r/NYCsocialclub

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Birthday wishes

Today is my birthday 🎂....... rather not spend it alone with my alcoholic dad or my crappy one friend lol

Would like to take someone out

I will pay for the dinner 🍽

My budget is under $100 so can't do anything crazy

I dont care what you look like

Seriously I want a real human connection...looks are overrated

(prefer female though)

My hobbies are learning chinese/japanese

Computer programming

Daoism etc etc

I live in elmhurst queens

u/Nightmarepie6775 — 3 hours ago

Need friends that can actually afford to go out. 27m

Hey guys. would anyone want to grab a drink? I live in queens and have come to a realization that I pay a lot for the friends I have and would like to have friends that can afford to go out and maybe grab some dinner randomly.

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u/Tonysgabagool69 — 4 hours ago

25F looking for creative/content friends in NYC

Hey everyone <3 I’m 25F and I’m a content creator with 225k+ followers across socials. I used to be completely obsessed with content creation, taking photos, filming around the city, posting vids etc etc...But lately I’ve been so disconnected from it... I’ve become super self-conscious and it has honestly taken a lot of the fun out of something I used to love. I’m looking for someone in NYC who’s into photography, content creation, filming who would be down to wander around coffee shops, new places. galleries, events, rooftops, restaurants, etc. and shoot content together. This could be a paid creative collaboration, a content buddy situation, or a skills swap. I’m open at this point!!! More about me: I run a social media agency, design websites, and help others grow their online presence (ironic ik!). I helped my clients (CEO's/founders) and brands generate over 150 million views since last year, and I love love love helping people with their overall online presence & digital personal brand. If you’re a photographer, creator, student, social media person, aspiring influencer, or someone who loves creating and wants to build more of an online presence too, I would love to connect!! Happy to send my website/socials once we connect :)

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u/DearGrab4196 — 20 hours ago

Need Friends to avoid becoming a loser hermit

27/M NYC native who spent the last couple of years in sales looking to make new connections. After a string of bad luck, I realized that I have no friends to actively hang with or to positively reinforce the level up mindset.

Just want some cool friends to banter and have dope social outings with, figured I’d take a chance before I lose all hope!

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u/WebMaximum3175 — 19 hours ago

28M looking for buddies to hang or work out

Hey guys!

28M Asian here, currently living in Queens (close to Manhattan). Looking for guy friends around my age to hang or workout together.

I’ve been in NYC for about a year now after moving over from CA. And I used to have a solid friend group. I definitely miss just hitting the gym, shooting the shit, and hanging out with my bros.

A little about me and what I'm down for: I work out 4–5 times a week. Open for gym buddies if we can make it work. I’m a huge foodie especially for Asian food. Always on the hunt for good spots and boba.

I’m also into coffee (I make my own pour over) movies (especially horror, thrillers, and action), board games and bar hopping.

Keeping expectations realistic with the post but wanna give it a shot ! Feel free to hmu if you wanna connect with a bit about yourself.

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u/Complex-Share7107 — 22 hours ago

Hi, I'm new to NYC and looking to make friends 🧡.

I'm also job hunting and preparing to start college next month. I'm an artist, photographer and comic book movie nerd. I live in Astoria (Queens).

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u/Equivalent_Peace_756 — 21 hours ago

50/M Looking For Friends To Explore The City With

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I am a 50 married dad from NJ but in the city often. Would love to meet people who also enjoy exploring the city, trying new places to eat or sites to see. Hope to hear from you!

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u/NJDad4You — 1 day ago

30M native NYer looking to make life long friends who I can feed.

Been here all my life happy to see all the people coming from all over the world looking for friends in NYC. More than happy too show people around and explore more of my own city.

I like to eat and as a result I cook. I also garden, play guitar, and game socially.

Mostly looking for life long friends who I can feed since I can't finish all the deserts I make on my own who would also appreciate it.

I make cheesecake and ice cream every now and then.

And for those of you 21+ I also make my own limoncello.

