Might be a lesbian but nothings happened yet
I’m in the process of breaking away from my engagement to a man, for the simple reason that I just don’t think we’re mentally or emotionally compatible, even tho he’s a good man.
But quietly, something in my head is telling me I’m a lesbian. Like even my algorithm will sometimes serve me ‘secretly a lesbian’ stuff and I’m like STOP THIS 😭😂
I’ve identified as bi my whole life. And maybe I still am but I just can’t be with a cishet man and play the part of a cishet woman, because I’m too queer in my soul. Or maybe it’s just this relationship in particular that didn’t work out. I don’t know. Time will tell. I’m still not fully broken off from him and things are going to be complicated for a little while.
But yeah. Besides having MULTIPLE homoerotic codependent friendships throughout my development, talking to and kissing a couple girls, and growing up with crushes on female characters, I’ve never been in an actual lesbian relationship or identified that way. But we will see. 👁️ because as a teenager I had this crisis so many times haha