r/MakeFriendsOver30

32f you should message me I’m cool 😎

My long distance avoidant attachment
nothinguationship ghosted me and it's psychologically torturing me.

I want an easy and effortless connection with good conversation. I’m easy enough to talk to and sometimes I’m funny. Just one person who will always be in my corner, for chats and moral support. I’d give the same time and energy back.

Send me a message if you aren’t here to goon and tell me a bit about yourself. I’m fun and cool I promise but I’ll probably triple text you and judge your tattoos.

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u/tattooedlovebird — 6 days ago

38F nerd out on me

What's something you absolutely love but don't have anyone to share it with? I love learning new things and am always in the market for new hobbies so teach me something! I love science, books, nature, history, mechanics. There's not many topics I'm not super interested in so I'd love to hear what tickles your brain.

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u/Ok_Class835 — 5 days ago

31F California- I’m looking for you… yes, YOU!

Hiya! I’ll keep this short and sweet so I can hopefully get your attention. Just a married stay at home mom from west coast USA looking to make friends and connect!

It’s so hard making friends as an adult so I’m hoping I have some luck, if you’re looking for someone to talk to about anything and including but not limited to: video games, cleaning tips, swap recipes, random memes, being socially awkward, enjoying the small everyday things, talking about or relationships (if you’re in one, I’m married! So I always have something to talk about), or a random thought at 2am?! Sign up below!

I’m just a great wife and mom looking to expand my friend circle to have something for me now, and I do believe that men and women can just be friends!☺️

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u/Milk_Tea_Godess — 5 days ago

34 f looking for a new friend.

Alright, I really can't sleep. I'm watching a stupid Christmas movie, and I'm thinking maybe a chat or a Discord call with a cool person?

Here's what I'm looking for in a friend: someone who's fun, positive, serious when needed, kind, and enjoys chatting as well as voice chats. Ideally, someone based in the US or Canada. I'd love to exchange messages throughout the day and before bedtime.

A little about me: I'm 34. I adore iced coffee, and I love taking baths, going to brunches, listening to audiobooks, visiting museums, and enjoying music—from pop to country to opera. I'm a huge rom-com fan. I also love going to concerts, dancing barefoot, and wearing jewelry that sparkles. I enjoy smiling at animals, getting so engrossed in audiobooks that I bump into people in the street, and fully immersing myself in the stories.

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u/booklover671 — 5 days ago

32F

Hiii I’m out with some friends but kinda annoyed. I’ve had a few drinks and I’m just looking to talk. Nothing long term.

32 Latina F
Capricorn
I love concerts
Sunset are my favorite
Currently obsessed with vanillamace rp and have no one to talk about it to
Shy at first
My favorite place I’ve been to is Puerto Rico (9 times now)

Ask me anything!

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u/PitifulActuator7626 — 5 days ago

33F- Anyone want to watch Bojack Horseman with me?

Basically title. I’m 33F, USA, feeling sad about being alone. Would love some (online) company. Feel
free to suggest something else.

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u/twohalvesofapie — 5 days ago

Private Investigator looking to pass the time while I'm on surveillance (42M)

I spend a ton of time in my car listening to audiobooks, watching stuff on YouTube or just scrolling Reddit and it gets incredibly boring after a while. I'll talk to some of the other investigators I know but we end up just talking about work.

Years ago, before I got into this, it was a lot easier to have a social life but being isolated and working long hours hasn't left me with a lot of time or energy to make new friends.

I'm pretty long winded and like to tell funny stories. I have a few p.i. stories as well but probably not as many as you would imagine.

I'm not looking for any romantic relationship or anything like that. I'm in the process of divorce so I'm not looking to jump back into anything any time soon. However, I may make an exception for someone who is incredibly wealthy.

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u/Dolemicus-II — 6 days ago

F30 uk dark sense of humour, good heart and good banter

Holaaaaa I'm 30 from the UK (Yorkshire) looking for some weirdos to call my own. Making and maintaining friendships is not as easy as i thought it would be when I was younger.

Love true crime, reading, collecting bratz and spooky looking dolls, doom scrolling reddit, gaming and hanging out with my doggo.

Looking for some gal pals for partners in crime, laughing until we cry at stupid tiktoks and memes, a little roasting of eachother but also picking eachother up when life gets heavy.

Send me a DM!

