r/NYCsocialclub

33F looking to expand social circle

33F | Midtown East 🗽 | Looking for New Friends 💕

Hi! I’m 33F living in Midtown East and looking to expand my social circle and make genuine connections with people around my age. 😊

I’m open to both male and female friends, but would especially love to meet more women! I’m always down for brunch, drinks, dinners, exploring NYC, events, rooftop hangs, or trying something new. 🥂🍽️✨

I also have a rooftop deck at my apartment that could be fun for socializing once we get to know each other. 🌇

If you’re in NYC and also looking for genuine friendships and fun people to do things with, send me a message and tell me a little about yourself! 💕

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u/Existing_Key_1079 — 22 hours ago

35F Anyone want to check out the Whitney or Guggenheim this rainy weekend?

It’s supposed to be rainy this weekend, and I’d rather not spend it cooped up in my apartment. 😅

Thinking about checking out either the Whitney or the Guggenheim (open to other museums too) and maybe grabbing coffee afterward.

A bit about me: I’m into photography, filmmaking, psychology/philosophy, and I enjoy deep convos over small talk. I enjoy spending time digesting art at museums/galleries, especially super technical work. But I’m also perfectly happy just wandering around.

If you’re around late 20s to late 30 and looking for a chill rainy day activity this weekend, shoot me a message!

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u/rivieradreamin — 1 day ago

mid-20s F in search of general accomplices

black F + manhattan, transplant of about 2 years here! quite a few of my friends live in brooklyn (and open to meeting more!) but would love to meet more people in the city as well! it would be dope to have people nearby who can just pull up to a local bar, grab dinner, see a movie, etc. on a random weeknight. i have more of a loose network of friends rn so would also be interested in forming or being integrated into a friend group :)

i'm into language learning (currently french + my heritage language), reading (mostly literary fiction, lots of mieko kawakami lately), cooking, fashion/design, movies + random classes/workshops (perfume making, flower arranging, etc). also would love to join a book club! love travel too—recently MTL + miami and hoping to do CDMX/maybe amsterdam soon :)

nightlife person and pretty open genre-wise: electronic (particularly a house head), indie, reggaeton/neoperreo, afrobeats/dancehall, r&b, etc. very down to go to whatever random event popped up on your partiful/dice/resident advisor (sometimes even on a weekday!) but equally down to have a picnic, walk around your favorite park, see a movie, or just sit somewhere and be kind of annoying.

i've been trying to be more intentional about decreasing my screen time + being present in the real world, so trying to open myself up to more spontaneity and actually Doing Things. i've been working/traveling a ton this summer so feel a little out of the loop 😭 would love to get back into stuff like lectures/book talks, art festivals, open streets, gallery stuff, random pop-ups, etc.

i work in healthcare/social services (very advocacy-focused) and would be down to bring more of that into my non-work life too- i've been to a couple events at the people's forum and am interested in more community organizing/volunteering/teach-ins etc. my career isn't particularly creative, so i also love basically any opportunity to consume/make/learn about art.

some places i frequent/have enjoyed, for an unnecessarily specific vibe check: elsewhere, damballa, baby's all right, pianos, 99 scott, jean's, the ripple room, poster house, noguchi museum, cooper hewitt, little island (one of my fave parks <3), AMC (a-list baby), angelika, BAM, the strand, rizzoli, NYPL, 2nd street, tokio 7, the people's forum, sugarfish, r/rs_x (iykyk), etc.

interested in meeting other women/queer people around my age who are curious, open-minded and actually down to make plans!!

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u/amordificil — 22 hours ago

27F New to UWS — Looking for Walking, Workout, Fantasy Football &amp; Pet-Sitting Buddies

27F - Just moved here - ISO some new NYC connections!

Just moved to the UWS and looking to meet some new people / get out there!!

ISO:
👟 A fellow girl walking buddy: would love to meet in Central Park near UWS or Jackie Kennedy Reservoir 1–2x a week to walk and chat! Also down to try running but we would have to build into it lol.
💪 A fellow UWS girl workout partner: I like lifting, HIIT, and pretty much all workout classes!
🚲 Someone to teach me how to bike around NYC: I have absolutely no idea what I’m doing lol
🏈 A fantasy football league to join: this will be year 4 for me and I love fantasy. Bonus points for a league that meets up in person to watch games every now and then!
🐕🐈 Anyone within ~25 min walking distance of Columbia University who wants a dog walker/pet sitter! I am set up / verified on Rover and looking to build some regular clients. I have a full time WFH position in tech, but love animals and enjoy pet sitting on the side.
🐱 Someone local to the UWS who wants to swap occasional cat sitting services: I’d love to connect with someone where we can help each other out during the occasional weekend out of town and become the consistent/established person to take care of each other’s pets.

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u/witominn — 1 day ago
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To all my single &amp; lonely people. Come out to Union Pool this Friday!!

It's getting lonely out here, looking to vibe with some strangers; grab a drink and eat some tacos.

Just linger around the taco truck around 7:30pm. Let's form a group, I'll be there mingling!

