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Emily and Shane need a divorce

Wow, these two are done. I think Emily hates her kids, and would get nothing in a divorce.

I am team Shane all the way, but I'm known as the queen of sarcasm in my circles. The way Emily hugged her MiL, treated her stepdaughter and gossiped about her daughter ... YIKES.

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u/FoundMyselfRunning — 13 days ago
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Vicki needs RHOC, not the other way around….

What I find so interesting about Vicki is that she’s back on RHOC a show she loves to remind everyone she helped create and bring into the zeitgeist and yet every time she’s on camera, she’s complaining about how busy she is, how much work she has to do, how many emails she has to answer, etc

She’s ALWAYS on her computer. She does it on Ultimate Girls Trip in almost every episode

And honestly all it tells me (as a business owner myself) she’s not as good at running her business as she wants everyone to think she is

Because at some point, if you’ve owned a business for 20+ years, you figure out time management, organization, delegation and operations. Those are literally some of the most important parts of running a successful business.

You’re telling me after more than 20 years in insurance she still personally has to answer that many emails at all hours of the day? She hasn’t hired the right people? She hasn’t built systems that allow the business to function without her constantly chained to a laptop?

I don’t buy it

And it actually makes me wonder if she needs RHOC financially a lot more than she lets on because if her insurance business were doing so incredibly well that she didn’t need the show, why keep putting your entire personal life back on television when you clearly HATE people questioning your relationships, who you’re dating, whether he treats you well, whether you’re getting married, etc?

She gets incredibly defensive anytime anyone questions her personal life (ie see her son’s relationship with her daughter…non-existent) but she keeps voluntarily signing up for a show where that is literally the job

So which is it? If the business is thriving and she hates having her personal life scrutinized so much, why does she keep coming back?

She needs the money and she’s bitter about it. 🤷🏽‍♀️

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u/skchgo — 12 days ago

Emily's husband is a Persian stay at home Dad?

I have never heard of a Persian man being a stay at home Dad and I've dated Persian men. Is this a thing? In my experience, Persian men are very strong financial providers for the family.

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u/Zestyclose-Essay-682 — 13 days ago

Emily leaving her son at home is giving Kate Gosselin vibes.

Watching the latest episode where Emily and Shane go to Shane's parents' home and take the kids with them while leaving the "problem child" at home. I couldn't help but be reminded of how Kate Gosselin treated her one son (I think it was Colin?) when he was having behavioral struggles and how all of that turned out. Anyone else catch that, or just me?

Edit: I worked extensively with special needs children for 12+ years in the public and private school system, from all levels of autism, down syndrome, cerebral palsy, ect. I saw ALOT of parental behavior that came across as "caring and protective" but was in actuality blantant dismissal of the "problem" child themselves. So, when looking at Emily's character and behavior as a human being in general, coupled with raising a child who needs extra attention, it's not a far stretch to come to the conclusion she's setting him aside for her own convenience, not his well-being. Hope this will appease any torch bearers 😬 Her stay-at-home husband has been implying such behaviors as well. I'm not sure if that says much, but it IS insightful.

Edit #2: I'm solely talking about Emily and the ick she gives with the enadaquate mothering and the ostracism I'm seeing towards her son for her own selfish motives, as I've seen this before. I'm not referring to ANYONE ELSE OR THEIR CHILDREN. I understand this is a sensitive topic, and in no means am I trying to offend anyone personally. I'm truly just sharing my thoughts on Emily and what I perceive as uninvolvement on her part.

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u/SharkBait85 — 13 days ago
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Victoria - is there an insurance agent anywhere that generates that many emails!

Is Vicky’s insurance agency the only one who services these part of California. There is nobody in the history of managing anything that would need to generate that many emails. She supposedly owns it, people wrote the emails for her. She’s such a joke. It will be interesting to see the division of that company when Vicky passes on. She just obnoxious and close to unwatchable.

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u/Klutzy_Pianist_535 — 14 days ago

Heather is my Spirit Animal

I said it and I mean it. She is by far my favorite housewife!! I love how this season she’s gotten into her ME era. She’s being apologetic when required but otherwise gives zero F’s. Her interaction with Alexis was priceless! I cannot stand Alexis, and after Heather tried to clear the air, and then Alexis just kept pushing, Heather’s like, then just go! I love that so much. She does not need that woman in her life.

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u/Irish-Lady-74 — 13 days ago

Vicki/Tamra body scan scene

Two things

  1. Vicki saying that Carmella was rude for saying those things when Vicki validates what she said because she said them behind her back!? Like what!? Get this lunatic off my screen
  2. is it normal for offices to show you your private body scans in the waiting area where you walk in?
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u/No_Ingenuity_6443 — 13 days ago
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🍊Tamra’s Vena Party At Elizabeth Vargas’ Gorgeous Home!

Tamra Judge's Vena THC seltzer gorgeous launch party was hosted at Elizabeth Vargas' home in S20 E13, of RHOC airing October 1, 2026, and featured a large gathering of current cast members & returning franchise alumni which included;

Jeana Keough, Lizzie Rovsek, Jo De La Rosa, Quinn Fry, Braunwyn Windham-Burke, Alexis Bellino, Teddi Mellencamp, Lynne Curtin, Tammy Knickerbocker, Vicki & Mike.

Tamra said “Nothing's better than to celebrate, you know, being in business for so long with friends that were with you when you started," Tamra said in a confessional. "Honestly, it's the only way to get everybody together is to get 'em a little stoned. You know they're all gonna get along."

NO KELLY DODD!

u/DanielJoseph111 — 13 days ago