So, it was my first proper time with this guy who came over. We connected on a really fun level. He was excited to come over, and we had such deep yet fun conversations. It did turn me on quite a lot, and I literally realized I am indeed gay, not asexual.

He said I better text him back, gave me his number, and mentioned he's been busy. But it’s been more than three days since he last responded, and I did double text — nothing anxious or overbearing, just light-hearted meme stuff.

I’ve been going insane thinking about him because that connection and the way he made me feel like a person is insane. He said he owned quite a few businesses and that it’s a busy week, but I also work full time as well.

It’s so embarrassing, and I hate myself every day for this. I can't even go on Grindr and haven't even gooned because it just doesn't feel real.

I just need some strong words of encouragement. Everywhere I go, I see him. What kind of spell did he cast on me?

What is with guys who “tap” then don’t respond to messages. Am I not supposed to respond to those?

My profile contains:

My weigth

Several pictures showing my body including my belly

Title: Chubby Sissy looking for fun

I chat with a guy.

They love the pic of my huge ass

They're talking about hooking up.

*Looks at their profile*

*Not into chubby guys*

"Hey you do know I am Chubby right?"

Blocked or ohh ehh nvm or ghosting.

Same as body hair, im shaven intimately have no hair on my ass back and armpits.

Very thin hairs on my arms and legs.

I do because my chin is very visible (which people then complain abour) have a small amount of hair there.

Guys who have the hairiest mf bodies complaining.

Yes im clothed in lingerie and I have long natural hair.

When im sucking your dick you wont see or feel shit .

Were you here not to just get your dick sucked.

For all I care lay down watch some porn and let me go at it idc.

Maybe you should try women???

Same with them loving my ass and not the belly.

Bestie If im riding you reverse cowboy or bent over you're not gonna see shit.

And I dont mind if your dick is smaller then average but dont be pissy when you cant fuck my ass as its too small 🫪.

Honestly.

Best hookup i had last weekend was a guy just saying.

I want you to suck me off and let me cum on your face and leave.

Love it come on over.

He did exactly that bam simple.

Rant over.

Ok, so I'm not new to sucking dick at all, but this is a first...

I met up with a guy off Grindr yesterday, and he was huge, which is normally not a problem. But he was really jamming it down my throat, to the point where it hurt a little. To be fair, he did ask if he was being too rough, and I said no bc I was enjoying it.

Cut to this morning. My throat is sore AF and I'm coughing up phlegm. This has never happened. I guess it's possible that he got me sick, but I think his huge dick gave me a sore throat lol

So for context, me and this random guy agreed to be FWB through Snapchat once we interacted through Grindr. I’m 22 and he is 23
At that point, we both agreed everything would be kept confidential and nothing would be shared to other people under any circumstance. He asks if I wanted to share some intimate photos of myself, and I do agree and consent to it since we established trust.
I ask him to do the same. He avoids doing so and goes straight to asking me for my Instagram and phone number. However, when I asked him for his info, he once again avoids doing so.

I keep my instagram private for obvious reasons. I am concerned that his intentions are to leak my photos to my friends and loved ones and my life would be ruined at that point.

Does this guy seem suspicious? Am I right in feeling uncomfortable?

23 and have on and off just browsed grindr since i was 18 only recently actually using it first time was alright everyone did their part but second time i jus couldnt keep it up for the life of me and guy knew i was rlly new to it and jus stops mid way through and goes i think i know whats wrong were both bottoms and i think he mightve been right like i thought for sure i was at least vers but i idk i feel kind of embarrassed and like i wasted his time it was like fun tho and i did rlly like what was happening but just couldnt get there i guess

So, I know this one guy, and we both go to the same college, and like I never thought of him much, however I was on grindr and see him, and im like: "i didn't know he was gay" I talk to him and we both bond easily and well guess we both wanted connection

Two months onto the relationship he starts being distant, we already had issues on our differences as he was a gym rat, and im just an artist and he was tryna make me more fit even though I feel comfortable with my body

Then all the sudden on the way back, he decides to breakup with me, and I was crying and he just stared with a cold face, and walks away.

Honestly worst relationship I have ever had, and he KNEW I was looking for marriage :(

(23 male here to vent out) so yeah, the title pretty much speaks for itself. I've actually downloaded grindr super recently, like two/three weeks ago, and despite not being totally new to the world of "dating" apps I still have to learn some stuff. The first hookups went well, so of course it was only a matter of time before I met the one who blocked me and disappeared, seconds after his last message, while I was waiting in the square like an idiot. Ok, at least I managed to meet with another guy last second hehe, but I'm genuinely baffled at how can someone be such an asshole. I don't want to act like a moralist, I know that sometimes ghosting is that much easier and I've ghosted some people myself during the talking stage, despite promising myself multiple times to be comunicative rather than just disappearing... But vanishing and blocking you minutes before the supposed date, knowing damn well that I'm already there waiting, is something else entirely imo (and afaik rather common). How can someone be so cruel, come on?? Sooo yeah that's pretty much it, I just wanted to get this off of my chest people, thanks for the attention 🫶

Obviously the sugar daddy offers out the gate are scams/bots, but Im genuinely curius *how* it is a scam. If they’re the one sending the money, where is the risk? I’m not gonna take one for the team and find out, but I’m confused by how it works to scam you. I assume it’s sharing account/bank details and they take advantage of that?