Since it's gotten that bad, also want to mention I'm happily in a committed long term relationship. Strictly looking for wholesome friends to hang out with and vibe. So yea don't worry about me being a super creep.

u/FoodkingAi — 2 days ago

Looking for friends in NYC and LI

Heya all! I’ve just been struggling to make friends in LI and was hoping to find friends that like to party and are exciting and outgoing! I want friends to also go to NYC with. Idk why it’s so hard to find friends in NY in general.

P.S. I didn’t know what flair to put for this, I’m relatively new to Reddit

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u/GothicChaosss — 2 days ago

29M on the UES looking to make friends

Hey yall, single straight male here looking to make friends. Been living in the city for roughly 3 years. I’m into basketball, running, hip hop. I spend too much time watching basketball podcasts on YouTube. I just bought a full-frame mirrorless camera but have no idea how to use it yet lol. I’m Latino but don’t really speak Spanish ( I understand it though). I’m from Maryland (go Terps!). I’m a software engineer in tech; have been pretty busy with interview prep as of late. I want to learn about social media marketing and start-ups but haven’t made the time. I plan on living here for a very long time (unless I get offered a job opportunity of a lifetime elsewhere… then maybe I’d reconsider). My living situation is very stable. I don’t drink but I’m open to bars. I live a sober life. HMU

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u/Sea_Mud5315 — 2 days ago

M32 - Anybody down with a weekly Calisthenics meetup?

I’ve been working out by myself for about 2 years now and while I’ve enjoyed sculpting my body I do feel like something’s missing. At the very least I’d like a workout partner that can keep me on my Ps and Qs..but ultimately I’d like to build it into a community that will always be there for each other and keep each other motivated!

Ideally I’d like for the meetup to be somewhere local where we all can meet which I figure would be Central Park. Or there can be a different location for each week at a calisthenics park.

Time/day would be 12-3pm every Sunday or whenever really. I’m assuming everyone goes out for night activities on this day so why not knockout the work early and get it over with?

If you are interested please feel free to DM me and we can set something up. No weird shit 🙏🏾

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u/playlstondmand — 1 day ago
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First time going to a club - anyone down to go together?

Hey everyone, I'm 24m in Mississauga and thinking of going to a club for the first time this weekend.
Honestly kind of nervous going alone lol.
Is anyone else down to go and show me the ropes? Just looking for good music and a chill vibe, nothing crazy.
DM me if you're going and don't mind company!

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u/faddy30 — 3 days ago

New to NYC and looking for new friends!

Hello there! I'm 27M and brand new to NYC. I would love to meet some new people and form genuine friendships. I know it's hard to find friendships that go beyond surface level conversations sometimes, but I'm excited to meet interesting and kind people in this city. I work in tech/research. As far as my hobbies go, I'm a very outdoorsy guy and always down for adventures. I love working out (currently trying CrossFit), biking and hikes, playing tennis (still a beginner), going for long walks, etc. I wanna do lots of long walks in the city and thinking to walk the entire broadway. I'm also thinking picnics in the central park while reading my book and visiting different museums. I love dancing (mainly bollywood) and have tried bachata a bit (took some lessons before). I also enjoy exploring new cafes, restaurants, bookstores (also an avid reader), and solo traveling. I'm pretty chill dude and never judge anyone. I believe we are all beautiful in unique ways. If you feel like we would have a lot of fun hanging out as friends, please reach out :)

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u/tofu-lifts — 3 days ago

27F, from park slope looking for friends 🥰

Hey everyone! I made a post here a little while ago and got a lot of responses, but it seems like a lot of people are looking for a friend group rather than just meeting one person, which honestly sounds fun. 😊 didn’t think of that, lol.
So I figured I’d see if anyone would be interested in getting together! Whether that’s group meetups or one on one hangouts, I’m down for whatever.
A little about me:
27F from Park Slope 🫶🏽
In college
Love mindlessly walking around the city for absolutely no reason
4/20 friendly 🍃
Down for arcades, bars, karaoke, bowling, trying new foods (even though I’m super picky 😂), concerts, random events, and just getting out of the house.
Also down to just talk about life
Just to be clear, I’m not looking for anything romantic or sexual. Strictly platonic friendships. I’d love to meet genuine people and just have organic fun.
I’d prefer to meet other women, but guys are welcome too as long as you’re genuinely looking for friendship and respect that boundary.
I also have Instagram if you’d rather talk there first. Feel free to ask for it! 😊
Also, if anyone isn’t doing anything for the 4th tonight, I know holidays can be kind of lonely or just plain boring sometimes. I’ll probably be around Park Slope just hanging out, so if anyone wants to just get out of the house with no mission, send me a message! Everyone’s welcome. 🥰

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u/Embarrassed-Slice-14 — 3 days ago

Looking to meet up!

