My brother wants to do BFA and pursue filmmaking. Need honest advice from people who've actually been there ?
I'll be straight with you all because I'm tired of getting vague motivational answers.
Our family situation: Dad works a private job, earns ₹30k/month. That's it. That's the entire household income. We're not poor-poor but we're one bad month away from things getting tight. I somehow managed to get my engineering done.I won't even get into how much stress that put on the family and I'm now working as a software engineer earning around 7 LPA. I'm 23-24, still figuring my own life out, and I've basically become the second financial pillar of the house whether I wanted to or not.
My brother now wants to do BFA with a focus on filmmaking, editing, and visual media.
And here's the thing, I'm not dismissing him. I actually sat down and did real research on this. I went through LinkedIn, salary data, hiring patterns, what BFA grads actually end up doing vs what they thought they'd do. And the picture is... complicated. Not impossible, but not easy either.
What I'm scared of:
- Dad retires in maybe 8-10 years. I can't carry the whole house alone AND support my brother through 4 years of BFA + 3-4 years of figuring out a creative career.
- If it doesn't work out, he's 26-27 with a BFA, no savings, no fallback, and I'm 28-29 trying to get my own life together.
- I don't want to be the sister who crushed his dream. But I also can't pretend our financial situation allows for the same risk that a well-off family can take.
What I genuinely want to know:
- If you did BFA or a creative degree in India, how did the first 3-4 years actually go financially?
- Is there a version of this where he does BFA but also builds digital skills (editing, UI/UX, motion graphics) in parallel so he has a real backup within the same field?
- For those in filmmaking/editing how long did it honestly take to hit ₹30k/month consistently? That's our bar. Not wealth. Just stability.
Any advice, brutal honesty, or personal stories would help. Thank you.