r/TanzanianDating

I love my wife so much

It’s been 4 years since we got married and I have never loved a woman this much. She is exceptionally beautiful, submissive, smart and funny. We just vibe very well and on top of all that she is GOD fearing.

I couldn’t ask for more. I want everyone to know that there are happy marriages.

PS: I had the same success story shared on twitter and some ladies started sliding into my dms😂, please behave.

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u/Playful-Quantity-622 — 21 hours ago

Help a wingman out...

My friend (F) late twenties, has essentially given up on dating and believes there aren't really any good, **HONEST**, mature men out there with a decent sense of humour that she can relate to. I offered to set her up(hence this post) as I think her type probably does exist outside the limitations of her social circle/environment. So if you're in Arusha (preferably), are aged 30-40 and looking for a... friend...yes a friend who could maybe later be more than a friend...😉 Send me a DM and I'll potentially link you guys up.

Please, this is not an invitation for hookups!

Serious replies or DM's only! Ladies feel free to comment or message me as well if you know a guy who rocks with the same vibe.

A bit about her:

Is Tanzanian

Is Christian...

Is without child

Is uninterested in any form a sexual relationship, and only wants to build a relationship with someone genuine.

Is intelligent and academically trained...no, i mean she has high-school certificate (yea.. lets start there coz apparently an educated woman deters a lot of men. lol).

The rest she can tell you herself. I'm probably doing a bad job of selling her anyway but oh well..

P.s

She thinks me trying to use social media to set her up is a bad idea...im optimistic but she might be right though coz damn! Y'all are bunch of horny rabbits on this sub... Anyway, let's prove her wrong! Please don't let me down guys 🙏.

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u/NotYourAverageTz_Guy — 2 days ago

The 30s Libido

Ladies 30+, do you guys get super horny as you get older, or is it just me?

Looking back few years ago and now, there’s a huge difference. Kwanza, ovulation time Yoh! I feel like I'm losing my mind huo mda 🙌🏼😩

Am I the only one, or is anyone else experiencing this?

And Men, does your sex drive increase with age or kwenu inakuwaje? 🤔

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u/Spiritual-Ride7426 — 3 days ago

28F ( someone very serious )

Hello in here. I'm new to reddit ( i hope people are mature in here) looking for someone my age or above, not more than 40 pls. Im quite a busy woman so i had very little time to date, now i need someone to hangout or coffee, DM please if you are serious.. i don't do hookps

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u/Top-County-7787 — 5 days ago

Bongo jamani TOOOO much umalaya

So I just found out my girlfriend does escorting on the side despite coming from a middle class family. I asked her why this stupid bitch told me:

"I'm too pretty to hustle"

Mind you her father took her to study in the UK and gave her own clothes business, yani a frame and a Fucking car!!!

This shit really pissed me off, because she didn't need to escort ALL.

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u/Ecstatic-Ant3981 — 6 days ago

35F, Single Any fellow elders to link up ?

Hello hello. Any elders please be 36+male, not legally married 😂.

You are good in communication, with sense of humor (crack some bad dad jokes) and enjoy a good coffee and a slow life.

Incase you have an uncle too you can send referral.

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u/TZ-POMO — 6 days ago

Noting serious, obviously

Single TZ man looking for a female, preferably in DSM, 25-35y, interested in fwb. Don’t care about height/complexion but must have nyash and pretty face & toes (sue me).

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u/deaiteux — 5 days ago

Loneliness is getting to me, anyone up for a deep talk tomorrow evening?

Wadau vipi? Sina story ndefu, ni kwamba tu nimekaa peke yangu sana siku hizi na nachoka. Tech Bro / Guy here, so kazi mostly ni desk na screen.

So nataka mtu wa kuongea naye kesho jioni deep conversation, kitu chochote, topic yoyote, hata kama hatujuani. Hakuna lazima tuwe na vitu in common, just tukae tu outside, tuongee.

Niko Dar, kama uko around na uko free jioni, comment au DM. Sitachagua sana LOL, nataka tu kuongea na binadamu.

Karibu sana.

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u/Consistent_Hand6537 — 7 days ago

23F — looking for something real

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Hey, I’m 23 and honestly just looking to meet someone I genuinely connect with. I’m at a point where I really value peace, honesty, respect, and just being able to be yourself around someone.