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u/ImpressiveClock1765 — 6 days ago

31F | Looking for genuine friendships, good conversations, and my kind of weird people 🌿

Hey everyone! I’m 31 and looking to make some new friends and build genuine connections. Adult friendships are weirdly hard to make, so here I am giving Reddit a shot. 😂
A little about me: I’m a social worker, an overthinker, a curious person who loves learning about just about everything, and someone who can go from a deep philosophical conversation about consciousness to sending you the most ridiculous meme you’ve ever seen.
I’m into music, psychology, spirituality, theology, human behavior, and conversations that accidentally turn into a three-hour deep dive into some random topic. I have a bit of a dark/alternative side, appreciate people who think outside the box, and love a good sense of humor. I’m also a Christian, but I appreciate open-mindedness and people who can have thoughtful conversations even when we don’t see everything the same way.
I’d love to meet people I can talk to throughout the day, share random thoughts with, laugh with, send music recommendations to, and eventually feel comfortable enough around to be completely myself. Bonus points if you enjoy deep talks, weird rabbit holes, or being a little nerdy about the things you love.
I’m open to friendships with people from anywhere, whether that means chatting online or potentially meeting up if we’re nearby. I’m not looking for anything romantic, just genuine friendships.
If any of this resonates with you, feel free to message me! Tell me something you’ve been really interested in lately, a song you can’t stop listening to, or a random fact you think everyone should know. 😊

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u/lady_raemo — 6 days ago

Needing friends :/

Hey all! I’m 29f US desperate for friends. I would love to have a small group or even like a discord server.

I don’t want any perverts messaging me. I am happy married so respect that :)

I’m a nerd, crafter, proud parent. I like some video games but I’m always busy.

My favorite season is winter ❄️

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u/Successful-Remove738 — 5 days ago

32f looking for someone to build a connection with.

Hi,

I’m from a town that’s pretty isolated so making new friends is rough.

I’m a stay at home mom, currently separated but living with my husband (our location has a lot to do with it). I’m back in school to broaden my resume when I plan on returning to work. Before I had my kid I ran coffee shops and my last gig was overseeing 6 locations.

I love sports. Dodger fans give me the ick so please stay away, although you guys love to find yourself in chats that don’t ask for you. Love watching football but don’t have a team I root for in particular, fuck Spanos.

When I’m not being a mom or getting irritated at my sports teams, you can find me cooking new recipes, visiting museums, reading and if I’m really feeling it a video game. I take daily walks and live for that mental clarity.

Reddit is cool at first but looking for someone to either text or message on what’s app.

Hope to chat soon.

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u/MajesticTradition198 — 5 days ago

35F / PST — Looking for the conversational equivalent of a spontaneous midnight adventure

Lately I’ve been craving a kind of connection where you can spend hours talking to someone and never run out of things to say. I guess I’m looking for a platonic version of Before Sunrise, except we’re probably on Discord instead of wandering around Vienna all night.

I’m 35, in the Pacific Northwest, finishing up a bachelor’s degree in accounting, and navigating a bit of a transitional period in life. I’m introverted, curious, and a bit nerdy. I’m really drawn to people who have rich inner lives and interesting ways of looking at the world.

I’m into movies/ shows (and analyzing them to death), music, video games, macro photography, and falling down rabbit holes about whatever happens to grab my attention. I like growing 🍄 (yes, that kind), doing yoga, spending time in nature, and I love discovering something new through someone else’s enthusiasm.

What matters most to me is curiosity and a sense of humor. I’d love to find someone who’s up for sharing music, watching a movie/ show together, playing something occasionally, or just having a long, meandering conversation that somehow turns into the highlight of our evening.

If any of this resonates, tell me about something you’ve been really fascinated by lately. I’d love to hear about it!

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u/inspiredbydread — 5 days ago
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37/M/England - Looking for New Folks

Hey!

Im a 37 year old guy from England who's looking to meet new people and maybe make a friend or two, casual conversation, more in depth, and just generally trying to get to know more people. I don't care too much where you're from or your age, but let me know anyway just so I have an idea of who I'm speaking to. Only caveat I have is please be over the age of 20.

I'm pretty laid back in general and not all that really judgemental of people but I am interested in stories of how they came to be. People's lives, what they are in to, where they want to go, what their idea of happiness and life looks like. That sort of thing.

I've been described as a cool head with an even temperament. Curious about almost everything. Intelligent, funny and reasonably witty. A good speaker and listener.

Interests? Outdoors, exploring new places and visiting things off the beaten track. Architecture, history, horror stories, the surreal and out there.

I'm just hammering through chores after a week of work and taking a quiet day to myself so if I sound like the kind of person who may be of interest to you then feel free to drop me a message.

Ta!

