r/MakeFriendsOver30

31F, single, looking for someone to chat with

I'm a 31 year old single woman, a bit bored, and looking for someone to chat with. If you're also bored, feel free to message me

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u/SaltyProgress62 — 5 hours ago

32-year-old female, single, looking for friends to chat with.

I'm a 32-year-old single woman (F) from the US, looking for someone to chat with. If you're interested in chatting, come find me!

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u/No_Oven381 — 6 hours ago

This has been a lot of fun, so let's try a second round, everyone can join :)

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Okay, random experiment: let’s see how similar two complete strangers on Reddit can be.

Answer these, then scroll through the comments. If you find someone with 5+ answers in common, congratulations — you’ve found your Reddit twin. 😂

And if you find someone who seems cool even though you have absolutely nothing in common… honestly, DM them anyway.

  1. Age / age range:

  2. Where are you from / timezone?

  3. Introvert, extrovert, or somewhere in between?

  4. Current hobby/obsession:

  5. What kind of music do you listen to most?

  6. Favorite game, movie, show, anime, or book:

  7. Your ideal free Saturday:

  8. Something you could talk about for hours:

  9. An oddly specific thing that makes you happy:

  10. Most harmless controversial opinion:

Bonus: You get a completely free plane ticket anywhere in the world. Where are you going? ✈️

I’ll answer too, because I want to see if Reddit can actually find my twin.

If you find yours, reply to their comment

so we can see how many matches happen.

Let the extremely scientific friendship experiment begin.

Yes I was really bored, and yes I want to find online friends by doing this, maybe you? 👀

I'll post my answer in the comments

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u/Proper-Reason-1928 — 11 hours ago

30F Seeking a true friendship

Hello, I'm single, but I'm not in a rush to find a romantic relationship. I'd much rather have a sincere friendship with whom I can talk about anything.

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u/Such_Pointb — 7 hours ago

Hi!

Hi! Dutch 39 single F looking for some people to connect with.

Someone who can carry a reasonable intelligent conversation, but maybe mostly someone with humour who can make me laugh. Hopefully also the other way around! Someone who has friends in real life but also is looking for a late night conversation when life can get lonely sometimes. Someone who is loyal, thoughtful and has a kind heart.

I'm not looking for people who have a passion for gaming or other nerdy stuff🙂. No offence but I don't know anything about it!

So, I don't know if such a person exists, but if this resonates feel free to message me! And if you do tell me something about who you are!

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u/External-Bill-9557 — 8 hours ago

37F on the hunt for forgotten hobbies

Hey there!

I'm finding myself with a little more free time these days and a lot of dust on old forgotten interests. Anyone else feel like they need a hobby refresh?

I'm talking about things you used to love but somehow lost along the way. Or maybe something entirely new and ridiculous that you've always wanted to try. Like maybe competitive finger painting or learning to play the kazoo.

Tell me what long lost passions you're thinking of resurrecting. Or what silly new thing you'd try if you had no fear of judgment. I'm open to anything. Except maybe extreme sports. My knees aren't what they used to be.

Hit me up if you want to swap ideas or just chat about how adulting sometimes makes us forget the fun stuff.

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u/Sweet-Kittyk8 — 9 hours ago

36F/CA/Mom&Wife looking for friends from all over!

Hello all,
I’ve always struggled to keep friends since I was kid and that same problem has led into no friends as an adult. It’s just me, my husband and my 16yo daughter. They are great and my best friends but I want some people just for me. Hope that doesn’t come off selfish.
I always have my phone on me and always willing to reply quickly and always ready for those deep conversations to really get to know people. So let’s see if we click shall we? 🥰

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u/jblittl1 — 7 hours ago

35[F4A] #losAngeles, Ca or #online. looking for friendship

Hi sooooo ima start by saying I’m a mom. Been since I was 17 and comepletely lost myself in that role. I am starting to get back out there in general but man is it hard 😅and I’m not even thinking romantically but just platonic friendships are soooo hard so I decided to try here. I’m in SoCal SGV to be more precise but I would love to meet new people both girls and guys that are down to talk meet maybe for some drinks some dancing something to forget the problems 😂 me encanta la música en español and im a biggggg paisa at heart . I love horror and comedy. Gym is a huge one for me right now it’s mostly therapy but man I love ittt ! definitely not a gym rat pero si es mi tiempo. Umm idk if this sounds like u might be down then message me ! Worst that can happen is us never talking again 😅😂

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u/Suspicious_Bet3560 — 9 hours ago

33F- Stop looking for the perfect match; use a lighter.

Hello new faces! It is I, Kim, here to grace your feed with my post. I can’t wait to become best friends with some of you. I work from home, which is why I have time to distract myself here. Been living with my mom in DE after all of what’s been going on in my life. It’s really boring here. But I’ll be back in Maryland soon!

