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George Reichelt U.S. Army Horseshoer

Washington Soldiers Home Cemetery in Orting, Washington

u/ktvplumbs — 1 day ago
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Bleikøya island memorial: what does the shape of the stone signify?

We visited this memorial to two brave Norwegian resistance fighters from WW2. I’ve never seen a grave marker or memorial with this specific shape. Does anyone know its meaning?

u/fodgeparker — 2 days ago
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England – What could legally happen if I interred my mum’s ashes in an existing family plot without permission?

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My mother passed away last Christmas. She was still very young, and I miss her more than I can put into words.

There is a churchyard in England where my grandmother (her mum) and my mum’s two sisters have had their ashes interred in the same family plot. It had always been our understanding, and more importantly my mum’s wish, that when she died her ashes would be interred with them.

I recently contacted the vicar to arrange this and was told that the plot is now considered full and that my mum’s ashes cannot be added. I explained that I am not asking for a new plot — I only want her ashes to be placed in the existing family plot — but the answer was a firm no because there is apparently no further capacity.

I’m absolutely heartbroken by this. To me, putting her somewhere else feels completely wrong. She belongs with her mum and her sisters, and this was what she wanted.

So my question is purely about the potential legal consequences:

What could realistically happen if I interred her ashes in the existing family plot myself, without the church’s permission?

I know exactly where the family plot is and would not knowingly disturb anybody else’s remains or any other plot. I’m also not talking about damaging the church or memorials.

I understand that doing this without permission may be unlawful, and I’m not asking whether it’s advisable. I’m trying to understand what law I would actually be breaking and whether this would be a civil matter, a criminal offence, or potentially both, and what penalties or consequences I could face.

For example, could I be fined, prosecuted, required to remove the ashes, or face some other consequence?

I appreciate this probably sounds extreme, but this is incredibly important to me and I want to understand the legal position before I make any decisions.

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u/Famous_Shallot_4678 — 3 days ago
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Behind The Scenes: Location Scouting 👻🍑

A few times a week with like to get to different locations and find areas to explore without disturbing anyone or anything! We have probably so far hit 40 different locations 👻👻

u/_SpoookyBoooty — 2 days ago
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Whitby abbey

Went to Whitby abbey yesterday, seen in here some wonderful grave stones and thought I would add my own. This lady was born in 1661!

u/SupportBeginning5932 — 4 days ago

Baby Ernest Tuttle

lPineview Cemetery in Rocky Mount, North Carolina.

The marker memorializes Ernest Tuttle, the infant son of Herbert and Kathleen Elliott Tuttle, who passed away in March 1932.

u/ktvplumbs — 3 days ago

My wife would come back, kill me, and then make say her name over and over and over for eternity.

She died before him. I wonder if he knew her name? 😂

u/Honey_Leading — 3 days ago
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Titanic Grave Sites, Halifax NS, Canada.

One hundred and twenty-one victims of the RMS Titanic sinking are interred at Fairview, more than any other cemetery in the world. Most of them are memorialized with small gray granite markers with the name and date of death. Some families paid for larger markers with more inscriptions. The occupants of a third of the graves, however, have never been identified and their markers contain just the date of death and marker number. Surveyor E. W. Christie laid out three long lines of graves in gentle curves following the contours of the sloping site. By co-incidence, the curved shape suggests the outline of the bow of a ship.^([3]) A complete listing of those victims buried in Fairview can be found here.

u/Horror_Concern_2467 — 4 days ago
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Patrick Joseph Kennedy 1898 – 1923 • Killed instantly in a catastrophic explosion at age 25

Rookwood Cemetery • Sydney, Australia

Patrick Joseph Kennedy, aged 25, was killed instantly on 1st June 1923 when a catastrophic explosion destroyed the Allan Liversidge acetylene gas and calcium carbide factory on Hutchison Street, Annandale, where he was working as the nightwatchman. The blast completely demolished the building, shattered windows throughout the surrounding area and was heard across the neighbourhood.

A coronial inquiry investigated the disaster, taking evidence from the Explosives Department and the company. Although the exact cause of the explosion was never determined, it was believed to have involved the ignition of volatile acetylene gas associated with the factory’s carbide operations. The tragedy was one of Sydney’s most significant industrial explosions of the era.

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u/sweet_thursday_ — 5 days ago

Apparently she loved cats

Beulah Lee Rutherford Carter in Hereford, Texas. What a great memorial!

u/Honey_Leading — 4 days ago
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A Young Life Lost on Regent Street | Cecil Edwin Hudson 1888 - 1898

In April 1898, Cecil Hudson, the young son of Redfern timber merchant George Hudson, was fatally injured in a cycling accident in Regent Street, Sydney.

Cecil was cycling with his older brother when they encountered a six-horse wagon carrying sheepskins near the intersection of Regent and Banks streets. While swerving to avoid a passing milk cart, Cecil’s bicycle slipped on the wet wooden roadway, throwing him beneath the heavily laden wagon. One of its wheels passed over his left thigh, causing catastrophic injuries.

He was rushed to hospital, where doctors were forced to amputate his leg due to severe crushing and damage to the major arteries. Despite their efforts, Cecil died later that evening.

Rookwood Cemetery, Sydney Australia

Find a Grave:
https://www.findagrave.com/memorial/93912294/cecil-edwin-hudson

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u/sweet_thursday_ — 5 days ago

Some memories from Sheffield General Cemetery (2024)

The cemetery was turned into a park in 1970s, but a lot of monuments were left there. Some were left to be taken by nature (they have little fence around them and a warning not to enter). The biggest chapel in the cemetery, you can actually rent it for events (!!!). I fell in live with this place, it scratches the gothic itch in me.

u/-_crescent_--_moon_- — 5 days ago
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What is it that is making the grass brown quicker over the graves?

Saw this in a dry part of the country while visiting relatives in the cemetery. Best guess is that the soil is different when it’s turned over. Any thoughts?

u/struggleberry70 — 7 days ago

William "Bill" Dane Retired Logger and Fire Chief of 35 Years

American Legion Cemetery in Granite Falls Washington

u/ktvplumbs — 5 days ago

Picnic on grave?

Hey there! So this is dumb and I don't really know cemetery etiquette but 40 years ago, my mom's fiance passed away suddenly. He was buried pretty close to where I live and my mom won't go visit the grave. I wasn't related to him by any means but something about it makes me kinda sad and I thought it would be nice if me and my friend go and have a picnic on his grave to just... Chat and update him on how my mom's life turned out. I'm not sure if that would be considered disrespectful or seen as like... Breaking a rule? So any like... Advice would be helpful. Thank you!

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u/Holiday-Ferret1641 — 7 days ago