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[22M] Fast food worker [F] leaves "enjoy :)" or wink or smiley faces on my food/drink, but only for me. Is she just being friendly or flirting?

I’m a regular at a local drive-thru, and over the past few weeks, a girl who works the window started leaving little marker marks and smileys on my coffee lids.

I wasn't sure if she just does this for everyone as part of customer service, so I ran a little test:

  1. I sent my friend through her line while I hid in the back seat. He got a standard coffee with no drawings or notes.

  2. Immediately after, I went through and ordered my usual (iced coffee and a grilled cheese melt). Another coworker handed me the drink (no drawing), but she personally handed me my grilled cheese with "enjoy :)" explicitly handwritten in black marker on the wrapper.

I don't consider myself super high-tier attractive but above average and we haven't had any actual conversations yet besides ordering.
Is this just standard "friendly employee/regular customer" behavior, or is she dropping low-stakes
hints? Cause never in my life I have received any sorts of doodles on my food or drink.

How should I handle the next interaction without making things awkward at her workplace?

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u/jxprt — 1 day ago

Advice on sexual experiences.

Had my first kiss, it was horrible. Then gave a BJ and i just feel disgusting after. It was supposed to be a one time thing and he removed me on snap right after but it was not enjoyable:(
Also how should it feel after giving someone a BJ? I didn’t get anything enjoyable back out of it. I’m just nervous about being exposed but he didn’t take videos or anything of me.

Do i not like girls? Or do i not like sexual experiences? I’m only 19 so I don’t know how to feel

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u/Fun-Lemon-3763 — 11 days ago