organizations and individuals who donate food to help others. Do you ever wish there was a way to save more on groceries or have your voice heard about the rising cost of food? What do you think could help make food more affordable?

Have rising food prices changed the way you shop? 

If you became friends with a former coworker after working together, and they constantly brought up all the mistakes you made at work, even though they made plenty of mistakes themselves—how would you react? Especially when they keep reminding you to treat people properly and act professionally, even though you already know how to do your job and treat others with respect.

How would you respond in that situation?

When we're cooking, it's a hot day, or we just want our hair out of our face, we obviously tie it up so it doesn't get in the way. Some of us reach for a regular hair tie, while others grab a scrunchie. At the end of the day, they both do the exact same job.

So, what's even the point of this post? Well, it's all about the fashion statement. You can barely notice a regular hair tie, so it's giving, "I'm just throwing my hair up and heading out." A scrunchie, on the other hand, says, "I'm heading out... but I want to look cute while doing it." And then there are the people who reach for a claw clip because it keeps their hair up and looks just as cute as a scrunchie.

So... which one are you grabbing first?

I have a friend who has a necklace with her name on it, and she wears it whenever we hang out or while she's at work. Personally, I have a slight issue with strangers knowing my name. Some people don't care if others take a quick peek at their necklace, while others do. I can see how it's a great idea if you have a complicated name to pronounce or a unique way of spelling it. Wearing your name can remind people to look at it when they need to say or spell your name correctly.

But for people with more common, easy-to-pronounce names, it can seem a little pointless. What's even the point of wearing a necklace with your own name on it? Wouldn't you rather wear something that's simply cute and fashionable, or maybe a necklace that was passed down from a grandparent or another family member and has sentimental value?

There have been a lot of rumors online that Taylor and Travis are getting married, with some people even claiming the wedding will be at Madison Square Garden. We've also seen stories about celebrities supposedly arriving in stylish outfits and even alleged wedding blueprints circulating on social media.

But how much of that is actually true? Could it just be speculation or false news?

If and when Taylor does get married, I imagine she'd want to keep many of the details private. After all, it's her special day, and she deserves to enjoy it without every detail being revealed ahead of time.

That said, I think we're all a little curious. What do you think her wedding venue will look like? And what kind of dress and overall style do you think she'll choose when the big day finally arrives?

Whenever I worked with an employment specialist or attended workplace readiness classes, I was often told to avoid wearing shorts at work.

I can understand why that rule exists if you're working as a cook or a server in a restaurant. Safety is important in a kitchen, and there are obvious reasons for having a dress code. That said, I've occasionally seen servers wear shorts during the summer, especially when they're working on an outdoor patio, and that seems to make sense.

What I've always wondered is why some retail jobs don't allow shorts. You're not dealing with the same kitchen hazards, and I've seen employees at certain retail stores wearing shorts without any issues. It seems like the dress code can vary a lot depending on the company.

I also have a friend who was told that the straps of her bra were slightly visible and was asked to cover them because it wasn't considered appropriate for the customer's religion, I remember being really confused by that.

It made me realize that workplace dress codes can be very different depending on the employer.

So, I'm curious, what do you think? Should employees be allowed to wear shorts in retail during hot weather? And do you think dress codes are becoming more relaxed, or should businesses continue to enforce stricter standards for professional appearance?

Hi Everyone,

i graduated from cosmo school at the beginning of 2025 but haven't had any luck getting a job in the hairstylist industry and haven't continued my apprentice (Canadian here 🙋‍♀️) and when i do apply for jobs they will ask your Instagram handle which is completely fine but i now use it for content based on the industry so it does have photos of clients I've had in school way deep in the account, is that still appropriate to do?

This question is for teens, adults, and parents of teens.

At what age do you think it's appropriate for kids to start wearing makeup, perfume, or using skincare products?

Of course, basic skincare like washing your face and using a moisturizer is important at any age if it's needed. But when it comes to makeup and perfume, I'm curious to hear everyone's thoughts. I remember hearing a news story about 11-year-olds shopping for makeup at Sephora, and it made me wonder why kids seem to be thinking about beauty products at such a young age.

When I was 11, I was more focused on playing with my friends, doing well in school, and just being a kid. I didn't even step foot in a Sephora until I was a young adult. I know every generation grows up differently, and social media has definitely changed the way kids are introduced to beauty and skincare.

So, what's your opinion? At what age do you think it's appropriate to start wearing makeup, perfume, or using skincare products? Do you think it's becoming more common for kids to start younger, or is it just a reflection of how times have changed?

Have you ever traveled somewhere and stopped for lunch or dinner at a restaurant, only to take that first bite and immediately wish they had a location in your city? There are a few restaurants from the city where I grew up that I still miss today. Since moving to a different city, I've found myself wishing some of them would expand and open a location closer to home. In fact, I even mentioned it to one of the restaurants because I noticed they were opening new locations in other cities. It made me think that maybe, depending on the ownership and their expansion plans, it could actually happen one day.

Have you ever discovered a restaurant while traveling and wished they would open a location in your hometown?

