r/PakMemeistan

I don't usually post things like this. But I've been watching this situation for months and I can't stay quiet anymore.

A close friend of mine lost his brother, Sakhawat, not long ago. Sakhawat was one of those people you don't forget. quiet, sharp sense of humour, never a harsh word for anyone. I studied alongside him for 8 years. Not once did I hear him speak badly about a single person. He came from a family that left everything behind, moved from a remote area, and built their life with nothing but hard work and integrity. That's the kind of household this was. And sakhawat was fightinh rear type colon cancer for 4 years and documented some part of it here: https://www.instagram.com/sakhawatay/ .

His younger brother Sharafat is also so good and muture at yang age. coz i think he have seen alot stuff, coz idk how he handle all this with patiace fr. And now he is the sole responsible person in that family. He has major exams right now. That's the situation a grieving family, one son carrying everything, and he can't even fully process his loss because he's trying to hold the family together.

Here's what's happening.

A woman named Kainat Ansari that as get in tuch with him in june july after knowing about his cancer and he was in hopital uk, she was in usa, all intaction haopped on call mostly they met few times, and she has been using Sakhawat's name, his story, and content to build a public narrative on Instagram. She is actively collecting donations including USD from international followers, including people connected to Harvard using his identity and his memory as leverage.

The family has not authorized any of this. Not a single post. Not a single fundraiser. Not a single use of his name.

She has blocked the family. She has built a following around this story. And she is using the goodwill of people who genuinely loved Sakhawat or who are simply good-hearted people moved her narative and by grief to collect money.

The family does not want a public fight. They do not want legal chaos. Sharafat has exams. They are trying to survive right now, not go to war. But I could not watch this continue without at least documenting it and putting it in front of people who deserve to know.

I sat with Sharafat and convinced him to document everything. That document is here :

Full Documentation — Names, Timeline, Evidence

Her Instagram is here:

instagram.com/kainatannsari

What I'm asking from this community:

Always Good-hearted people are being used. That's what hurts most. People who follow her, who donate, who share her content they think they're honouring someone's memory. They're not. They're funding someone who blocked the actual family of the person she claims to represent.

If you've donated, please know that money did not reach Sakhawat's family.

If you follow her, please read the document before deciding whether to continue.

And if you believe, as I do, that using a dead person's identity and story without family consent to collect real money from real people is fraud please report her account on Instagram.

To report on Instagram:

1. Go to her profile → tap the three dots (⋯)
2. Select Report
3. Select "It's a scam or fraud" or "False information"

I'm not posting this for drama. I'm posting this because Sakhawat deserved better than to have his name used as a fundraising tool. His family deserves peace. And the people donating deserve the truth.

That's all.

Feel free to ask questions in the comments. I'll answer what I can. i will tell Sharafat about this post. Coz He asked me not to make things worse I'm trying to make things right at least i think i hope I'm not overreacting.

Dear garmi,

Baith k masla hal kr ly tay hain

App to seedha marnay maraanay per otar

Aiy ho!