I’d say I’m pretty easygoing, caring, and emotionally mature. I enjoy good conversations, laughing over stupid things, trying new stuff, and getting to know people beyond the usual small talk.

I’ve had my share of experiences with relationships, so I’m not really interested in games, unnecessary drama, or rushing into anything. I’d rather take my time, get to know each other and see where things naturally go.

I’m looking for a guy who’s kind, respectful, emotionally available and has some direction in life. Someone ambitious and hardworking, but who also knows how to enjoy life. Protective is nice, controlling isn’t. I want a partner, not a boss.

I’m open to someone around my age or a little older, probably 24–30. And yeah, I’m genuinely looking for something meaningful, not just a random hookup.

If you think we might get along, say hi. Tell me something about yourself beyond your age and where you’re from .. I’m more interested in the person behind the profile.

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u/Antique_Froyo3820 — 8 days ago

30M, Dar es Salaam - Looking for something serious

Hey people, I’ve finally come to terms with the fact that I’m into bi women with a high libido. A girl who likes girls too? Say less 😩

Quick heads up before you read further: my long term goal is a life with two wives, not one. If polygamy/plural partnership isn’t something you’re open to, this one’s not for you, however if it is then, keep reading.

A little about me: I hold a BSc in ITM and a Master’s in Psychology, both from Edinburgh Napier University. I’m an entrepreneur working on building a sustainable farming business here in Dar, been through a number of years doing research and prototyping and I’m now pushing to bring it fully to life.

I’m also big into DIY and building things with my hands, down the line I want to get vocational training in carpentry and fabrication, mechanical and electrical engineering, and eventually culinary education too.

Long-term, I’m working toward a homestead lifestyle growing my own food and raising a few livestock. I believe in creating something sustainable, both in business and in the life I’m building with the people I bring into it.

To be specific: I’m looking to first build something serious with a fellow Tanzanian (I like a bit of Swahiliness in the atmosphere 😁), with marriage as the goal down the line. Down the road I’d look to add a second partner, likely a foreigner (sio wazungu, probably Caribbean, Cuba maybe), but that’s a separate chapter.

Right now, if you’re Tanzanian, bi, 25–35, and based in Dar, slide into my inbox and let’s see if there’s something real here.

I’m drawn to women who are natural, nurturing, creative, open-minded, and thoughtful with the education and critical thinking to match.
Someone fun, exposed, freaky when it counts, with a high libido to match mine. Health and wellness matters to me, if you’re into taking care of your body and mind, and you genuinely enjoy cooking up healthy home cooked meals, that’s a huge plus.

Bonus points if you’ve got a creative hobby or passion project you’re pouring yourself into (painting, crocheting, drawing, designing etc).
Looks wise, I lean towards slim to slim-thick women. Someone I can put on my shoulders and carry out of a burning building to safety or pin to the wall when I’m burning with desire, if you know what I mean 🤣😌

Also, I like mine’s natural and with their feminine dial turned to the max. If you rock and style your natural hair be it an Afro, dreadlocks etc and keep your makeup very light, and love nature and plants, you might be the one.

I’m looking for a woman who doesn’t only look like an adult but behaves like one too, a woman who understands “what it takes to become,” a woman who knows herself and is clear on her goals and is already putting in the work to get there (I need to know my partner can hold things down when I’m out of town).

Kama wewe ni wa kuomba pesa for your basic needs and believe it is your man’s job to ensure your hair is done then you’re not ready for a serious relationship. I am a big believer that during the dating stage people should be their own adults and the dynamics should change as the relationship progresses.

My end goal is to build a life where my wives are stay at home wives, having the time and space to practice their passions and hobbies at home, and turn those into something profitable if they want to.

I also have goals of making an impact within my communities, like building parks, opening vocational training programs and camps for youth, and much more — so I’d very much prefer a woman with a strong interest in community development, not someone who’s only focused on spending on herself.

I’m not the partying and outgoing type, Im a strong and disciplined homebody, I don’t drink but I am 420 friendly, I enjoy watching anime as there is so much life lessons in them, I enjoy making music, i play the guitar, a bit of piano and bass guitar too. I enjoy learning things, Im currently learning how to weld.

Kiukweli, I’m craving something serious. Things are moving in the right direction and want to find someone to experience this flower blooming. If you know who you are and where you’re headed, let’s get acquainted. 😌

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u/SnooTangerines5568 — 8 days ago