r/The48LawsOfPower

I’m really interested in The 48 Laws of Power—I honestly think it’s a great book. But I’m more interested in how the ideas actually work in everyday life than just reading the historical examples.

I’ve made a couple of posts asking about this before and got fewer than two comments combined, so I’m trying again

Have you actually used one of the 48 Laws in your personal life? Which law was it, what was the situation, and how did it help (or not help) you?

I’d especially love to hear ordinary, real-life examples rather than famous historical ones.

The Mental Health, Wellbeing and Lived Experiences Study

 

Theresia Bedard, a PhD candidate at Lakehead University that is working with Dr. Beth Visser, is seeking participants for her dissertation project.

 

In this study we are examining the lived experiences of people who have experience or victimization from an individual with high psychopathic traits. We are seeking anyone that has this lived experience, whether the perpetrator was or is a spouse, family member, partner, co-worker, friend, acquaintance, neighbour or stranger. We are seeking the lived experiences of men, women, and gender-diverse individuals to share your story.

 

Our research consists of two studies. In the first study, you will complete questionnaires related to your victimization experience from the individual with high psychopathic traits, the potential warning signs, victimization history (e.g., prior physical or sexual abuse), and the impact the experience had on you. Once you finish the survey, you will be invited to participate in the second study (optional), which will consist of 12 questions requiring a written response regarding your lived experience with the individual with high psychopathic traits. If you decide to participate in study 2, please be aware that you will be required to provide us with your email to access it, and you may wish to use an email account that only you have access to.

 

Please be advised that whether you choose to participate in the study, withdraw, or skip questions you do not want to answer, that you acknowledge that answering some of these questions may be emotionally taxing on you. Despite the potential for an emotional toll the survey questions have, you may find the process of sharing your experience is therapeutic for you. In addition to the resources we provide, you may want to consider following-up with a counsellor for further support.

 

You are also encouraged to have your own snacks and drinks while you take the survey, and be aware that they are estimated to take 45 minutes to complete.

 

If you are interested in participating and would like to read or find out more about it, click here to access the survey:

https://lakeheadhbs.qualtrics.com/jfe/form/SV_bKEq1vOVdBJMrjw

I have an ingrained habit of subtly showing my intellectual superiority to my peers. Although I’ve managed not to come across as an asshole through my charm, I’ve noticed subtle hints of envy being expressed toward me.

As I’ve become more familiar with The 48 Laws of Power, I’ve come to realize the danger of appearing too far ahead of others. However, I’m still very careless when it comes to restraining myself from appearing too bright.

How can I better restrain my ego, avoid outshining others, and still attain the validation and rewards I deserve?

I stumbled upon this book about a decade ago, skimmed through it and found it interesting but ridiculous. However I was quite young and then over the years a lot happened in my personal and professional life that made me realize how naive I was. So I decided to read it again. But at the same time I remind myself that I will never truly win if I become the same as those who hurt me.

What are your thoughts on this? Is Greene offering timeless wisdom, or is this book more of a manual for manipulation? Maybe its like wielding a sword and it just depends on how you use it. But the most important question is how to keep a sound moral compass when dealing with darkness (how to not let it get to your soul)?