r/SinglesInBangalore

Bhai was doing social work to match single peoples in Bangalore. Now he is banned and account deleted.

Ache log band ho jate he😢

🚨 Bangalore Singles, this might be the most interesting thing happening in this community right now.
While everyone keeps complaining that dating apps are exhausting, ghosting is normal, and meeting genuine people is impossible let’s try something different.
I’m going to personally set up blind dates between verified members of this community.

No algorithms. No swiping. No paying for boosts. No fake profiles.

Just real people being matched with other real people.
To make things safer and more genuine:
✅ Every participant will be manually verified
✅ You’ll need to share at least one active social media account for verification
✅ Only verified members will be matched with other verified members
✅ Catfishers and fake accounts won’t be entertained

Want to participate?
Comment or DM:
• A short introduction about yourself
• Gender
• Age
• What you’re looking for
• One social media account for verification
A few things to note:
• I’ll be matching people manually, so please be patient.
• This is completely FREE.
• The better your introduction, the better your chances of being matched with someone compatible.
And here’s the thing
A few weeks from now, people might be talking about how they met someone through this community.
You can either be part of the first batch or read about it later wondering what would’ve happened if you’d signed up. 👀
If you know any single friends in Bangalore, tag them, send them this post, share it in your group chats, and spread the word.
Let’s see how many Bangalore singles we can bring together. Also even if you’re someone who just wants to RANT about your workday/ adulthood my dms are open lol
Maybe your person is reading this post right now. ❤️

Reposting since the previous didn't get much reach

About me/Tl,dr

>33, South Indian, 5'9", 10 LPA, Hindu.

What I think about me

I'm a simple man with big dreams. I had plans to travel, build, socialize, achieve and in full filmy fashion, find a partner along the way. But for all of the calculations in life I've made, boy was I bad at math. After missing most of my personal milestones, I spent a while contemplating, analysing and picking myself up. Now re-routing my life plans to have another shot at my ambitions. So while that's in progress, I realise that I'm moving past the socially prime age of finding a life partner; which brings me here.

What I'm looking for

A woman in the 30-35 age range, >5' tall who is everything but a bystander.

I want to hear your achievements, your failures and everything you want be before you retire. And for all it takes, should this work out, you get yourself a lifelong collaborator. Else we can peer review each other for free. What say?

That's it from me. For more deets, add a comment or shoot a DM. Happy Sunday!

Hey everyone! I’m a 23M working professional looking to meet new people, make friends, hang out, and socialize. I live near Kalyan Nagar and would love to connect with people who are up for chilling, grabbing coffee, exploring places, or just having good conversations. Looking for open-minded and non-judgmental people to vibe with feel free to reach out if that sounds like you!

Hey all I’m new to Bangalore and looking forward meet some new people end up being friends
I love playing games on ps5 and football plus I can be romantic too
If anyone is interested let’s talk in dm and get to know each other

Hi singles. What you do over the weekends when you stay alone.

Just looking for some suggestions to kill some time and stop overthinking 🙂.

Hey Bangalore singles,
If your weekend plans currently involve scrolling endlessly, watching reels, or telling yourself “maybe next weekend,” this is your sign to change that.
r/SinglesInBangalore is a space to meet new people, make genuine connections, find friends, join meetups, share stories, rant about life, or simply have conversations with people who get it.
Whether you’re:
Looking for new friends
Hoping to find someone special
New to Bangalore
Bored out of your mind on weekends
Or just want people to talk to
You’re welcome here.
We’re building a friendly, non-judgmental community where nobody has to feel awkward posting, commenting, or reaching out.
And honestly, even if you’re not looking to date, some of the best friendships start with a random conversation.
Drop an intro, say hi, join a meetup, or share what’s on your mind.
Who knows? The person you’re looking to meet might be scrolling this post right now. 🍻
Question for everyone:
What’s one thing you wish Bangalore had more of for singles—cafes, meetups, game nights, hiking groups, speed dating, or something completely different? 👇

A little bg:

28F here. I recently started dating someone from hinge and he is of the same age. We started the conversation saying that we will need to get married and first see how things are and then we'll decide how things will go ahead etc etc. One month down I saw his mobile notification lighting up with hinge notification while he said that we will be exclusive and we won't be talking to anyone else, he was doing that so I decided to forgive because at that time I was also not sure about him. But then I told him that we actually were going on a trip. I was introducing him to my inner Circle and so was he. But recently I still felt like I cannot trust him because he was always on his phone but never actually saw my reels that I sent him. But always on the phone watching Instagram I decided to create a fake account. Honest time message him and he literally replied back saying that he's looking for someone to settle with in this city and explore the city because he doesn't feel like home while I was sitting and cleaning and cooking for him at his place.. The flirting went like we will meet for ice cream etc. I decided to take it to the next level by asking him whether we will end up at his place or my place where he stopped the fake account saying that it was nice talking to you and I was not actually looking for anything of that type. I was looking for someone to explore the city with. So this was the second time I was seeing him flirting with someone because before that in hinge also he was flirting with some other girl the time I caught him.

