r/exsaudiR4R

25F4M looking for a real connection

Hello

I’m not into strategic ways of getting to know someone so i’m looking for someone to have a good connection with if you're only into small talk i'm probably not the one

I like people who have their own interests and can discuss them mine are reading about history and philosophy and i enjoy a fun debate

Girls, you’re welcome too if you wanna be friends :)

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u/BedHot2570 — 6 hours ago

22F4M

I’m someone who takes life seriously. I’m ambitious, disciplined, and I spend most of my time studying, learning, reading, or working on my goals. I’d honestly describe myself as a nerd, and I love that about myself. I enjoy deep conversations, intellectual curiosity, and people who are passionate about constantly improving themselves.
I’m very direct, decisive, and I have strong boundaries. I know exactly what I want, and I’m not the type to lower my standards just to be in a relationship. I value logic over drama, consistency over empty words, and actions over promises.
I’m only interested in a relationship that’s intentionally moving toward marriage. I’m not looking for hookups, casual dating, or situationships.
I’m looking for someone from Jeddah, at least 177 cm tall, around my age, non-Muslim, and childfree by choice. I want someone who’s emotionally mature, financially responsible, ambitious, well-educated, communicates openly, respects boundaries, and genuinely enjoys building a stable life together.
I’m also only interested in a genuine FLR. It’s not a fantasy or something I’m experimenting with it’s the relationship dynamic I naturally prefer. If that’s not something you’re genuinely comfortable with, we’re simply not compatible.
I know my standards aren’t for everyone, and that’s intentional. I’d rather stay single than compromise on the life and relationship I want.

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u/LemonPutrid8106 — 12 hours ago

كلمونا عن تجاربكم

ممكن اللي جربوا وقابلوا ناس من الصب هذا (سواء صداقة او علاقة) ونجحوا يشاركوننا؟

دايم افكر انزل بوست خصوصاً بمجتمعنا الواحد يحس بالوحدة وان محد يشبهه، بس ابي اكون لي مجتمع صغير اكون genuine معهم بس يغلبني الخوف بسبب ان اللي يشاركون تجاربهم كلها سلبية.

الموضوع مو مقتصر على علاقات حتى صداقات، any luck؟

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u/SeaMechanic5711 — 1 day ago

28F4M | relationship

I’m a hejazi woman who’s passionate and focused about her career. I come from a Sunni background.

I’m a nerd and an artist, I love to draw and share my knowledge with those around me. I’m 157 cm, 63 kgs, and I go to the gym to be even more fit. I think of myself as highly feminine. I love being social in general.

I’m looking for someone hejazi, so that marriage is not a problem in the future. Has a passion about life, especially music. Someone who’s willing to have deep conversations, and cares about his own health. Also tall, hopefully.

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u/Beneficial_Yogurt391 — 2 days ago

25M4F

Hi I'm 189cm Muscular and tan skin

I'm kinda introverted and I live alone I like reading about human behavior and psychology, i truly enjoy artistic things like playing guitar and piano and taking pics and been doing it for years now

I love watching movies and late night rides and cooking and playing chess,

I cook and clean since I live alone in jeddah and I moved here recently,

I'm a good listener and like ppl with high emotional intelligence and consistency,

My love language is quality time

I know exactly what I want in life and I work towards it,

Btw idm older women at all

I honestly don't know if anyone will dm me but I'll be willing to get to know u on a deeper level if u do.

Fun and creative dms are always welcomed < 3

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u/Calm_Bar9883 — 3 days ago

25MF4A

I’m a 25 transwoman,c I’d love to meet people I genuinely connect with and enjoy spending time with. I lived my entire life in Riyadh and while I’ve met a lot of people, most connections have felt pretty surfacelevel or just not the right fit.

I’m not looking for fwb or a relationship. If a real connection naturally grows into something more, that’s great but I’m not forcing or expecting it.

What I’m really looking for is someone I can talk to about anything, from deep conversations to completely random and silly topics. I want to feel comfortable being myself around them.

