r/The48LawsOfPower

Myth - “Doing more automatically leads to success”

Once as a new hire, in a multinational company, I began my journey there with guns blazing. I was a junior engineer and I thought I had to prove my value at all cost. The first thing I noticed was that the machines had a high downtime.

Unbeknownst to me, the company was trying to save money on mechanical parts and had decided to keep using old parts instead of purchasing new ones. This caused the machines to require higher maintenance time. But this didn’t matter. What mattered more for the technical director is to show management that the cost of machine repair was decreasing.

Oblivious to this priority, and after I did my homework and learned about the accumulated time the machines had to be stopped, I went ahead and ordered the missing parts without consulting my manager. And if you are wondering whether this was a part of my responsibilities, the answer is yes. But unofficially I wasn’t allowed to do that. It was my naive initiative. The “doing more” myth.

When he discovered what I did, he was furious and apparently not pleased at all. He stormed into my office, his face all red, and in a burst of anger he shouted: “Why do you care about the machines’ downtime?”. Someone had apparently told him that I knew about the repair times.

Doing more doesn’t result automatically in more recognition. And this is perhaps the most common myth in modern companies. You assume that: more work, more effort, and more sacrifice will naturally produce upward movement. Sometimes it does but many people spend years discovering a painful reality: execution alone rarely guarantees recognition. Simply because organizations are not pure meritocracies.

Learning this early in my career helped me navigate power dynamics more effectively. One year after this incident, I was summoned to the factory director’s office and I was offered a promotion to replace the technical director.

In many organizations, visibility matters more than volume and perception matters more than effort. Even more important is association which matters more than contribution. Two employees can produce the same amount of work while receiving completely different levels of influence and advancement.

Why?

Because organizations are human systems before they are merit systems.

People reward:

  • familiarity,
  • emotional comfort,
  • political alignment,
  • usefulness to their own interests.

Not merely output.

Hard work without positioning often turns people into invisible executors: highly useful, heavily loaded, and strategically ignored. Cogs in the machine.

This becomes even more true in the age of AI. As execution becomes cheaper and more abundant, your ability to shape perception and influence decisions becomes increasingly valuable.

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Love interest just re-entered my life recently, how do I keep her from running?

Long story short a woman I wasn’t in contact with for 9 months re-entered my life this past weekend. I’ve been relaxed, unmoved by her testing and haven’t initiated contact with her anytime we’ve communicated (because she’s still blocking and unblocking for no reason whatsoever, no arguments or back and forth discussions and already she’s blocked me but will unblock when she wants to talk to me).

I know that her behavior is immature and I recognize that I should forget about her and find someone else: those are things I intend to do in the near future anyway.

In any case, how do I break her out of these maladaptive behaviors? If I tell her that blocking/unblocking is not conducive to us rebuilding our connection, I think I’ll be indicating that her behavior bothers me. In a healthy connection, I would be communicating that but since she’s not a healthy person, she’d probably leverage that information and know that she can control me by blocking and unblocking when she’s trying to be manipulative.

My goal is to condition her out of these behaviors but I want to do so without communication because her communication skills are not the best and she perceives most things as conflict.

How would you keep someone like this from being flighty and running away? How can I continue to draw them in without reaching out or making any moves to show that I want them to come to me?

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u/_gametheorist_ — 3 days ago

Seeing through smokescreens and predicting “unpredictable” people?

One of the more effective techniques I’ve noticed is when people act in ways that make their future actions hard to predict. This allows them to put people off balance and even intimidate people with more overt power, disrupting expectations and making people think twice. Other times they’ll use a red herring, and then seemingly inconspicuous details will actually turn out to be parts of their plan. I hear a lot about how to use this tactic yourself, but not a lot about how you can counteract it and see through the smokescreen your opponent is trying to put up.

One way I’ve seen other people in higher positions counter this is to set up very clear and specific rules as to what they’re allowed to do. If someone maneuvers in a genuinely unexpected way, they will immediately pull them aside and demand a full explanation, even for minor details. It looks like cutting down on ways the adversary can potentially maneuver helps a lot.

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u/Majestic-Lunch6684 — 3 days ago
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making money with my gf with se

so me and my gf wanted to start making money and we started by selling pics and vids with her image and scamming guys who wanted fully nude stuff and last time i posted on here ppl thought i was selling her actual content but no im not we are scamming with her image and close the sales with her voice as proof of person so higher succusses rate of scam we generated 100$ everyday we did it through dating apps all funneling to snapchat and payment through cashapp

But recently we got banned on hinge so i need a workaround for it i heard burner phones or virtual machine work but have yet to succussed in either of those yet but to combat the monopoly hinge had on us we set up accounts throughout the dating apps so it equals out to the same amount of people but if there is a way around pllsssss help

tinder is up and working with us getting 4k likes everyday but i have yet to respond to the messages because im scared of getting the account banned so ive resorted to just matching and hoping they see the snap from her account but ik if i message we can def get more sales but idk how without spamming lol maybe ai but due to my fright i have started to spam message thru yubo and its been working great honestly because they are more Linette on spams i think [less strict] lol

but thats how ive seen money so far i need advice on how to spam on tinder and work around hinge pls :}

ik this post here might seem weird but if theyres anywhere i can get advice or talk to people with the same goal pls point me to that direction

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u/Double_Audience1276 — 8 days ago

48 Laws in Your First 90 Days

Salute my fellow Machiavellians.

I recently started working at a new organization and it has been a success so far mapping out small wins and bite size accomplishments every week.

It’s easy to come on too strong when you’re around a new team, boss, and company culture. Especially for those who constantly compare situations to “my last job”, or make team members/boss feel insecure with their knowledge/skillsets.

That being said, this is exactly why my 90 day strategy was predicated on “saying less than necessary” and “concentrating my forces”. At this stage of life, never outshining the master is second nature and simply comes natural as I’ve had 5 new bosses in the span of 2 years (new job and the last).

What are some challenges that you’ve encountered in your first 90 days in a new job or role and how did you leverage the 48 laws to achieve your success?

Peace 🙏🏾

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u/Medical_Shake8485 — 10 days ago