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What's a struggle men have that women don't understand?

The lived experiences of men and women are wildly different, and often the inversion of one another.

A man who hasn’t heard a kind word about him in months is unlikely to understand what it’s like to have ‘compliments’ shouted at them by strangers, from car windows.

A woman who feels like the spotlight of society is burning down upon her shoulders is unlikely to understand what it’s like to walk through the world like a ghost.

Someone who is treated as precious, infantilised at all times, wrapped in cotton wool and coddled, will struggle to see what it’s like to be disposable.

It’s like someone in the desert, dying of dehydration, trying to understand someone drowning in the middle of the ocean, gasping for air.

It is only through listening to the lived experiences of the opposite sex that we can ever hope to understand them…

So, men, what’s a struggle you have that most women don’t understand?

u/TheTinMenBlog — 10 days ago
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France abandons abused men...

The online world falls over itself to tell men to talk and “ask for help”. 

But have such people ever taken the time to look around to see that, for many men, whether they ask or not – there is no help for them?

Many such men are in France.

Abused men that is, for whom there is still no dedicated support line to help them.

And so, a man in France, who is the victim of abuse: how can we tell that man to “ask for help”, when there is none out there for him?

Thankfully, some politicians are pushing for change. In July 2025, Maud Petit MP formally asked the government to create a men’s equivalent of 3919, France’s national helpline for abused women.

After several months of silence, in March 2026, the Minister for Equality, Aurore Bergé, finally responded.

And the answer she gave, sadly, won’t shock you…

Let’s take a look.

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Read the full response here https://questions.assemblee-nationale.fr/q17/17-8484QE.htm

u/TheTinMenBlog — 13 days ago