r/MakeFriendsOver30

35m looking to make some buddies (both genders welcome no NSFW please)

Hi everyone 🖐 just looking to have a chinwag with pretty much anyone. My inbox is open for anything except NSFW none of that please 😊, that being said I hope who ever reads this is having a grand Thursday!.

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u/thegreatfulalky — 6 hours ago

M35! At work and I’m awful at making friends at this age!

I’m 35 I’m from Texas and I’m trash at making friends at this point in my life. I used to be the life of the party now I never wanna leave the house lol. I’m into gaming and watching movies and tv shows. I listen to legitimately every kind of music and I’m super easy to talk to! My Dms are always open!

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u/AdditionalUsual4293 — 6 hours ago

33M - I am an old man

I like cooking baking and I am big fan of coin collecting, model cars collecting.
I have a family and lost my grandmother recently.
Such a hard time. I am an introvert and I am Egyptian. I like people of all kinds - I accept new friendship applicants

please apply through my DM or comments

comments are recommended

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u/Shoddy-Quiet-4565 — 8 hours ago

33 f -Looking for new chat buddies :)

Hello everyone, I'm looking to connect with new people and hopefully make a friend or two. I love cooking, crochet,video games, cars and horror movies. I'm getting back into reading, so if you have any book recommendations feel free send them over here. Well that's a little about me, thanks for stopping by. 💜

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u/thesuccubae — 11 hours ago

30- Looking for easy conversations and people who can actually talk

Hi, I’m Ash.

I’m the kind of person who goes hiking for peace… and comes back needing days to recover like it was a final boss fight.

I travel a lot, but not for luxury or social media. I like getting lost in random streets, late-night walks, and those quiet moments where you just sit and take it all in.

I cook too. Sometimes it’s amazing, sometimes it’s a lesson.

I write poetry, usually late at night when my brain refuses to switch off.

I like having plans, but I’m also fine ditching them if something better comes along.

I’m here for genuine, low-pressure friendships. Just easy conversations that flow. I get along best with people who are calm, self-aware, and don’t take themselves too seriously.

One thing though, I don’t do abbreviations. If you send “wyd,” I’ll probably ignore it. And one-word replies kill conversations.

I travel often, so distance doesn’t matter. Good people are rare.

Currently in Germany.

Please be 25+

Also, fair warning: I might ask random questions or give you stupid harmless dares just to keep things interesting.

If you read this far, send a 🍪

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u/knife_brows — 7 hours ago

34m. Tell me a crazy story from your life

Hello! The ice is tough to break on here sometimes. So just start with telling me a story from your life. Could be anything. Level of detail is entirely up to you. But yeah, hopefully it's interesting in some way. Hopefully I can ask follow up questions. Hopefully you also ask me about a story from my life. And hopefully this all blends smoothly into a good conversation.

3.. 2.. 1.. Go!

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u/johndoe10001 — 8 hours ago

36F Off mom duty for the night

It’s a regular weekday night and I’m finally off mom duty for a bit. Looking for some genuine, easygoing conversation. Lately my love language is Indian food and I’m always down to talk recipes, restaurants, or favorites. Also up for funny stories, memes, or whatever you feel like sharing. Just here to chat and meet some nice people.

PS: I only reply to thoughtful messages

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u/Alarming-Rhubarb2576 — 13 hours ago

36F Outside enjoying this unseasonably warm evening with the desperation of someone who’s checked tomorrow’s forecast already. 🥲🌥️

Currently trying to absorb enough warmth tonight to emotionally survive tomorrow’s temperature drop. The weather is giving one perfect evening before returning to its usual nonsense tomorrow.

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u/Alarming_Kiwi7035 — 12 hours ago

34 F small witch seeks conversations and companions

Me: Small witch who is mostly friendly, very tired, is at her wit's end a little, has a nasty sense of humor and will try to make you laugh (or maybe curse you, be nice). I can offer dog pictures, cat pictures, ancient familiar recipes, possibly incantations and some burping.

You: friend! Friend who is friend-shaped! Friend who might want to talk books, music, would like to swap recipes, maybe chat shit and keep each other company?

Icebreaker for you: what fictional universe would actually be awful to live in?

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u/littlegothprofessor — 17 hours ago

32F EST Late night stoner loner looking for someone to chat with

32 year old ladyyyy from the east cost of the United States

I work weird hours but tonight I’m trying to stay up late for a long day tomorrow (makes no sense, right?)