My question:

What shall I do in this case? I want to make sure that I am not actually getting heartbroken again because after years of therapy I was able to get out of my 15-year relationship when I almost got married and when I am trying to move on now this person is making me feel like I am trusting a wrong person right now. Somehow he is triggering the wounds that I was healing.

I wouldn't say he's not doing anything for me. He's doing everything that a partner should be doing but while doing the same he's also talking to other people whether to seek his validation or to get some ego boost. I don't know about it but he is doing that and nowadays whenever I ask him to meet he's either busy with work or he is always busy with something at his home. We do have video calls. We don't have audio calls so I do verify that he is at home but I don't want to be a detective. I want to be a partner but it is not happening anytime soon because of the things that I have seen in the last few days, how will I trust him? What shall I do?

PS Right now I am not talking to him anymore and taking some time off as he is 'busy with work commitments' and i am not looking for anyone here. I need some advice and some genuine friends in this city. Idk whom to ask about here.

Hello single people, I just turned 31M but I'm mentally like 25, and I'm moving to Bangalore in the next few weeks (HSR Layout).

About me:

I consider myself a good conversationalist. An introvert who puts in extraordinary effort to come off as an extrovert and I mostly succeed. My life is pretty simple - I work as an swe, I read a lot of fiction, watch horror movies religiously, play a few racket sports, and a bit of basketball (I'm super tall at 5 8"). I have a mix of liberal and conservative values, and I'm apolitical and agnostic (family Hindu), and I'm very non-judgemental.

I'd love to connect with a woman in Bangalore who's looking to chat/ see if we vibe, plan and go on a few dates and see if it could lead to something more. My thoughts on relationships: it takes two to tango..

I speak English, Tamil, Malayalam (70% fluency), Telugu (can't speak well, but understand 100% and will respond in English 😂)

DM me if you want to know more, I'm an open book. I can share personal details like pics, etc.

New in Electronic City someone wants to catch up
Not kind of date just a fun meet up
Chat pati batien
Drink if you wish
22 M
Can go for clubbing or somewhere else

Hey, 30M here from Bangalore. I don't smoke or drink and am an introvert which makes it difficult for me to interact with people in person and Lately I’ve been seeing a lot of people actually post about finding the one on Reddit, and it made me wonder, how are you guys pulling that off?

I am finding it difficult too, I’ve tried dating apps, but honestly no luck finding someone who’s serious about a long-term thing, almost everyone is looking for short-term or flings. At this age, when everyone’s settling down, mujhe timepass nahi karna with short-term or pointless relationships.

So yeah, thought I’d give this a shot too. Who knows, maybe I’ll find the one here 🤞🏽

#Bangalore

I’ve interacted with quite a few people from this community now and it genuinely surprised me how sweet and emotionally aware some of y’all are 😭🫶

Like random people here have given better advice, better conversations, and more comfort than people I’ve known irl sometimes.

So interaction time again because I genuinely like reading everyone’s replies here 👀

Comment:
• one thing you’re currently looking forward to
• your most played song right now
• your current comfort food
• or one random fact about yourself nobody would guess 😭

And reply to others too pls. Some of the best conversations here literally start from random comments ❤️

Also if anyone’s going through something, feeling low, overthinking, or just wants to rant about life my DMs are open 🫂

And your message doesn’t even have to be deep lol. You can literally text me something as random as how your day went :)

Hey everyone, I am planning a trip to ooty from bangalore on June 8 for a day, return back on 9th off June back

I'm looking for 3 more people who travel along , split the bills according to the expenses only

Both men and women are welcome to join !!

No alcohol or illegal drugs allowed , Kindly

This trip is all about refreshing mentally and physically, just to catch a fresh breath , relieve stress and indulge in nature in the serene Nilgiri Hills

We'll also be going to unexplored areas like Avalanche Lake and Forest , no heavy crowd is there.

Trip details :

Will be travelling in my private four wheeler

Stay in Zostel , for men and women it will be separate dorms or either someone wants to take a room for themselves they can go ahead and take

As usual food expenses and entry tickets will be there

And returning back will purchase home made chocolates

Working professionals, entrepreneurs and solo people are all invited

Dm me I'll give more heads up

We can connect over Google meet video call so that we can discuss the trip details and get to know each other before hand , if this sounds like you're kind off adventure, let me know

Drop me a message and let's get this conversation started

Hey all I’m looking for someone with whom I can spend my life with let me know if anyone’s out there shoot me a dm