r/ResponsibleRevenge

I have someone who keeps coming back to my property and checking car doors. Is there something I can put on my handle that shocks them or something!!!?

About a month ago, my ex (F/18) and one of her friends used several men to lure me (M/20) to a location. When I got there, they assaulted me, took my phone, and forced me to give them my passwords.

They accessed my private photos, including intimate pictures, and took my family's contact information. My ex then used this to blackmail and pressure me into trying to have a relationship with her. Eventually, my current girlfriend helped me get away from the situation.

I didn't file a police complaint at the time because I was afraid my family would find out and I didn't want the situation to become even worse.

Later, I found out that my ex had already told my family about everything and shared my private/intimate pictures with them. Since then, my family has been constantly mentally harassing me about it.

I'm extremely angry and have been thinking about getting revenge. I have her nudes but I haven't used them against her or spread them.

What are my safest options here? Should I report the assault, blackmail, and sharing of my private pictures? Is there anything I should do to preserve evidence before taking action?

I'm in Bangladesh, if that matters.

How to get revenge on a guy who used me as emotional unpaid therapist? I'm so hurt he is now ignoring me because he has friends no longer need me. For two years, he used me as an unpaid emotional therapist because he had no one else. Now that he has made new friends, he openly brags about them to me, leaving me forced to swallow my hurt feelings in silence. I sacrificed making my own friends for our closeness, and now I’m alone. What hurts most is feeling like I can't even speak up just because we were never in an official relationship. I'm meeting him soon i have to so that i can take revenge for all the way he used and abused me, what are the suggestions?

So after a while of my suspicions I finally found proof today I'm so angry.... I was so angry last week as well when he lied to my face about exactly where he was the fact that his first choice wasn't me is undeniably hurtful... the fact that he went to grab me because I was telling him that I know that he wasn't where he was so he retaliated to anger to try and shift the truth... So it makes make confused so that I question myself and typical narcissistic shit.... I knew that I wasn't going crazy he has lied to me so many times and I want revenge I don't want him in my life anymore but he won't leave....he walks around like a king tries to minimize me like he doesn't even pay full rent to even have a say what goes on in this house but he sure damn thinks he does....I'm in a place where I have nobody only his family is here I'm not really financially able to do anything... like move... I really can't either because my child is in school and I don't want change schools at this very moment why should I have to, up and move my life, just because he chose to lie and be manipulative because every single moment that he starts losing control he gets angry to try and take that control back and then I'll go back into my shell, and then as soon as i become happy again or I come out of my shell he puts me back in there like he's afraid of me and my attitude and how I carry myself because honestly I don't give a fuck any more but if I show that he'll get rowdy and get all dramatic... thank you for reading..... I really needed advice on what I can do so I can fuck with him for now

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