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u/Traditional_Bar5715 — 3 days ago

18f4ALL

Looking for FRIENDS from alhofuf/bahrain/khobar
Around the age of 19-24

About me!
Currently in uni doing MIS, from a sunni background, Im agnostic and i love discussions about religion and society.
Im also interested about philosophy and psychology

Hobbies:
I love traveling!! Fashion, makeup, video games (overwatch,minecraft,roblox)

please be nice and respectful NSFW messages will be ignored.

Im looking for healthy friendships and people where i can be myself with🎀
Im giving this subreddit one more chance in hope that maybe ill end up finding someone🙏

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u/leenyloveslemon — 4 days ago

28M4F

أنا رجل من خلفية سنية قبيلية من الشرقية. لا اكتراثي احب مجتمعي وعائلتي و أعيش بواقعية و اؤمن أن أذكى طريقة للعيش هي أن تلعب دورك الاجتماعي باحتراف، وتحتفظ بحقيقتك لمن يستحق.

أركز على تطوير نفسي وعملي .

اعمل في وظيفة ممتازة ودخلها ممتاز

​وقتي مقسم بين التمارين الرياضية و الاهتمام بالصحة لكني لست "راعي جيم" احب الصراحة و الغوص في التفاصيل وجلسات هادية و نقاشات شائكة تكسر الملل

احب القهوة ولكني من مؤسسين حزب الشاي أستمتع بالتفاصيل البسيطة: تحدي بولينج العاب طاولة أو تحليل قصة معقدة.

احب الافلام و المسلسلات

​أدور إنسانة تشاركني هالـ سر نكون جزء طبيعي من المجتمع برا، وداخل بيتنا نكون أحرار تماماً. إذا كنتِ تدورين على استقرار مبني على عقلانية، ثقة، وشراكة حقيقية بدون تمثيل راسليني .

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u/ExhaustedBearing — 5 days ago

bro the bar is in hell

هاي مرة ثانية👩🏻‍🦽‍➡️

بصراحة رجعت جربت وحطيت بوست مرة ثانية وتخيلوا اكتشفت ان الفئة اللي قاعدة تجيني حرفيا مو الفئة اللي ابحث عنها ابدا
جوني ناس للحين ضايعة ومو عارفة وش تبغى وناس عندهم فيتشز وكينكس غريبة وناس كذابة بس يبغون علاقات مؤقتة وتخدير وتضييع وقت غريب صح؟ مع اني كنت واضحة وعارفة وش ابغى ووش اللي يناسبني من البداية الا انه للحين تجيني الاشكال هذي اللي ماطلبتها ولا ابغاها لدرجة حسيت ليه مااحط حساباتهم هنا بس من كثرهم هههه مااقدر المهم اعتقد السولميت حقي مو موجود هنا بس يلا عالاقل حاولنا وجربنا. انتبهوا لنفسكم ولا تخلون احد يشككم بانفسكم او باستحقاقكم🍒

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u/okinpf — 7 days ago

24 F4M

heya! ♡
Honestly, I kept going back and forth on whether I should even post this because I always feel like meeting someone through a post like this kind of makes things romantic from the start… but oh well, I’ll give it a shot. :p

I’m 24, from Riyadh, and I just graduated with a STEM degree. I’m 165 cm tall, around 55 kg, and I’m a really easygoing, playful person who loves enjoying life. I’m interested in all kinds of random things, and I love spending quality time with the people I care about whether that’s playing fun games together, watching movies, talking for hours, or just sharing our opinions on literally anything.

Oh, and if you’re curious about my favorite games :p they’re BioShock Infinite, Disco Elysium, Persona 5, The Wolf Among Us, and The Evil Within.

Even though I love having fun in a relationship, one thing that’s really important to me is emotional openness. I want to be with someone who’s comfortable sharing their feelings, fears, struggles, and little thoughts with me. I really value deep conversations and feeling emotionally close to my partner (but of course, once we’ve built that trust first)!

