r/LoveLanguages

me and my boyfriend keep going back and fourth because he accuses and constantly makes me feel bad for touching him when he doesn’t want to be touched, and ik how bad and intrusive that sounds but one of my many love languages is touch and i just in general like appreciating him as my man in touch or pda form so we keep having this same argument about him setting his boundaries and me accidentally crossing them just by me touching him in a loving way and not realizing i’ve made him uncomfortable
:((, i think we’re truly just incompatible but he wants to keep trying and fix what we have going on, heh sorry my therapist isn’t available rn 🤙

I’m new to dating, and I’m slowly starting to learn more about myself. What are my preferences? What are my love languages? After my first talking stage (which failed horribly), I’m starting to wonder: What if I don’t have one specific love language? What if I have all of them? I know that everyone has some percentage of each love language, but is it possible for someone to have 100% across the whole board?

I am not really a talker of a person, I don't know how to show affection romantic wise. We had a great talk today and she mentioned how she doesn't feel like she makes me happy. She really does make me the happiest person ever, and I wanna learn how to show her how I am happy.

What to do when you have a certain love language that you show but your S/O won’t receive it? Or accept it ? Of course I’ve learned S/O love language but I can’t change how I show my love. So what would you do ?

I need an answer..

I saw a post last night that asked to describe love.  I thought about that all night and it’s harder than you think. I thought about Sandra and this is the best way I can describe love…

I know love, I’m in love, I never realized how hard it would be to answer what love is… Love is the calmness of her presence, excitement of her kiss,  and the peace in her embrace.   Love is holding her tight and protecting her during the thunderstorm.  It’s the sparkle in her eyes and the grin when she spots you in a crowded room.  Love is accepting the past, respecting the present, and planning the future together.   Love is choosing each other. 

I (F21) like a guy (M22) for 3 years now. He used to like me from 2019-2026(?)

I put a question mark there, cause I don't know if he still does till this day. We've have had many ups and downs (more ups than downs).

He was in a rebound relationship 2 years ago (yes, I admit it.. it was because of me), that ended badly. He doesn't trust women that easily anymore, and unfortunately he doesn't know/trust the intensity of my feelings for him... He's afraid that I'm lying to him.

Anyway, precisely one year ago, he got sent to an island to do his mandatory internship, and I sent him a "have a good trip" message. (I talk every 2-3 months to him). He said thank you, I'll do this and that in the island etc. Sent him some more wishes and I left him on read.

Then without me asking anything else, he initiates this message:

"And why don't you come to the island at the end of August for 3 days? I can host you so you don't have to pay for accommodation fees"

He said end of August, cause he'd leave from the island and come back. What I'm saying is that, he wanted to spend his last days on the island with me, all paid. Just the two of us. I politely declined, and told him I can't go due to exams. He said "Oww, that's a pity. But it's okay, exams come first, good luck with your exams!"

Is there a chance that he still likes me to this day? Yes, some good things have happened again between us, but nothing like an island invitation!!!! I'm super afraid and anxious, cause I can't lose him again, and I'm afraid if his feelings have changed! Help me...