Just got rejected after 6 interview rounds. Some thoughts.
Two loops at a well-known game studio for an SE2 role. First team passed after HM + DevOps + coding. Recruiter referred me to another team — did HM, DSA, and system design. Got rejected today: they wanted more depth in design, cloud, and Java.
60+ hours of prep, weeks of mental load, and the inbox-refreshing wait at the end was honestly the hardest part.
But here's what I'm taking forward:
Don't tie your worth to one outcome. The market is full of strong candidates. Rejections are often about fit, not ability.
Always ask for feedback. I asked and got specific, actionable points — what to sharpen in system design, where I over-engineered. Most people never get this. Ask.
Upskill constantly, not just before interviews. The people who land offers built their reflexes over time, not in a panic week.
Every loop compounds. The first "no" led to the second loop. The recruiter said they'd keep my profile on file. Relationships and feedback carry forward.
If you're deep in a tough loop right now — keep going. The long game matters more than any single round.
TL;DR: Rejected after 6 rounds. Painful, but walked away with clear feedback and a sharper plan. Don't let one outcome define you — ask for feedback, keep upskilling, play the long game.
(Note: written with help of AI since I had a chat running on this — wanted to share while it was fresh.)