Guy I’m seeing and female coworker
How would you feel if you e been seeing a man (28) for a year almost and you are 32, he has a female coworker that joined his construction team shes 19 he then added on social media. Later he mentioned he always gave her lifts from work. I then discovered when he was showing me instagram she daily sends him hindreds of reels. Rexently there was a work party for golf where the teo girls dressed up in golf mini skirts etc they then went back to a coworkers to srink but he came home to me by 9.30 pm. when he came home drunk that day he was scrolling and I saw he had a video of just he swinging in her skirt and a selfie of her and a cat and another pic of her and the other girls then not much else of the boys. In the morning I asked to see his golfing pics and he went all weird and said he had none. He went to toilet and came back and seemed to wanna show me immediately he had none (he had deleted them) about a week later he even offered to show me they didn’t delete from snap chat so if I wanna see them which I denied cos they’re probably different ones. She texts him a lot she’s sent memes saying things jokingly to him like I’m your bear your my kitten and on a recent away trip for work for two weeks she had a nearby separate aparetment but ended up at his apartment hanging at nights aparently due to the guy he was staying with inviting her.
I’ve expressed feelings before cos of the rides and I know what co workers get like and he since unfollowed her on insta but she still sends him reels on there daily too.
Am I crazy? I’ve been betrayed and seen so much coworker stuff on job sites please help give me insight. He also now seems to hide his phone when entering insta messages etc as she prob has sent him something and he’s worried I’d see etc