Pickle flavored anything is my favorite

If you think triple texting is bad, wait until you see my text quartet

Friends is my comfort show and is usually playing in the background when I’m on my phone scrolling aimlessly for hours

I can talk about anything and everything but hope you don’t expect me to carry the entire conversation

If you’re gonna be up for a few hours and wanna chat about why there are probably aliens on Antarctica, slide into those DMs baybeeeee

Until then,
B✨

*********

I’ve posted here before and have gotten bombarded with messages. If you’ve messaged me before and didn’t get a response, please don’t hesitate to try again 🫶

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u/kittyhippie44 — 14 hours ago

Wiping hands

Hey, mid 30s male here. Do you guys typically use paper towel to wipe your hands or just what you’re wearing? I don’t mean like sauce or grease, but water or something clear.

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u/iiggles — 21 hours ago

How do you stop being sad and start being awesome?

F30, Europe.

Every time I am sad or feel broken, I cry a bit, then tell myself to stop acting like a child and get up and fight. It's been working for me for the past 10(?) years.

This week, a lot of stuff has happened simultaneously in my life, and I feel that this time, I'm actually broken and unable to get back up.

I've been crying nearly non stop for the past 3 days, barely eaten and slept.

Nobody died, but I've managed to destroy several relationships at once.

How do I get my mind off of that?

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u/CloudberryMuffins — 1 day ago

34M - Clocked out of work and immediately realized I need more friends

Post-work boredom is hitting hard tonight, so I’m looking for some new people to talk to and hopefully become actual friends with.

I’m into good conversations, dumb humor, music, food, random rabbit holes, and people who can match energy. Down for casual chats or deeper conversations if we click.

Skip the boring “hey” and answer one of these instead:

  • What’s your most controversial food opinion?
  • What song have you had on repeat lately?
  • What’s something you could talk about for hours?
  • What fictional world would you survive in?

Come save me from another night of scrolling aimlessly

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u/Dry_Inevitable_9777 — 21 hours ago

36M - Medically retired looking to hangout, game, or travel

Hey all,

Getting out of my box here. I medically retired form US active duty due to an injury last year and have hardly left my house. Trying to adjust to regular life and now meet some new people. I love to game and just casual chat. I travel 3-4 times a year to new places as a way to get out and spent last summer in Germany/Poland. I love talking fitness and staying in great shape and read multiple books a month. I have a background in Cyber operations and mental health work.

I don't mind meeting new people but would love to have a female chat companion, honestly not too picky as I try to meet friends. I live in US East timezone.

Cheers all, have a great day.

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u/NotAPortHopper — 19 hours ago

F4M | 23

i think i’m just looking for a comforting presence. someone kind. someone easy to talk to.

i like quiet nights, music that feels like memories, stars and conversations that slowly become important without realizing it. I don’t really know what i’m searching for exactly, maybe just a connection that feels soft and real.

tell me about yourself ♡

no creeps please.

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u/medicalspec — 21 hours ago

What is a goal that you want to achieve this year? 36M

Hey everyone. Lets talk and get to know eachother and help better eachother achieve what we are aiming for. Or we can just talk about anything else, plantonic of course. Small talk is fine to. Its nice to always just to meet someone new or have someone listen for a bit. So send me a message and lets get to know eachother. Some of my hobbies are traveling working out games and game development. Looking forward to getting to know you.

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u/TheGrimSykic — 1 day ago
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38m London, England - How is everyone's week going so far?

Hi

I’m 38, I live in London

A few things about me:

  • I’m into photography, mostly wandering around with a camera and noticing things (you can peek at my Flickr if you’re curious: https://www.flickr.com/photos/piersmathias/ )
  • I read a lot: history (currently very Europe-focused, mainly a book on The Reformation and another on Louis XVI at the moment ), John le Carré when I want something atmospheric, or random Japanese crime books (Seishi Yokomizo)

I like conversations that wander a bit — books that stay with you, cities you’ve loved or disliked, why certain photos work, how history quietly shapes the present. I’m more curious than loud, more reflective than chaotic, but I can definitely hold my own in a pub or on a long walk.

Looking to meet someone kind, curious, and capable of a decent chat. Ideally someone who puts a little effort with the first message and is not just a "hey", "how are you?"

If any of that sounds like your wavelength, say hello and introduce yourself a little!

u/Terry-Shark — 24 hours ago

32/F- Looking to make some new friends, see where it goes

Hey, I’m just looking to meet some new people and see if we click.

I like consistent conversation, but I’m not someone who needs constant messaging.

I prefer honesty and people who say what they mean.

Happy to start as just chatting and just see how things develop naturally, if we become friends or not.

If you’re the same, feel free to say hi.

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u/Historical-Rub-421 — 1 day ago