One more thing :p I’m agnostic and I don’t really have religious boundaries, but I’m actually very traditional when it comes to relationships. I’m not okay with female friends, just like I would never have male friends myself. I’m very emotionally conservative, and I tend to be quite protective of my relationship. :p

I’m very emotionally aware, and I naturally love taking care of the people I love. I love making them feel appreciated, supported, and cared for, so I’d really love someone who naturally does the same for me. ♡ affection, reassurance, and someone who’s not afraid to express how they feel.
So yeah… if you’re emotionally distant, struggle with showing affection, or you’re just not a very emotionally expressive person, we’re probably not the right match (Don’t text me pls pls, keep your nonchalant self away from me :p)

Oh, and I almost forgot to mention I’m from a tribal family, so for family reasons (not because I personally care), it’s important that my partner is also from a tribe.

If you think we’d
get along, feel free to message me. I’d love to hear from you!

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u/Dazzling_Tap2385 — 8 days ago

47M4F | Friendship and Hopefully Long Term Partner

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أنا رجل رياضي محترم وحنون ومقتدر على كل المستويات. تساقطت قناعاتي الدينية وأصبحت اعيش حياتين ككثيرين في مجتمعنا. ولكن لدي أسرة لن أتخلى عنها وزوجتي متفقة معي على عدم الانفصال مهما حدث. لكننا اصبحنا مختلفان جدا ومضطر للتعايش بشخصية ليست انا لأني انا الذي تغيرت أكثر عما كنا عليه. انا ادعمها طوال الوقت وهي لا تستطيع ان تسمح بأي ممارسة تختلف معها. وترى ان اعيش بقناعاتي حينما اكون وحدي. وانا ابحث عن من أشاركها نصف حياتي الآخر فالحياة لا تتكرر وقرارات الماضي تجبرنا على الالتزام بها ولكن لا يجب ان تشغل كل أوقاتنا.

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u/Equivalent_Phase1140 — 9 days ago

30M4F (marriage)

I’m 30 yo (1995), qabili + living in Riyadh (southern origin) + sunni background. Atheist.

I work in private sector, engineering background but working as a manager in a multinational company, stable career and above national average monthly income

Ambitious but careful not to skip on the small moments, as life itself is a series of small moments.

I like all aspects were humanity showed its brilliance, I like art, movies, music, novals, poems, philosophy, math… etc.

In terms of relationships, I value depth, empathy, emotional intelligence and mutual respect.
I like to joke when appropriate, discuss when serious, maintaining respect and empathy at all times.

I am a bit traditional when it comes to relationships, I blv that the man should be the provider. My acts of love are giving, touches and sweet talk.

I have a wide network of friends from all over Saudi, this is not to say I am fully extrovert, I like to say that 90% of the time, I think before I speak.

I have been told that I have a great sense of humor, compassionate and a good listener.

- 163cm, 62kg.
- Ex-smoker (I use dzrt)
- No history of substance use
- Not into parties unless family friendly
- Minimal Alcohol consumption ( never in KSA and not always when abroad)
- No health issues

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What I am looking for :
- Ex-sunni, qabili from Sarat (السراة)
- Birth year 1994-1999
- Psychologically ready for marriage, I prefer to introduce myself officially once we click and pass the vibe check. Willing to wait as long as this waiting is an investment to better understand and evaluate, not a waste
- Wants kids, the number of children is left for her but more than 0
- In tune with herself, and her society
- No genitic health issues , not in self nor in immediate relatives
- Willing to settle in Riyadh
- Minimal social media footprint

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u/Naive-Jello-2615 — 9 days ago

30F4M

ابحث عن شريك حياة منشغل بنفسه لاني ما ابي اقابله ٢٤ ساعة( يفضل يكون منشغل بشغله ولا هواية اي شي لو تلقيح النخل) والافضل بعد لو دوامه في مكان بعيد ولا مقطعه امزح والله هههههههههههه ويعرف يسولف عشان يواجه عند اهلي و شقردي لي ههههههههه.

الي اقدر اقدمه همم صراحة طبخي حلو، ورياضية وحلوة بعد واقدر اتفهم الشخص الاخر وتجيني حالات اعطي حنان بس على المزاج ههههههههه.

