r/RHOP

This is a long one.

The narrative has always been that Candiace has the “nastiest mouth” on RHOP. My question is: how many of her infamous clapbacks actually happened without someone coming for her first?

Let’s start with Ashley aka the real evil nasty mouth cast mate.

Ashley repeatedly criticized Candiace’s finances, mocked the fact that her mother Dorothy helped support her, questioned her pageant accomplishments, talked sh*t about Chris and called her the least successful woman on the cast.

Later, Ashley also participated in helping to spread allegations involving Chris Bassett, giving support to Gizelle & Deborah’s claims and the storyline that he was inappropriate with them.

When Ashley was in labor with her first child, people love bringing up Candiace calling her a “roach and bed wench”.  What they conveniently leave out is that Ashley started the back and forth tweets first. Once again talking about  Candiace and her mother Dorothy while she was in labor! Candiace responded without knowing Ashley was actively giving birth. Ashley was more worried about trying to drag Candiace instead of pushing that baby out. 

Now we can dissect the roach and bed wench comments but Candiace said on her podcast she called her a roach because Ashley called her a hamster. And she called Ashley a bed wench because Michael controls every single aspect of that marriage and that she was dependent on him for her lifestyle and had to take all of his sh*t.

Y’all really sit in these threads acting like the sh*t Candice has said is the most vile and unhinged things when Ashley has done the following:

-Told Charisse to get over crying about her divorce and insinuated that Charisse was a drunk. But when Ashley was going through her divorce she wanted people to be respectful and give her time and space to process. 

-Suggested Monique’s drinking may have contributed to her miscarriage and she might have a problem with alcohol and that’s why she crashed her Bentley, not because she was sleepy.

-Was being messy regarding Wendy and Eddies marriage by bringing up the cheating rumors and insinuating that Wendy got her body done to compete with the women Eddie really desired. 

-Told Katie she should stop using “what’s between her legs” to find love and questioned whether Katie was mentally stable enough to be around the group while Katie was publicly struggling mentally.

-Body shamed Charisse and called her a walrus with T-Rex arms.

-Exposed Robyn and Juan Dixon’s financial problems, showing documents where they only had $25 to their name (season 1); and Robyn was about to beat her ass.

-Called Karen a “broke Tina Knowles” and mocked Ray’s finances (calling him the broke bill gates) and said his penis was dry. 

-Called Candiace hamster face and made fun of her hair (calling it dry).

-Mocked Karen and told her that she was married to a real millionaire and if Ray is nice he could possibly ask for a loan from Michael

Yet Ashley never gets labeled as having a mouth and doing evil things. 

What’s interesting is what Candiace didn’t say.

Since Ashley has such a hard on for Candiace mom (she constantly brought her up during her attacks towards Candiace)…Candiace could have repeatedly mocked Ashley’s difficult upbringing and really got nasty: 

-How she was born from a trick that turned into a pregnancy.

-How her father threatened to call the cops on her for showing up at his door.  

-How Ashley’s mother was living in a tent under a bridge with her drug addicted baby daddy.

-Ashley’s mama having (3) kids with (3) baby daddies  

-How Michael was playing daddy to Ashley and her mama and had financial control over them.

Instead, Candiace’s insults generally focused on Ashley herself and Ashley continued to target Candiace and her loved ones.

I’m not arguing Candiace doesn’t have a mouth on her. She does. Just like all the other women who are housewives shows. The thing that I notice with RHOP is that this is the only franchise where the women get so upset for how their castmates respond to their bullshit. 

Meaning, you can’t start sh*t with me and then dictate how I respond. If you know I got a mouth on me and you cry every time I use it…how about you leave me alone?

Y’all were the same ones cheering on Porsha for pulling Kenya’s hair when Kenya called her a dumb hoe; y’all were laughing your asses off when Nene called Claudia a half breed…but y’all clutching your pearls at Candiace calling Ashley wide body and roach.

People remember the response (Candiace) and conveniently forget the provocation (Ashley) because Ashley has said and done far worse.

You don’t have to like Candiace to acknowledge that she’s often judged differently than other Housewives who have said equally cruel or arguably worse things. 

I can remember one of the nastiest comments from RHOP was when Gizelle told Karen that Ray would be 6feet under aka dead before her looks faded away. 

Gizelle, Robyn and Ashley dragged Karen for in their words “grieving too much or too long over her parents death”.

Gizelle said Karen had a hot box and that Ray penis was broken. 

Karen said Gizelle had an std and had to be committed to a mental hospital. 

Gizelle told the world that Ray was trying to get with her friend Erica Lyles. 

Coming for peoples marriages and health is okay but y’all draw the line at Candiace calling Ashley big face. 
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Hi everyone, so I am a new viewer to Potomac and normally I don’t comment on things.

However something concerned me and I wonder if at the time anything was said. I have tried to Google it but everything goes to his bravery on speaking about his diagnosis - which is important and I completely agree!

What concerned me was he said something along the lines of having Bipolar 1 and if there was a Bipolar 2, 3, 4 he would have them too. Firstly, it makes it sound like there is no such thing as Bipolar 2, which there is. But also, it’s like they have tried to mould them into one and now possibly diminishes those with different types.

Did anyone comment or correct what he said?

I'm rewatching and the fight is still my favorite part. Candiace deserved all of that ass whooping tbh. Robin and Gizelle treating Monique like she's a thug, but you can't keep provoking people and expect them to sit back.

SEASON FOUR is a lot !!!

GRANTED, Ashley was going through a lot w Michael, their marriage, trying to conceive... but she was extremely venomous during this season towards everyone!!

the scene where they're on vacation and she starts going in on Katie... hard to watch. she was so nasty to her. alot of the things she said idk how some of the ladies moved forward w her as a friend! i would've never spoken to Ashley again.

gizelle was absolutely obsessed and jealous of Monique lmfao. it was extremely weird tbh.

I'm watching the scene when Robin had an open house at the home she had just rehabbed, Monique tried to greet her as soon as she walked in, gizelle immediately became nasty with Monique in front of potential buyers.

AT HER FRIEND'S OPEN HOUSE! NASTY.

She also looks good in this vid, which is nice departure from some of here recent styling choices, but someone did tell her in the comments to stop with the lashes 😆 and she replied in a fun way to them. If she ever returns, she needs to just let Stacey be her mentor and how to not sweat her opps and actually make them madder by being unbothered.

https://www.instagram.com/reel/DaBxuQjvtjG/?igsh=eWFkZmt5N290dG1y