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u/BigGreenSpaceMonster — 5 days ago

hi! I'm 33/f and looking for anime friends

hi! My name is Jess, 33/f and from the USA.
Just looking for people to talk about anime or daily life.
Send a message and we'll go from there :)

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u/lapisandhoneylove — 5 days ago

32M fighting the loneliness tonight and looking for some company.

Little bit about me. I’m 32. I like sports. I like musicals. I like hallmark movies. I like Disney world. I like working out and the gym. I like science. I’m kinda a little bit of everything lol.

I also like learning new things. So come teach me something. Maybe we share an interest and can nerd out over that. Or we can play a chat game.

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u/Spirited_Ideal5885 — 5 days ago

35F US Quirky and Introspective

Hello & Welcome 💜 I’m looking for some friends! I’m a curious, slightly anxious, and occasionally witty person. I’m into psychology, philosophy, poetry, and lots of music. Camus, Led Zeppelin & Thai food is my vibe. I’m also very deeply into astrology. I love people who can be silly and also thoughtful. Tell me about your favorite song, your weirdest theory, or something you’ve been thinking about lately. We can discuss whatever I’m open. I’m a little introverted at first tbh. I really value warmth, kindness, and curiosity. Mostly just looking for cool peeps. Bonus points if you have a slightly strange sense of humor! Please be 30+ & also in the US!

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u/Conscious-Art3545 — 6 days ago

34F Looking to make new friends!

Hey!

I thought I'd put myself out there and meet some new people. Just looking for genuine connections and people I can vibe with😊

I'm into music, reading horror/thriller books, movies and doing my nails. I'm always looking for new books to read or movies to watch, so please send recommendations my way!

Currently obsessed with AHS S13, so if you're into American Horror Story too, please come talk to me about it.

I have 3 cats who basically own my house, and I'm just their unpaid staff. If you have cats, dogs, or literally any animal, PLEASE SHOW ME PICTURES!

I'm pretty easygoing and enjoy a good mix of casual conversations, banter, sarcasm, and deeper talks. I like getting to know people beyond the usual small talk, and I'm always up for hearing about whatever you're interested in, even if it's something I know absolutely nothing about.

Just a heads-up: I'm here for friendship and genuine conversations, not hookups or anything NSFW.

If you want to chat, tell me a little about yourself instead of just saying "hey"! Give me something to work with. What's your favourite horror movie, or what's the last book you read that you couldn't put down?

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u/AMSHL22 — 5 days ago

31 M - Just got done coaching tonight. I'll be up for a while, so who wants to talk?

Hey everyone, happy late Friday night! I'm a 31 M from the Midwest of the US and I'm a good ol HS teacher and coach...*bonus points if you can guess what subjects I teach and what sport I coach.

I just got home from coaching tonight and I'm going to be up for a while (early evening Red Bull lol), so I'd be happy to talk to whoever about whatever. Just please don't be a bot, trying to sell me something, or unable to hold a conversation.

I have a ton of hobbies and interests: sports, working out, traveling, hiking, fishing, reading, history, and geography. If we have any similar interests, great! If not, that's okay too.

If you're up for some good convo, send me a message!

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u/Antique-Custard9695 — 5 days ago

34F Looking to meet new friends

Hey, I'm 34 and from the great continent of North America. All hail the eternal winter, depending on where you live.

I love beauty wherever it exists: in old objects, buildings, and anime/video game/music/movies. Would love to trade song links, play a game together, break down what works/doesn't work about a game/movie, or banter about nothing.. and I like to talk about accountability goals. I can also go for a chat about how difficult it is to make friends as an adult, if you find yourself in the same situation.

Most of my time is spent walking in the woods. I don't like most modern games or movies (but am happy whenever I find exceptions!). And on that note, here's some examples:

  • Anime: mostly psychological or more iconic series; not super into tropey anime. Perfect Blue, Haibane Renmei, Erased, Inuyasha, Rozen Maiden

  • Games: mostly story driven games and rpgs. Hollow Knight, Stardew, Guild Wars 2, Skyrim, older "retro" games from ps1/ps2/gamecube. Music: mostly game OST and oldies, some mountain music (banjo, fiddle, violin), some lofi, alt-rock, and idk. The main thing I don't like are drums, super EDM electronic beats, and a ton of screaming

  • Movies: mostly movies with a bit of meaning, but I can also go for feel-good films. A huge part of what I like is looking at the world as it was before 2000 (buildings, clothes, objects..)

  • Other: I collect books but don't read a ton (mostly history, fantasy realism, general fiction, and classic literature). Right now I'm reading Otherland - Tad Williams

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u/Beneficial-Risk-6378 — 6 days ago