r/IndiansOnGrindr

Image 1 — Pi = 3.14
Image 2 — Pi = 3.14

Pi = 3.14

So this blank profile (probably new) straightly asking for pic like.

In reply, I just told I have already mentioned my role in the bio itself, only your bio is left blank.

Then brother asked for pi. And i simply replied the value of pi.

And what the single word message means ur.

I can't give my album to random strangers.

u/haatik_95 — 18 hours ago

Need advice 😭

I (26,M, Bi, comparatively fair skinned and lean body build) met this uncle (47,Bi) on Facebook.

We spoke for sometime and initially he behaved like he is not into this. Then within 2-3 he was in nearby my place and we randomly planned to meet for a coffee. I went there (btw I never met someone in person this early, generally I take time) he reached before me...called me multiple times and scolded me like a father... that why I didn't leave on time from my place when we have already finalized to meet. We met... he was in the car and asked me to get in. It was fishy but I went in. We decided to find some kind of secluded cafe/pr tea shop to sit and talk. While driving he grabbed my cock and started playing with it over the jense. Then lean in to kiss...we did it.

Later on the remote road, while driving only he grabbed my head and asked me to open and suck his cock, while he would be driving and looking around.

I did it in the movement and once done. We kissed again and then had a small talk like 5-10 min and then he created urgency like he wanted to go as his family was waiting for him.

He dropped me to the same location and was done. Later called me and explained to me all the reasons that I was late for the meeting and his family was waiting. Then asked the same father like questions... like I reached safely to my place or not, as it was raining at that time and asked to take care of health etc.

On asking about the meeting i clearly said I didn't like it. And it was rushed. I felt used and I was there...with the mind set of meeting and Knowing each other.

He explained it was nothing like that and it was all mutual and because he liked me so much he was not able to control in that movement. And nothing was like that and I should not think too much about it. We were short on time that's why and confirmed he is bi and has no problem in sucking my cock and will do in the future meetings, as I felt bad. And his intentions were not, to make me feel bad.

After 2-3 weeks he again called to meet as he was in a nearby area for some family function in the evenings. I denied as we have already planned a trip which is next to next week to a nearby hill station where we would be staying for the weekend, but he consistently insisted on meeting and just wanted to see and talk and maybe hug.

So I went there when he started mentioning like I didn't love him enough and all that melodramatic shits.

I went, started normally. He came out of the hotel where the function was and sat on my bike. We went to some scheduled areas as it was night most of the shops we closed. While sitting behind he again grapped by dick and started stroking it without taking it out. We parked in a nearby garden and took a walk, we hugged and kissed and we both were hard. He went to a public washroom and asked me to come. Open his pants and asked me to grab it while kissing and then asked to suck. In the movement I did. Once done. I asked him to suck mine not. He denied saying we are in this toilet for a long time now although there are less people but someone would have noticed, let's go to some other toilet now...where he will suck.

We went to some next nearby toilet and there he said it was dirty and didn't want to get his clothes dirty as he had a function/part to attend. I said ok (internally i know he was not interested but didn't say anything). While riding back he received a call from someone and then behaved like the need to be at the hotel urgently because of some cake cutting in going on and everyone was waiting/searching for him. I quickly dropped him back to his hotel. He said all that love you and meet you soon at the trip and all.

After that I felt bad for myself and blocked him everywhere. Fb, whatsapp, normal calls etc. never had a word after dropping him. But then the next day I started receiving calls and WhatsApp from random numbers..it was him calling from various people numbers. I didn't pick up for 2 days then at last frustrated i unblocked and called. He told directly that wtf I blocked him and he was very tensed about my whereabouts. Later he also said he later realised he should have taken mine and sorry for not doing it, but again started explaining all the reasons why he could not do, dirty place, part to attend and urgently called by family.

To reply to that I said I don't want to talk, just call to tell you I am done with you and behave maturally and stop this bullying me by calling and texting using random numbers. To which he agreed but requested to unblock him on WhatsApp. I said I will think about it. And didn't do it until he started calling at night which I didn't pick up and unblocked and texted him that I didn't want to talk....

But he is persistently texting on WhatsApp... continuously saying sorry for his doing, mentioning he does not have any intention to use me and all...I left all his text on seen and didn't reply.

Now i am confused whether I should go on our previously planned trip or not ? Next weekend ? Please advise. I am kind of attracted to him but also thinking he is just using me...

u/OkNeighborhood8614 — 4 days ago

The sheer entitlement

To his last text, I had to respond “Haa toh meri he choice hai. Koi tumhare haath mein Thodi na he 🤦🏻”.

What is it with all these folks hell bent on VC? How are people comfortable just video calling random ass strangers? And worse, I’ve heard you can be recorded and the person on the other end does not even show their face.

u/SatinThoughts_ — 5 days ago