انا موظفة ومبتعثة فحالياً بس اقدر long distance relationship but I'm dating for marriage

عمره بين٢٨-٣٨

يكون مهتم بصحته (يفضل يكون يلعب او قد لعب رياضة مو بس جم)

وتكفون لا يجي واحد يقول اوه you are too good خلك واثق من نفسك مافيه احلى من الثقة

انا مو متدينة واحترم وجهات نظر الكل واهم شي الحوار خاصة اذا تطرقنا لمواضيع العائلة

منفتحة لأي مكان ولكن مدينة وليست قرية

خلفيتي سنية قبيلية

من الناحية المادية تكون مستقل مادياً وعند وظيفة مستقرة

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u/ms-ritz — 10 days ago

29M4F | Looking for a forever GF

Keeping it honest and simple

I am a calm and quiet person. I like to make things and turn my ideas into something real.

I love fitness and playing ping pong, I love food, and I am always happy to try a new restaurant.

I collect perfumes. And these days I am learning guitar.

And yes, I am a cat person.

I don’t really like texting. I am much better in person. So if we feel a connection, let’s just meet instead of texting.

I am looking for someone smart, non-smoker, with good chemistry between us.

If this sounds like you, send me a hi and tell me your favorite perfume.

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u/PangolinCheap2354 — 11 days ago

24F4M

Hello everyone....

I'm looking for a guy between 25-30 who’s either atheist or simply not religious.

I don’t believe love is some magical thing that happens overnight or like it does in movies. I think a real connection takes time, communication, mutual understanding, and seeing whether two people are actually compatible.

A little about me: I’m 24 and from sunni and qabili backround based in Riyadh. I enjoy conversations, exchanging perspectives, and getting to know how people think.

I’m not interested in long-distance relationships, I’d prefer someone who also lives in Riyadh.

Also, if you’re looking for something casual, short-term, or just someone to talk to because you’re bored, please don’t message me.

I’m looking for something genuine with long-term potential.

If this resonates with you, DM me and tell me a bit about yourself.

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u/sleepaddictPassenger — 13 days ago

24F4M

H Not sure if this is the right place, but figured I'd give it a shot I'm an atheist who's into coding, reading, and all things existential philosophy. Also love Arabic lit & poetry, drawing, music, singing, and sports. I swim and play padel regularly. Looking for someone rational, funny, and easy to talk to. I'd like to start by sharing everyday life, random thoughts, interests, etc., and if we click, hopefully build something real and serious together.
Preferences:

* Saudi
* From Medina
* Atheist
* From a Sunni family background (for family compatibility reasons)
* Active / into sports (doesn't mean you have to be an Olympian)

Not looking for anything casual. I'm interested in a serious relationship. Feel free to DM me if you think we'd get along

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u/Deep-Ad-1292 — 10 days ago

20M4A What happened to the sub that I loved?

After the sub got popular, it’s been full of people who only DM you to mess with you or for 18+ reasons. That’s basically what it’s turned into. Idk where to find people with the same religious values? Bec that place is done for me

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u/LittleFromMe — 14 days ago

33M4F | Riyadh Or Khobar | Friendship To Marriage

A little about me:

• I am 33 years old man.

• I hold a bachelor’s degree in engineering and recognized technical certifications.

• Financially stable with a very good monthly income.

• Qabeli (if that matters to you).

• Saudi , and I love my country.

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How I spend my free time:

• Traveling during vacations.

• Stock Trading.

• Family and Friends visits.

• Walking in parks or sidewalk.

• Watching movies and series.

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My values:

I value my family ,my country, honesty, personal growth, and genuine connection.

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What I’m looking for:

• Non-religious Saudi woman.

• Preferred to be in Riyadh, or Khobar.

• Younger than me ( born in 1995 or later).

• From a Sunni background.

• Non-vegetarian, because discovering new restaurants together is always more fun.

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If this sounds interesting, let’s talk:

Telegram: kdd122333

Instagram: razar2as

Looking forward to getting to know you…

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u/refresh778 — 13 days ago