Shame
People bare Shame like a walking billboard of scars. Each only carved into a soul shackled by the weight of living for others and not themselves. They feel the overwhelming urge to please the ones around them creating this draining effect on their life.
Shame isolates you, belittles every carefully unique trait you have to offer. This is simply a tatic shown by people who have refused to heal or view you as a threat therefore gaslighting you into thinking low of yourself on the confidence scale. This disgusting behavior is not a reflection of you its the audience that displays this behavior towards you.
This is a stem of jealous in its infant form that is threatening to a blooming light. This is why many bitter individuals posses such flaw that further isolates their progression in life to form into a new being. When shame is displayed it can also be conditioned through self criticism in some states therefore your inner monolog is cracked.
Society has conditioned your inner monolog to cripple your self worth and postive setting. On the limited mobility scale shame is just a highly visible scar that is carried like shackles and chains that weight us down. We feel very low of ourselves because our limitations hold us back in some way especially when society is dimming our light.
Shame is a deep wound rooted in wounded beings from the lack of empathy they were given in any given moment. This creates jealous and further distancing amongst people in all circles. Shame is a evil root in social settings opening the door to comparison which we all know is the theif of joy.
When a being expirences profound amount of shame they began to become crippled in mindset therefore downplaying their abilities and gifts. Its a bullying tatic that simply ruins a person deep within and scatters their thought processes presenting the sense of " not being good enough."
This also places a part in what you also entertained in your circle. As humans by default we are very impressionable because we crumble under the feelings of wanting to be liked. Some literally strain themselves on the people pleasing because they get a temporary high from the praise of their one sided catering actions.
This creates low self esteem and a pick me mentality that cripples the fragile being even more making them more open to narasstic abuse and worse instances. Preforming for others validation is a great mistake because people walk all over you and even worse are never pleased with themselves so why would they be pleased with you?
Living for yourself is validation your mindset forever craves beyond the one set condition default you've lived in so long. You tend to see yourself in the mirror staring back at yourself and either know you destined for greatness or simply feel cold and emotionless to you pale reflection staring back at you.
Shame is a great weapon that is used against people that have gifts beyond what they are conditioned to think. It's simply all in the matter of cleaning your life and mindset to rebuild such confidence and break the cycle of shame. People shame you for what they are either lacking on the knowledge scale or simply see the power you hold when you walk into a room basic human nature.
When a predator feels threaten they are going to pounce of what they think is vulnerable prey. Don't be that vulnerable prey be the underdog predator " decoy" if you will. Give them a fight they wished they never even pounced at.
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