u/M-Z66

My girl wants for tension in our relationship, how do I do that? help…

I’ve (19/M) been with my girl(19/F) for three years, we have a great relationship but we feel like we don’t have a spark, she has also brought up that she wants us to figure out how build tension and excitement in our relationship. How do I do this? She is pretty kinky but I need stuff for in public and private, I do all the gentlemanly stuff I think like hold her hand, sometimes her waist, starring, complimenting, but it doesn’t really do all that for her. She loves to read but will never tell me what parts of her freaky ah books she likes. For s\*x and foreplay, flirting, anything to give her butterflies or turn her on, i’ll do anything, please give me tips.