Gay men around the world - looking for genuine human connection | 30 M

I’m not really looking for anything specific here - no expectations, no pressure, and definitely not just another “hey, pics?” conversation.
I’m 30M from India, and lately I’ve been thinking about how strange it is that there are so many of us around the world who might be going through very similar things, yet we rarely get to actually know each other.
So I thought… why not change that?
I’d love to meet gay guys from different countries and just talk. About life, relationships, dating, coming out, family, work, cultures, stupid everyday things, dreams, fears, or literally what you had for dinner. 😄
You don’t have to be looking for a relationship. You don’t have to be particularly outgoing. You don’t even have to know what to say.
Just be a human being who wants another human being to talk to.
Maybe we exchange messages for a few days. Maybe we become long-distance friends. Maybe we eventually end up having a video call and laughing about how different our lives are. Maybe we never speak again.
And that’s okay too.
If you’re from another part of the world and feel like having a genuine conversation with a fellow gay guy, drop me a DM and tell me where you’re from and one random thing about yourself.

Let’s make the internet feel a little less lonely.

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u/ashish_shree — 2 months ago

Need advice: 30M | 97 kg | 5’11” | Beginner gym routine + diet + supplements

Hi everyone,
I am a 30-year-old male, weigh 97 kg, and my height is 5’11”.
I can consistently spare 1 - 1.5 hours daily for the gym and want to focus on fat loss, building muscle, and improving overall health.
I’m a complete beginner, so I need your suggestions on what kind of gym routine would give the best results.

I would also appreciate advice on diet. I am looking for simple Indian meal ideas that are healthy, sustainable, and can help me reach my goals without following any extreme diets.

Regarding supplements:
When should I start taking whey protein and creatine?
Is it okay to start them from day one, or should I first focus on building consistency with workouts and diet for a few months?
Are supplements actually worth it for beginners, or can I achieve good results without them initially?

My goal is to get the maximum output while keeping things healthy and sustainable. I would love to hear from people who started with a similar body type and successfully transformed themselves.
Thank you!

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u/ashish_shree — 4 months ago

Looking for a 1 BHK Flat on Rent (No Brokerage) around Tilaknagar

Hi everyone,
I’m looking for a 1 BHK flat on rent in and around Tilaknagar.
Requirements:
No brokerage preferred
Budget: ₹35k per month

If you know of any available flats, owners renting directly, or reliable leads, please comment below or DM me.
Would really appreciate any help. Thanks in advance! 😊

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u/ashish_shree — 4 months ago

Missing Someone in All the Smallest Places

There’s a certain kind of heartbreak that doesn’t scream.

It sits quietly beside you at 2am.
In untouched playlists.
In half-typed messages.
In the instinct to turn and tell someone about your day before remembering you no longer belong to each other.

I think that’s the cruel part.
Love leaves slowly.
Long after the person is gone.

Now everything feels slightly misplaced.
The bed feels too wide.
My hands don’t know where to rest anymore.
Even happy moments arrive with this small ache, like someone important is missing from the frame.

I never understood how people survive losing softness.
Because that’s what I miss most.
Not the grand things.
Just being cared for in ordinary moments.

Maybe that’s what heartbreak really is.
Not losing a person all at once,
but watching the world slowly forget the shape of your love
while you still remember every detail.

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u/ashish_shree — 5 months ago

House help-cook required

Looking for a reliable cook/house help for home food around Tilaknagar area, Any references would really help.
Thanks!

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u/ashish_shree — 5 months ago