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What happens to an Indian family's identity after 6 generations abroad?
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What happens to an Indian family's identity after 6 generations abroad?

Most Indian families living overseas are only one or two generations into their journey. But 180 years ago, thousands of Indians moved to Trinidad, giving us a rare look at what actually happens to a family's culture over six generations.

The history reveals that while everyday languages faded over time, the identity didn't disappear; it evolved. In 1936, an Indian family started serving curried channa on fried bara, creating "doubles," which became Trinidad’s national breakfast. Folk songs blended with local rhythms to form Chutney music, and Diwali grew into a national holiday.

However, the story also carries a warning. Today, many sixth-generation descendants have to search through 180-year-old ship manifests in national archives just to learn the name of their ancestral village, simply because family records were never written down.

Culture naturally adapts to new places, but family history, records, and core stories must be intentionally passed down today if you want the next generation to hold onto their roots.

Read the full article here: https://thecapitalbybelong.substack.com/p/what-180-years-in-trinidad-tell-every?r=8fe3vx&utm_campaign=post&utm_medium=web&showWelcomeOnShare=true

What is one piece of family history or tradition you are making sure gets passed down?

u/getbelong — 10 days ago
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Feeling tensed about life in India

I am 27F married to a great man ( 34) and living quiet a okay life in Bangalore Ours was a love marriage and never have i ever doubted the decision getting married to him...as a husband he is the best. Although, for the past few months I have been constantly feeling a inner sadness regarding my aspirations of settling abroad.I always dreamt of living somewhere in Europe or in Dubai as I believe we can earn more and have a much better quality of life outside.

My husband on the other hand would love to stay here in India so that we are closer to family and can travel back to our hometown under less cost and less time and during any emergencies or times when we feel like visiting our home town..

I am also a person who is very close to my family and would move mountains if anything happens to them or to do anything for them. But , my worries are regarding our future.. can we survive here in India with the lifestyle that we are continuing right now once we have kids ?

I doubt our income... husband earns 1.2 lakhs and me around 60k every month.

Should I drop my plans to move abroad and try and settle here. Any insights from people who are already abroad please let me know what your thoughts are in this case.

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u/Klutzy_Plenty_3277 — 14 days ago