  • Check in/ post to this thread when you arrive. Keep everyone posted. See you there!
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u/Life_Appointments — 2 days ago

40F | Looking to Make Some New Friends

I’m 40F, childfree, and work a corporate Monday–Friday job. I’d love to meet some other remote/hybrid workers who are up for getting out of the house once in a while—trying new coffee shops or places to work, grabbing lunch, or occasionally deciding to log off a little early and enjoy the day.
I’m also a newer car enthusiast and have been getting into making some small modifications to my car, with hopes of eventually taking on some bigger projects.
I love food and cooking, and I’m always up for trying a new restaurant, finding a great cocktail spot, or spending an evening cooking something new at home. I enjoy the beach too, although I definitely haven’t made it there nearly enough this summer!
Mostly, I’m just looking to meet good people and build some genuine friendships. I’m open to connecting with anyone who enjoys good conversation, trying new things, and doesn’t mind making the occasional spontaneous plan.
If any of this sounds like something you’re into, feel free to reach out

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u/HeavenlyAg — 3 days ago

Does anyone wanna be my friend

F20 in Williamsburg. I don’t have friends, no one to call to hang out. Or just anything with. Ive been having sm trouble connecting with others, especially in a city which feels like everyones established. No one has time to meet another person. I have grandma hobbies, love crochet and reading, binging movies listening to music. Working out, I like every kind of plan that first involve substances. Id luv to meet some people who are interested in being friends:). I wanna learn about you.

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u/No-Country-8578 — 3 days ago

do you feel like you need more friends?

if you 🫵: A) want to be part of fun new friend group B) just want people to get out the house with and do cool things with C) or want to meet new people just for fun D) AND are willing to commit to hanging out in person with them at least three (3) times

then I would love to invite you to join our little server :) we have a cool group of people (early 20s - early 30s) from all over new york, that started just a few weeks ago through this very reddit.. we hang out every week, getting food or clubbing or just chilling in the park. or other stuff there's all kinds of things to do here.

DM me if you're interested tell me about yourself + why you wanna join <3

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u/Ordinary-Front781 — 2 days ago
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Starting or joining a casual Sunday night film club

Hi! I used to be part of a weekly film club where we'd watch a film out at a theatre, or someone's apartment if there was space and they felt comfortable hosting. I really miss the routine, and also have wanted to do it frequently Sunday nights to fight the Sunday scaries.

Does anyone know of any existing Sunday film clubs, or is interested in starting one together?

If starting, am thinking we would start with a few at a theatre in Brooklyn (we can choose once we have a critical mass and know everyone's commute), and maybe get a few drinks after if we are vibing.

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u/UpperBlessedSide — 4 days ago

25M Craving KBBQ in Midtown but need people to go with

Hey I'm visiting NYC for the next few days and I'm craving some kbbq in midtown, but I'd need a few others to join. I have a few spots in mind and the budget isn't too pricey, but any recommendations would be appreciated if you want to join.

It'll be for dinner tonight or tomorrow around 7-8:30pm, depends on how the turnout is.

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u/Andrew212N — 3 days ago

Curious who here moved to NYC at some point and who here has lived in NYC their whole lives (not in a gatekeepey way)

Would be interested to hear people’s different backgrounds, experiences, any anything else they feel like sharing.

Idk let’s get to know each other 👉🏻👈🏻

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u/UndercoverAlterEgo — 4 days ago

Back in nyc after 10 years. Join me for my birthday - sep 13th

So I’m Brazilian and lived in nyc 10 years ago. It’s my first time back in town and it’ll be my birthday.

It’s on the sep 14 but I’ll prob do somethin on the 13th since it’s a Sunday.

Would you join me for brunch or a dinner or whatever somewhere to help me make it remarkable?

I’d love to spend my birthday around new people and get to know your story.
It’ll be only me and my bf all alone. Help me make my 32nd year on earth more interesting.

I’ve no idea of places. Would you? 🥹
So you know I’m not a creep, my insta: @gabrielaozoriob

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u/Business_Scientist_8 — 4 days ago

30| F NYC 420 Friendly People🖤

Just a NYC Native from the Bronx looking to share good vibes with a group of people(willing to travel not limited to the Bronx). Im into museums, concerts, playing card games, going fishing or just simply sitting blasting music and having good conversations.im a mental health advocate so Im always a good ear to use . im also spontaneous and open to other Fun things to do.IM not really a drinker but don’t mind if you do. And not to gas myself up lol You are in safe hands with me . I know Theres a lot of weird people around lately. Just want a great small group of people to create a laidback, safe and fun environment for grown adults .

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u/xNyokox — 3 days ago

23m Figured I’d give this a shot

Hey i’m a 23 male in, NYC. I’ve been thinking lately about how as we get older, life changes and sometimes the friends we grew up with just end up going in different directions. So I figured why not meet some new people and make new connections. I’m still in school, pretty laid back, and I like good conversations, whether it’s something random and funny or something a little more real. I’m always down to grab food, hang out, explore the city, or just see where a new friendship goes. Looking to meet some genuine people around NYC and hopefully find a few that actually stick. Hmu if you’re interested, must show face.

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u/Old-Nail6901 — 3 days ago

18f just bad at making friends

I scrolled a bit and noticed I'm a bit younger than the average poster, hope that isn't a problem 😭 I'm an incoming freshman at Hunter (commuting from queens lol n I plan to major in psych) I hear the reputation cunys have for not being the most social so I'm looking for friends outside of college (or if we do happen to go to the same college that's cool too we can compare schedules) bonus points if u actually live in queens just hit me up (PLEASE)

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u/perfectlittlprincess — 4 days ago
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Looking for a patient and kind swimming instructor

Hi. I would like to learn to swim and have a lot of anxiety (general and in water) I'm looking for a swim instructor who can teach me at TMPL HK (I'm a member) and would be open to a trade.
Please feel free to comment or message me directly to discuss. Thank you

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u/No-Tap-8010 — 4 days ago

Looking for friends

Hey everyone I’m 25 F. Looking for more friends in nyc to connect with and be friends with. I want someone who’s a little like minded to me so wanna share about little about myself!

I’m vegan & lgbtq+ so have to be okay w both!

I love working out, playing sports, trying out new food spots, doing work out classes, arts and crafts classes. Would love to find someone to go to things with like that! I love movies, watching tv shows, and just doing fun things!

Message me if any of that sounds interesting to you :)

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u/Far-Philosopher-675 — 5 days ago