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sick of secondhand fragrance causing asthma attacks
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sick of secondhand fragrance causing asthma attacks

People all over the world are having trouble breathing because of secondhand scent from laundry, perfume, and cologne that pollute shared air. If you can't smoke there, don't wear scent there.

Fragrance is ableist. I'm tired of facing constant asthma attacks because of people's scented laundry, wearing scent or fragrance is rude and inconsiderate of others. One in twelve people has asthma, people need to stop saying their scents "don't bother others." If you are in a room with eleven other people, your perfume and laundry scents could kill one of them.

The Japanese have a word for assaulting others with scent, it's Sumehara--"smell harassment." Monster fragrances, beast mode scents, and wearing anything that others can smell is scent harassment. Scented laundry products are definitely smell harassment. I'm tired of being polite when other people's optional fragrance crap can kill me.

u/TopazCoracle — 3 days ago

I'm ableist but I'm disabled and I didn't know I'm ableist but someone said I'm ableist so I am.ableist.

This person on Instagram was bullying someone's compression socks. So I told them they shouldn't do that and it's ableist. But they said that I'm ableist. So now I'm ableist because they said so. What do I do? I think I'm faking my disability because I can't be disabled if I'm ableist. I'm scared. What do I do? Should I k**l myself? Because ableists think that disabled ppl shouldn't live. And I'm disabled. So then I shouldn't live right? What do Ido? Please answer someone. How do I stop being ableist.

u/PollutionLimp2031 — 4 days ago
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I feel like crying right now

So I frequent a Certain sub for some things everytime an autistic child is brought up and posted their parent is accused of being entitled and having a horrible child am I overreacting? I wonder what’s the difference between advocacy and entitlement?
Example a child starts melting down in a public space and people only care about the child being potentially disruptive

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u/misspoodleisback — 10 days ago
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Media teachings and ableism

To me ableism largely exists without being checked because

a) people can’t handle thinking about their own weaknesses and vulnerabilities

b) media and history haven’t taught society that ableism is in the same concept as racism, sexism, etc.

One of the most annoying things to me is an ableist liberal, as they’re supposed to be taking pride in equality and having more concern about systematic issues that contribute to this type of discrimination.

Of course ableists of any political affiliation suck, but the hypocrisy among some liberals in this regard is still kind of shocking to me.

Pardon my rant, but I recently had a VERY liberal friend say some ableist things, and it still kinda sends me.

So, how to we get this type of discrimination to be taken more seriously? Even the types of groups that are supposed to be supportive really kind of aren’t in many ways.

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u/UseWeekly4382 — 9 days ago

Am I ableist

I've never expressed hate online or in real life, but I would never find myself hanging out with an autistic person who's sensitive or unintelligent, i don't really have this with other disabilities

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u/standreadyformclovin — 11 days ago
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If you're in the Metro-west Area of Boston - Somerville/Medford/Cambridge/Watertown, etc. I'M LOOKING FOR PEOPLE WHO ARE INTERESTED IN...

Hi Everyone, I'm going to cross-post this, but I'm not sure who in here is in the Metrowest area of Massachusetts outside of Boston?

Somerville/Cambridge/Medford/Watertown... that neck of the woods.

I'm working on building a network of people who can live "interdependently" with others who have invisible disabilities. If you're interested in helping me start something so we can help each other out, please let me know so we can put our spiky skill sets together and help each other when we can.

I'd have to come up with some guidelines... ex. any support autism but low-support requests (ex. driving, grocery store trips/buddies, etc.)

If you're in this area and think this would be helpful, please feel free to DM me.

Thanks!

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u/bischa722 — 12 days ago