r/Sextortion

Ayer un usuario de tik tok que quería hacer nuevos amigos me dijo de hablar le dije que sí y acabamos en telegram jugando a un juego que ya todos sabemos como acabó yo solo difundí un vídeo pero tiene capturas de mis seguidores en tik tok y de mi vídeo y me ha amenazado con dinero lo bloqueee y elimine la cuenta pero tengo mucho miedo que hago ?

I’m a minor i yesterday a random fake girl acount follows all me friends and then tried to follow me I’m very scared and desperate for help can anyone give me advice or something to calm me down why are they back after this long

Met some girl on discord and she asked for my phone number and insta. Then she asked to trade pics i sent her some. It was a random guy who has my whole ig followers list screenshotted including my mom and siblings. They made a collage kinda thing of my face, private, and social medias. It said “make this viral” , and “wanted for sending nudes”. I got extremely scared as i’m only a high schooler and this would ruin my life. The dude asked for 100$ but i started lying and saying i didn’t have much and showed him some gift cards. For 2 hours i tried to pay him out of pure fear. Eventually i paid him 40$ through e-gift cards just because I was scared. He said he would wait until the morning to delete my photos. I went into this subreddit and saw all yalls advice. I decided to block him on imessage and try to get a refund to my card.( only 40$) I also filed the report nmec thing. I’m terrified and just wondering what to do next, also i privated my insta. Any info helps please help me however as I don’t feel like i can go to my parents bc this shi is so embarassing.

So a couple of days ago I was a victim of sextortion. I work in finance and see scams everyday this wasn’t normal at all no immediate asking to move platforms, super sexual talk etc. We stayed on the app for a few hours before asking for my snap and snapped for a day with normal convo before we exchanged some “photos”. We continued talking for a day before I started receiving screen shots and the angry “😡” texts. (Which honestly I thought was her doing it because of how this played out but after looking at this thread clearly this wasn’t her the whole time) She asked for my insta when we were back on the original app and I gave my fake/not so fake insta (long story) w only twenty intimate followers as it was new. With the collage of what I sent was a list of my followers and demanding $300. Now I know not to send the money so I immediately blocked and contacted all of them and was straight up and told them not to open a dm if they receive it. I want to know if it’s ill advised to screw w these people from here on out. I want to send a phishing link to get the address and extort them w threats of sending it to the fbi since I know they’ve extradited people in the past. Is this feasible? If not how likely am I to run into the same scam group of if I just keep screwing w them?

Hey guys, my name is Mac I'm 16M and I wanted to share with you my story with sextortion and I want to tell you guys going through it, that it gets better and you will heal over time. Anyways, I got the DM on tiktok, I gave them my socials, I sent the pics, you know what happens next.

I was ordered to pay $300 to my scammer, which I did NOT (not paying is super important) I just blocked them and nothing has been heard from them in about 9 months (this happened August 2025).

I couldn't focus in school for the first 2 or 3 months after and mind you I didn't tell anyone (my parents still don't know) and I have recently told my friends what happened and it made me feel better. Remember this, NEVER pay, block them straight away they just move on to the next victim and they lose interest VERY quickly once they realize they aren't getting anything out of you. You will survive this, we all make mistakes, but most importantly learn, grow and get stronger.

You can get through this, we understand what happened and it wasn't your fault. You guys are amazing never forget that, don't let some sad blackmailer ruin your confidence, sure it's terrifying for a time but after you ghost them it's most of the time over, so remember y'all stay safe!!!!!!

Hi!

The scammer came back a second time. He last tried to extort me in march. He actually sent my masturbation video to friends/family on both messenger and instagram. BOTH TIMES. I inactived my accounts however messenger still up. Reported him. Think the video disappeared? Because I can’t see it after I blocked him.

Is there anything else I can do to stay safe? I want to activate my instagram account. Can he still tag me/friends on insta if im private?

As everyone here,I met someone on tinder and sexcalled them, they screenshotted my stuff and started threatening. they already had the follower list on my Instagram (its private, but stupid of me to not hide the list) and since my family are Muslims, I immediately sent money because I cant risk it, sent shit tons of money (400euros) out of stress separated on turns, each time they say they will delete and then they dont, finally gave up and deactivated all my socials, I dont have any money left so if anything happens I will do something to myself, i was really stupid to not see this or to not send the money from the beginning, but I stressed, and now im thinking what will stop them from doing this continuously infinitely, destroying every relationship i have and ruining my life

Like 30 mins ago i experienced a sextortion of private photos, they kept asking personal questions but i kept dodging them (like insta, what college i go to) and then they hit me with the blackmail, threatening to post on X or smth, but no tags or anything (from what I saw). I blocked the guy and made my socials private. I haven’t heard anything but I’m on the border of a panic attack. I feel I need to calm down but I’m on edge.

I’m a minor victim of sextortion and it’s been around a year and a half since but these past three weeks I’ve had twofake accounts on TikTok try to follow me who follow all of my friends I’m really scared and don’t know what to do

So im addicted to pornogrophy. It started when i was a little kid. well im 19 now And im scrolling through telegram girls, theres this one who says “shes” 20/23. cant remember. We talk and “she” asks for nudes. i wasn’t comfortable so i use a random picture of some 🌽 ⭐️ and a selfie of me. well as we’re talking they open up they’re a scammer and they want 300 dollars or else they post it on facebook. now the “nudes” weren’t even mind. but the selfie was me. the post was like “THIS GUY NEEDS TO HE LOCKED UP HE WAS TALKING TO A 16 YEAR OLD.” he said he isn’t posting it until he gets his money. He was like counting down🤣 He had a draft post of me. but he used a picture of a adult woman and said she was 23. I block him and delete my telegram. I can’t find him on facebook so im happy for that at least. i get my dad and just cry and info dump him. He tells me his stories of struggling, im just scared to shi that my family, band, my community will see that im addicted. The whole post was a lie because he used a picture of a ADULT woman saying she’s 23. I’m really struggling here. I just want to be okay and i just want a hug:/

Recently the scammer asked for more money because I have been ignoring him. And last monday as i continued ignorign him and I turn of my last recelty seen and pics on telegram he said that he had already published on instagram and my followers will see it so i panicked and I said i will give him 50€ on sunday. But nothing happened, and I think i just have to block him and maybe if wont hear about him, is it possible he can create a huge gruoup with all my followers? I have almost 700 and since he said he published nothing happened, I am just waiting because i used stopncciorg and i want my hash to be created and I block him. Any suggestions?

It's been 72 hours since their last contact. I paid, but realizing I'd made a mistake, I stopped paying. That day, they asked me for more money, which I refused and blocked. They sent me a screenshot of my video being sent to a friend, and I blocked them again. They immediately texted me again from another number, sending me a screenshot of the deleted video, telling me they wouldn't contact me again and that they'd delete everything, thanking me for the money. I'm afraid they'll contact me again, but I won't give them a cent. I acted scared at first, but after taking courage, I stopped paying them. I'm afraid they'll come back. What should I do? I’m living in terror, i cant’sleep.

Asking for money in telegram ?they have my number too

What is mod

I'm a victim too, I know how we worry, does it stop, do they comeback,..

So I want create a post that everyone share:

Did you paid?

how long it took for them to contact you again?

how long it had been since the last threat?

This would help for us to move on.