r/IndianInLaws

My inlaws get angry whenever my husband starts cooking. We live in the US and both of us cook together most of the time. My inlawx are visiting for 2months. Now whenever they see him cooking, they will get upset, start getting angry and being passive aggressive. My FIL is especially rude and doesn’t know how to talk to a DIL. I am really frustrated.
Why dont they understand that their son is not just “helping” in the kitchen or around the house. Its his job to do all those things as is the daughter in law’s. Nobody is meant to be in the kitchen. Its no one’s full time job.