r/carefulheart

Not the first time...but might be the last one. For some reason the past few days have been too heavy. Nothing happened but the weight of everything that *has* happened is finally crashing down on me. I quit an 8 month long course in a field I was passionate about but no longer see it working out for me. I don't know, my body and mind just don't want to do anything anymore. I just wanna sleep and not think about anything

I am asking because many people's are in their depressed zone and no one talk to them

How's your life right now?

Are u old

I’m going on a second date this week with this girl. She texted me today to confirm. I checked the app and see that her profile is no longer there. Was I unmatched? How to tell the difference between unmatched and deleted account? Should I ask her about it on our second date?

Someone make me feel stupid so I can move on lol. Context: was seeing this older guy. Great chemistry. Told me he loved me. I said it back and he lowkey ghosted me.. feelings were hurt Fs. But.. now looking back this man was living in a garage.. I mean people struggle so I don’t want to judge but he was 37 living in a garage. And has two kids, very very little kids. Like I… i need to touch grass. Please bully me lol. Cause idk why my feelings are hurt over this dude.

What do you do?

I played hours of tetris before going to bed yesterday and woke up feeling determined to make something of my day for the first time in weeks. Ik tetris is good for mental health in specific situations but I wonder if it helps you get back on track after being down as well? Finally left my room and was productive for the first time in a while!!

He told me he loved me. More than once. Said he wanted to make me happy… told him I love you on Monday. Dodged me. Haven’t heard from him since… texted today saying hey:) he responded back quickly with hey:) . Asked when can I see you again😔?? (How I normally message). He never responded lol. God has a funny way of humbling you. Never had anyone tell me they loved me. When I finally do… apparently it was a joke. Now I’m laying here wondering when will it finally be my turn. When will someone ACTUALLY love me. Also why tf would he do that?!! Especially at his very adult age.

Do any of you finding a daily life problem you wish someone fix that?

Ever fell down. Tell
Us why