r/GrindrStories

Guy messages me to cum on his dick so he sends his location and he's literally around the block. When he said front door, I thought we'd be inside the house at least. I get there and he won't open the door. Wants me to jerk it and get hard in front of this door with glass I can't see through and he'll only open when I'm about to blow "cause it has to be quick".

I see red flags and book it. I tell him its too sketch cause he doesn't even have a verified pic and we've never met face to face. He gets mad saying he doesn't have to prove he's real and that he has a roommate that's in the shower. That I should have at least left my cum on the door.

I feel like there could have been some sort of recording going on there for sexploitation. Or that he wasn't even in that house to begin with and I'd be jerking it in front of some rando's house and get arrested.

So I'm 19 and the guy is in his mid 40s. We ended up hooking up, had a fun time and all that, and we were talking afterwards. He showed me a video he made in 2010 and I made a joke 'oh, I was a toddler' and he was like 'Don't say that. Some things are better left unsaid.' Like bro. If you don't want to acknowledge that there is an age gap in your hookup, don't have the hookup.

Hi guys, I got myself a hookup tn and I have no idea what’s supposed to happen. How do you guys usually go with hookups, just go straight to sex or talk a bit before??

Honestly, I like to bottom a lot, but for some reason whenever I start talking to someone they ghost me, it took me a while to realise most of these guys are straight or bi curious guys looking to hookup (while also mid stroke) then they cum and ghost

I also met this one guy, saw me somewhat hairy, he couldn't get hard even though I was like half his size, mf asked if I could wear some laungerie while he fucks me, personally I have no issue being a part time crossdresser its how i got to be bi, but I wasn't in the mood for a sissy hookup, I sucked him for like 20 minutes then he just told me to leave, I don't get it, why go on grindr if you're looking for a fem person

noticing a lot of ”they/them”, ”nonbinary“, and “queer” groups on this app. it’s like gay is being phased out. it’s like we cannot have a group for ourselves without having to open the doors to these.. groups.

no, i’m not queer, i’m gay.

Very new to the random hookup scene, struggle with anxiety, love the idea of meeting but really struggle with actually going forward and agreeing to meet.

Is it just me or have other epople experienced this and how did you get past the mental block?

I'm pretty new to the app and I'm still exploring. I know how terrible some guys on the app can be, but I had a really strange experience today and I'm trying to figure out if I'm overthinking it.

I matched with a guy on the app, and we moved the conversation to Snapchat. He seemed genuinely nice, and after chatting for a while we agreed to meet at his hotel.

He initially told me to come straight to his room, but since we'd never met before, I asked if he could meet me in the lobby first. He seemed a little annoyed but still came down. We met, shook hands, and went up to his room.

We made small talk for a few minutes. Then he suggested we check out the pool. I said sure. While we were walking down the hallway, he said he needed to check how to get to the pool, so we went back into his room. After looking around briefly, he said he'd just ask the front desk instead.

We walked back out, he let me walk out first, and then he closed the door behind me instead of following. I waited outside for about two minutes, knocked, and got no answer. I sent him a Snapchat message asking if everything was okay.

Then I realized he had blocked me on both Snapchat and the app.

What confused me is that everything seemed normal up until that point. I’m not really upset about not being a match. I just didn’t expect the sudden blocking with no explanation.

Is this something that happens often on Grindr / hookup apps, or is this considered unusual behavior?