Hi everyone!

I’m a 24F who just moved to the city and I’d love to meet new people. I’m a bit of a homebody, but I’m really trying to step out of my comfort zone and make the most of being here.

I love music (PinkPantheress, The Strokes, Tame Impala, Pond, Frank Ocean, Gorillaz, etc.), trying new cafes and restaurants, going on walks, concerts, watching movies and shows ,baking, painting, going to museums, going on random side quests and I’m really hoping to find some girls with similar interests who’d be down to meet up:)

Moving to the city can feel a bit isolating especially when starting from scratch, but I’m excited to put myself out there and this is a step towards that.

I made a post like that a week ago but I mostly got responses from guys so I'm just letting you know that I'm not looking to date anyone! Strictly girls please there are so many creepy guys on here.

Feel free to DM me if you’d like to meet up and hang out sometime:)

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u/fabulousrooney — 3 days ago

33M LF new friends

looking for male and female friends into park hangs, fashion, trying new resto, roadtrip and wholesome fun. not big on sports and working out but would love to take a walk with new friends and explore.

moved to NY 4yrs ago but still difficult to meet new people. I'm very friendly and wish to meet people who are too. DM me and let's exchange IG! x

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u/GladOpening3328 — 3 days ago

28M looking to build genuine friendships in NYC/NJ

Hi everyone!

Just to be upfront, I’m trying to push myself out of my comfort zone and meet new people in the area.

I’d love to explore new cafes and restaurants, catch movies, and just generally discover more of what the city has to offer. I’ve also been wanting to pick up pickleball and table tennis, so if anyone’s into that (or wants to learn together), I’m all in.

I’m easygoing, curious, and enjoy good conversation whether it’s about work, random hobbies, or just life in general. Open to meeting guys or girls, and happy to join an existing group chat or meetup if one exists. Would also be cool to put together a small group that hangs out regularly.

If you’re in a similar boat and want to expand your circle, feel free to reach out!

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u/No-Performer-1496 — 3 days ago

30F professional looking to make friends with similar interests in Ny/Nj

Hi everyone!
I recently moved to the area and work in the city while living in Nj. I’m hoping to meet new people who enjoy trying new things, and building genuine friendships.
I love exploring the city, checking out free events, going to concerts, visiting museums, grabbing coffee or drinks, hanging out in parks, and I’d even be down to start a book club if there is interest. I also enjoy dancing despite having absolutely no talent for it, going on walks, and I recently started working out , so I’d definitely be up for finding a gym buddy too.
It would be great to find a few close female friends to chat and gossip about life with, but I’m also happy to meet guys and maybe put together a small group that gets together for events every now and then.
I tend to connect best with people who are career-driven, curious, and enjoy learning whether that’s through work or personal interests. If you’re looking to expand your social circle and make some genuine friends, feel free to reach out! Also if there is already a group chat I can join I’d be happy to.

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u/bnnk1101 — 3 days ago

Anyone else relate?

I (30 M) just moved to NYC and hoping to find a social life. I know how hard it is to make friends as adults and I am already doing the things i need to do so far like going to activities and rec leageus etc.

I am very introverted and still very much struggle at these events to make connections with people. I struggle to share things about myself and ask others as well. I tend to sit at home because of this.

has anyone else faced similar challenges and found ways to make real friends? how do you go from baseline level to actual friends?

are there events you do that regularly meet like a rec league but something else like volunteering or some activity that has helped?

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u/Beautiful-Corgi-1064 — 4 days ago