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Does empathy have a caste?
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Does empathy have a caste?

i’ve seen girls openly post about the creepiest dms they’ve received, and rightly so. but when the same kind of objectification is directed at brahmin girls, why does that concern suddenly disappear? why is there no similar outrage or defence?

why is there such a selective understanding of oppression and discrimination?

you don’t have to agree with brahminism, or with the social history associated with the community, to recognise that individual women are not legitimate targets for caste-based abuse. calling them “noolu”, “p*pathis”, or using similar slurs doesn’t become acceptable simply because the people being targeted belong to a historically privileged caste.

if we’re genuinely against misogyny, harassment and caste discrimination, then that principle shouldn’t change depending on who the target is. criticism of a caste system is one thing; reducing individual women to their caste and dehumanising them because of it is another.

selective empathy is still selective.

u/Ok-human-005 — 7 days ago
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Looking for a shared room around Perungudi and nearby areas

Hey all! I’m looking for a shared room in an existing flat around Perungudi, Thoraipakkam, Tharamani, Thiruvanmiyur or Sholinganallur.

I’m planning to move in by December 1st. If anyone has a vacancy or is looking for a female roommate, please let me know.

Please DM me if you have any leads. Thank you! 😊

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u/vishhhnu25 — 5 days ago

Chennai is changing and I hate it

I came to Chennai from Andhra 7 years ago and struggled for a few months maybe due to the language. But once I started trying to learn tamil I was welcomed with warm hands by every tamizhan I have encountered. I understood that respecting the language is more important than speaking it as I spoke with lots of mistakes (which I still do) and they didn't even bother to correct but understood my broken tamil. The food scene was also the same initially I struggled as I didn't find the right spots but once I did, I had the best tastes in chennai. I started loving this city more than hyderabad and I still do but it's been changing now. I see telugu people wherever I go. Technically I should feel happy as I can be with my own but the way some of them behave is driving me nuts. They are not ready to respect tamil let alone learn it. They blame the food after eating in the worst possible spots. They are blaming the weather as if they were born and brought up in air conditioning and they are mocking tamil people as if everyone is perfect. I am not saying only these people are the problem, everyone who is coming to Chennai from other places is not ready to embrace the city and affect others moods as well and I hate this. I hope this phase of Chennai will pass.

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u/The-Boogieman-76 — 11 days ago

Yelagiri is such a disappointment

Travelled from Chennai to yelagiri for 5 hrs and there was nothing much there except 2-3 places..they can try to develop that hills more so that it can become good tourist spot..

City also was dirty and not that aesthetical..like how can a tourist spot roads be this poorly maintained..despite of all this,all hotels were full ..

Just a rant..Potu adikathinga pa..

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u/Efficient_Fly_9232 — 11 days ago

This is so sad to look at

At-least get those kids a helmet, that’s a bare minimum. Every morning I see thousands of school kids go to school with their parents in two wheelers, and hardly anyone gives their kids a helmet, but the one who’s driving it wears a helmet. When will people understand that Helmets are for safety and not to escape the police who are already dumb in the first place. Parents who drive their kids around without putting a helmet on them should be punished severely than those who drive without a helmet. If The driver doesn’t wear a helmet its his choice he has chosen to risk his life, its not the same with small kids.

u/Inevitable-Revenue37 — 11 days ago