I've always been a big fan of ripped jeans, but let's be honest, the older generation doesn't always seem to agree. We've all heard the comments:

"You look homeless."
"Why would you wear jeans with holes in them?"
"That looks so inappropriate."

I totally understand that ripped jeans weren't really a thing when they were younger. Fashion changes over time, and every generation has its own trends.

It's not just ripped jeans, either. Crop tops get the same reactions:
"What happened to the rest of your shirt?"
"Why would you want to show that much skin?"

It makes me wonder, do you think every generation eventually adapts to new fashion trends, or are there just some styles that people will never understand?

What's one fashion trend you love that older generations just don't seem to get?

I've noticed that when I'm out for a walk, I sometimes see people feeding bread to birds. Over the years, I've learned that bread isn't the healthiest food for them and can cause problems if it's a large part of their diet. That's why I've always thought bird seed would be a better option. If you enjoy relaxing in a park and feeding the birds, why not stop by a dollar store and pick up a bag of bird seed instead? It's usually inexpensive and provides birds with food that's much closer to what they naturally eat.

I know people feed bread because it's convenient and often comes from a good place—they simply want to interact with and help the birds. But if we're going to feed wildlife, shouldn't we try to give them something that's better for them?

What are your thoughts? Have you ever fed birds bread, or do you prefer using bird seed?

We all need a wallet to carry our money and cards. A lot of men tend to keep it simple with a classic black leather wallet, while we women seem to have endless options to choose from. Do you go with a traditional wallet in your purse, a mini wallet that attaches to your phone, or just keep everything digitally in your phone so you can tap and pay while shopping?

As convenient as phone wallets and digital payments are, they can also have downsides. If your phone gets lost or stolen, you could lose access to your cards and other important information similar to what would happen if someone took your physical wallet.

So, what do you prefer? A traditional wallet in your purse, a wallet attached to your phone, or keeping everything stored digitally on your phone?

When you travel overseas, whether it's to Europe, Australia, or somewhere else, do you try to dress according to the local culture? For example, Australia is known for its hot weather, so you naturally dress for the climate. If you're visiting Italy, you might want to dress a little more stylishly since it's known for its fashion culture. If you're traveling to countries such as India or many parts of Africa, it's important to respect local customs and dress appropriately, especially in places where more modest clothing is expected.

If you're visiting places like Canada or the United States, people generally wear everyday clothing, so you can simply dress comfortably and in your own style.

Do you change the way you dress when you travel to fit in with the local culture, or do you just wear whatever makes you feel comfortable?

I have a friend who constantly colors her hair, and I'm sure many other people do as well. There's nothing wrong with that. However, if you're someone who colors your hair very often without taking a break to let it recover from the chemical damage, it can eventually take a toll on your hair. I learned about this in cosmetology school and shared what I learned with my friends, but they continued to do what they wantednwhich is completely fine. We don't always listen to everyone else's advice. Your body, your money, your future.

I remember helping a fellow classmate bleach her hair during cosmetology class. As we worked, her hair slowly began breaking off and falling because the bleach had damaged it so severely. It was a reminder of how much damage repeated chemical services can cause if your hair isn't given time to recover.

we had also learned to colour hair with a can of soda fanta which turned out very beautifully.

So, if you're thinking about coloring or bleaching your hair frequently, take a moment to really think about it. Healthy hair is much easier to maintain than trying to repair severely damaged hair later.

During the winter, it's not always possible to enjoy a campfire outside because of the snow and freezing temperatures. That can be disappointing when you're craving that cozy campfire feeling. Have you ever roasted a marshmallow over a small flame on your stove and instantly been hit with a wave of nostalgia? I know using an open flame indoors can be dangerous and should always be done carefully, but there's something about a warm, toasted marshmallow that brings back memories of summer nights around a campfire. It may not be the same as sitting outside under the stars, but it can still be a delicious little reminder of those moments while staying warm indoors.

Would you rather have a winter bonfire or a summer campfire?

(Disclaimer: I do not recommend trying this, and please do not attempt it at home. Just because I am sharing this story does not mean you should try it yourself. Open flames can be dangerous, and I do not want to be responsible for any injuries, accidents, or damage that may result from someone attempting it.)

I have a pair of prescription glasses that cost a lot of money due to how they’re made, which makes sense to some degree. The other day, I had a conversation with my friend about glasses and our vision as we get older. Unfortunately, eyesight does tend to get worse with age, as my mother often tells me. I’m someone who usually refuses to wear my glasses because I don’t have the patience to keep track of them or carry multiple pairs. I also don’t want to deal with the classic “Where are my glasses?” problem that many older people seem to experience on a regular basis.

My friend mentioned, “Why don’t you get those glasses that change in the sun?” which does make sense for someone who doesn’t want to carry multiple pairs. That way, they’re always on you and adjust when you go outside. I’ve also considered surgery, but I’ve heard mixed reviews about it. I was also told that even after surgery, some people still need glasses again later in life when they become seniors. So I wonder would it be worth it?