What’s been going on you ask? Well last week I ended things with my fiance. It was a long time coming (you’ll see that if you check out my post history. Be proud of me.) But also over the weekend my one cat got really sick. I decided to put her to sleep yesterday, she was suffering. Sorry if this may upset anyone! It upsets me too.

Anyway! Now you see where my head is at. Onto what I’m looking for! Are you someone interested in crafting intriguing conversations, being able to banter back and forth for hours on end? Do you have thick skin or self-deprecating humor? Can you string complete sentences together with decent grammar and punctuation? Are you in Maryland and can help put up shelves? I am about to move into a new apartment. Then we may be able to have a ton of fun together!

I live in Maryland. I am a huge musical theatre nerd. I enjoy seeing musicals and also performing in local community productions. Been doing it since I was 9. I can sing. I enjoy hosting parties and casually baking. Like super casual. I prefer to just eat the desserts. Unless someone wants to teach me how to bake bread. I like to travel! I also enjoy just lounging on the couch and binging a tv show. Physically: I’m 5’9, red hair that I get at the hair salon (naturally blonde), and blue eyes. We can swap selfies if our conversation is decent. Please don’t ask to see my face immediately.

If any of this seems mildly intriguing, please reach out! Can’t wait to hear from you!

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u/Anxious_Neat4069 — 12 hours ago

M 31 off work for vacation. Come chat?

Looking for any women out there who have time to kill and just wanna sit back and chat the day away. Tell me about your day, spill some gossip, or just vent if needed. Completely safe space and judgement free. Hope to hear from you.

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u/Odd-Kaleidoscope1787 — 9 hours ago

Friendly chat - 34 F

Hoping to chat with some friendly people, online only! I am married btw and live a very normal life. Just looking for some easy going people to get to know. There is no pressure to respond right away to every message. I get that we have busy lives! Let’s see if we can become friends!

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u/ChocolateChipSmore — 20 hours ago

30F looking for a friend

Hi, I have a lot of downtime at work and often feel bored or lonely. I’d like to find a friend to share the mundane moments of my life with. I love animals and traveling, and I enjoy opening up to each other and chatting about our hobbies

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u/Longjumping_Ear_7091 — 11 hours ago

Looking for fellow overthinkers

Hey 29M,

I’m looking to connect with people who tend to overthink a lot. The kind of people whose minds keep running long after everyone else has gone to sleep.

Life can get overwhelming when you’re carrying too many thoughts on your own. Sometimes all we need is a genuine conversation, a place to vent, or someone who simply understands.
If you’re an overthinker and would like a few like-minded friends to talk to, feel free to reach out.

This is a platonic and respectful space for everyone. Please be kind.

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u/VegetableResearch71 — 10 hours ago

40 M/Colorado - I knew making friends would be hard, but not this hard

Just crossed the 40 threshold and am trying my damndest to continue being social. I am married with no kids and I work from home so socializing with people who aren’t my wife is difficult. I do have friends, but sometimes it’s nice having new people in your life… you know..plus they seem to slowly be dwindling off or they are really busy.

I tried meetups, but can’t ever make those work. I tried Bumble for Friends, but that just seems like a nightmare. I figured I would give this a try and at least see what happens.

I enjoy hiking, paddleboarding, games (video and board), movies, music, travel.

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u/FeedYouALeaf — 13 hours ago

30F - Bored at work!! Lets chat!!

Hey :) 30F from the Midwest!

I love to draw, write, cook, bake, play games, be outside doing things. I like listening to music, watching random shows, learning new things. Im a huge nerd too lol

I have 13 animals, own a small farm/homestead, am pretty self sufficient. I have a lot of random hobbies and skills.

Hope to chat!! :D

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u/bramblesovereign — 12 hours ago

I just finished watching Obsession and now I'm curious...

F[37] from Hawaii

What would y'all wish for if you had a One Wish Willow? Would you even make a wish on one?

I wouldn't use one but if I had to think of something I'd wish for it would probably be, to able to speak every language. I would not use my wish on a person.

Also, my other question: is the one wish willow trying to teach people a lesson? Or is it just demonic?

The movie left me with a lot of questions but I love thinking of theories. I think over analyzing movies is fun.

Anyway I don't have anyone to talk to about this movie and I decided to sound off here and wanting to hear ppls opinion about it and if they'd use the willow.

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u/moviechic07 — 18 hours ago

31F - Aussie looking for new friends :)

Hi there! I am 31F Australia based, looking for some new friends! I can be a bit shy in the beginning but will open up as I get to know you.

A bit about me:
I am a quiet introvert that loves to read, fantasy mostly but I also enjoy sprinkles of other genres too.
I enjoy a bit of casual gaming on the PC or switch. Main games I play on PC is ESO and FFXIV and love any cozy game on the switch.
I do work full time and generally long hours (bit of a workaholic).
I have 3 cats that get treated better than myself.

I’m very easygoing and hoping to find someone with similar interests and easy to talk with. If anything resonates with you I look forward to hearing from you :)

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u/xAlice021 — 21 hours ago