r/SeherHoneKoHai

So I've been seeing many people saying how mahid prioritize seher but seher doesn't and mahid loves her more etc..all this because my girlie is worried about that creep haider harming her sister and blabbers out they shouldn't have married rn and it's the reason amaal is upset with her. I don't think she mean it. She is just scared atm and their wedding does have some connection to this whole thing so it's natural for her to think that way, as long as she doesn't outright blame mahid I don't see any issues here. And mahid also understands this and is reassuring her to have faith.

And coming to the priority thing, seher has always prioritised him, she investigated ghazala's truth, saved him from a planned attack while mahid was going to get engaged to nazima and when she believed he betrayed her, in the dhatura track when her license was at stake, sultana was appointed to inspect her and fareed was repeatedly asking her to come to hospital but she refused and stayed to check on mahid, when she knew mahid's trauma was because of her and fareed was willing to take her out of the case still she took the responsibility of treating him all this while she hated him. Also mahid is serving the mashra which took her mother's life!!! the same mashra hates her now, questioned her character, but still she's with him because SHE LOVES HIM!!! idk what more she needs to prove her love.

Amaal is her sister, she was her only companion for last 7 years and they only had each other, and it's clear how much dependent amaal is on seher. Seher caring for her a little more at the moment and "not considering mahid's emotions" is completely fine and doesn't mean she don't prioritize him or love him less. It's day one of their marriage, they will have more arguments, disagreements in the coming days and might even hurt each other, but that doesn't make their love for each other any less.

I think people say this because sadly after DH is gone mahid has no one in his life except seher who he can completely trust, so his world revolves around her. Seher has a sister and when people see her worrying or thinking about her they somehow comes to the conclusion she loves her sister more, idk what kind of logic is that??? when DH fell sick after seher ran away from the wedding, mahid brought her to NM forcefully without even asking her the reason or considering her emotions, that's how far he could go for his loved ones, but when it comes to seher sacrificing or worrying for her sister, it becomes a problem.

Anyways I have faith on mahid even if seher ends up saying something that might hurt him, I'm sure he'll understand her state of mind.

Guyyssss!!!!!! Most recent episode was absolutely amazing and breathtakingly beautiful. So, couldn’t stop myself from posting an individual post just for that. I just love the way Richa is actually giving us pre-wedding rituals and that too away from any drama as of now, which was much needed after months of sadness and heartbreak (which btw also served👀). But the journey they’ve had until now, from rarely having them close to each other, to casually walking into their wedding venue holding hands, we’ve come a long way🥹♥️ also the fact that Mahid arranged everything on such a short notice, and literally bought Lucknow’s shops entire bridal collection (rightfully said by Seher) to a place so special to them, is just so dreamy and shows mufti sahab’s lavish lifestyle💸😭

Love the attention to detail as well, having two tents, and pink specially for seher and them having matching outfits in a color, which represents their love and affection. Parallels kii toh baat hi chod do, mtlb choosing the color of the kite jo seher ne season 1 mein utaara thaa, from the tree as the color of their love and outfits in their nikaah🤌🫠

Seher being seher, sneaking out of the tent and Mahid catching her in the act will never not be funny😭😂 Uprrse what was Mahid doing in the episode, season 1 Mahid would’ve been absolutely shocked seeing his future self, at how childish and cute he’ll act around his bilautiii!!!!! The way he just dealt with all the issues, talking to the lawyer, securing Amaal and Seher, escaped on a bike in true old school fashion, arranged an entire elaborate setup for his wedding, proposed to his girl, all within few hours and still ended up being a pookie infront of his begum, getting her dressed up while she’s busy with her sister was so cute, and his expressions ( Parth spotted in the episode😭😂). He must be enjoying this track so much, as he’s getting to be chill and carefree, all smiles, something that was long overdue💃💃

As much I loved that scene, because of how domestic and in love they looked, I was getting annoyed with Amaal so much, like how could she be so entitled. It’s not like she’s a literal kid, she’s just a year younger than Seher. The least she could’ve done in this track, was rather than dumping the entire issue onto seher, without even checking to see how she’s handling it all, and dealing with such a creep like Haider, should’ve checked on her at the very least, but she was busy in her own crying fest. Like, I get that she’s had extremely privileged childhood, but to be that engrossed in her own problems, that she didn’t even know that Maher’s engagement broke, and Seher’s getting blackmailed to marry that creep is insane. Uprrse ignoring her parents, and being rude to them all the time, and going back to them as per convenience is something I dislike the most. Instead of expressing a slight bit of gratitude on being saved by Mahid and Seher, went back to cribbing about the fan🤷‍♀️🤯

Anyways, if we ignore her cribbing and just focus on Maher, the scene was extremely amazing. One thing I was kinda sad about is their nikaah being rushed, but now that we are getting mehndi and they sort of had their haldi as well, I’m really happy and excited for upcoming episodes. And can we please talk about the song choices, I mean how do they find such soft yet apt songs representing their love and bond, and making the moments even more special🤌🫠 also, I think we’re getting another ost after befizul, bedard, barbaad beshumar, and that’s going to be bemisaal💃💃 the part they played in this episode was so so good and soothing🫶 appreciation for the team and music department for continuously making such banger tracks♥️

Okayyy, just realized that the post is getting a bit too long, so gonna wrap up with the fact that as I returned back to itv after years, and have been absolutely obsessed with this show since the beginning, sometimes it scares me a bit at how awesome the show is going, as in the cinematography, acting, storyline staying true to the characters, never leaving even the slightest and subtle details and continuously bringing them back with all the parallels, all the amazing songs, aesthetics, and purity of their bond without making its tamasha infront of mashra, and above all at how well written and directed their scenes are. The part that sometimes scares me is that they’ve done a certain scene so well, how would they make similar scenes more special in the upcoming episodes. But I guess, they keep serving and bringing the best of the scenes one after another, with the softest touch of love and affection🤌🥹♥️